For those of you already with your significant other...
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Iamnotchrishansen
Jiggy Blackson
As a young man who has had little intimate contact with women, my uncle told me that the "right one" will come to you. Was this the case with you guys?
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Iamnotchrishansen wrote...
As a young man who has had little intimate contact with women, my uncle told me that the "right one" will come to you. Was this the case with you guys?I don't believe in "THE ONE" but he is kinda right in the sense that you can't force someone to be right for you--they either are or are not.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
You have to wait for a person that works with you in a relationship. As in you can't force yourself to be someone you're not and you can't force someone to be something they are not. It just won't work in the long term.
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After two long years, my first love (who was my childhood best friend since I was 5 years old, who was also my neighbor, who was also my kindergarten, elementary, middle school, and high school classmate, who became my boyfriend when I was 12 until I was 17 and who is sitting here beside me XD) and I got together again today. I know he is the right one for me because he knows EVERYTHING about me and still loves me. He's the one I want to spend life making good and bad memories with. Most importantly, we forgive each other. I forgave him for cheating on me and he forgave me for letting him go.
That was the reason why we broke up two years ago, the whole thing was similar to that english movie, "Last Kiss". But I didn't believe in second chances so I left him. I was too proud to forgive him and it hurt him and me as well. We cut any form of communication between the two of us. I went to Japan for college and he went to Yonsei University here in Korea. We were both hurting. I was dead for two years.
We happened to spend a day together two weeks earlier at a festival in our high school. We did everything we used to do. It felt like we were never separated and I felt that I could finally let him go just by knowing that he can be happy without me. But I found out that he never had another girlfriend after me (I asked his mother and brother if this was true and they said yes.) and that he wanted me back. But we separated again that day without me giving him an answer because I was still too proud to do anything that was against my principle. I don't believe in second chances. So for two weeks, I was like a walking zombie. I couldn't forget the pain I saw in his eyes that day and it felt like someone was skewing my heart with a rusty knife. It still pains me to see him hurt. *stabs myself Juliet style*
And tonight, I called him because I realize now that I don't want another day without him. I finally realized that people forgive not because they're brainless martyrs but because they want people to stay in their lives and that they love them unconditionally. And I want to love him unconditionally.
I think this is my answer to your question. XD You'll know the right one if both of you are willing to love and to forgive despite everything and that no matter how much it hurts you, you'll give it another chance because you know that it hurts more when you're not together. If you meet a person whom you can do this for and who can also do this for you, then you know that the right person has finally come to you.
He's the right one for me. ❤
That was the reason why we broke up two years ago, the whole thing was similar to that english movie, "Last Kiss". But I didn't believe in second chances so I left him. I was too proud to forgive him and it hurt him and me as well. We cut any form of communication between the two of us. I went to Japan for college and he went to Yonsei University here in Korea. We were both hurting. I was dead for two years.
We happened to spend a day together two weeks earlier at a festival in our high school. We did everything we used to do. It felt like we were never separated and I felt that I could finally let him go just by knowing that he can be happy without me. But I found out that he never had another girlfriend after me (I asked his mother and brother if this was true and they said yes.) and that he wanted me back. But we separated again that day without me giving him an answer because I was still too proud to do anything that was against my principle. I don't believe in second chances. So for two weeks, I was like a walking zombie. I couldn't forget the pain I saw in his eyes that day and it felt like someone was skewing my heart with a rusty knife. It still pains me to see him hurt. *stabs myself Juliet style*
And tonight, I called him because I realize now that I don't want another day without him. I finally realized that people forgive not because they're brainless martyrs but because they want people to stay in their lives and that they love them unconditionally. And I want to love him unconditionally.
I think this is my answer to your question. XD You'll know the right one if both of you are willing to love and to forgive despite everything and that no matter how much it hurts you, you'll give it another chance because you know that it hurts more when you're not together. If you meet a person whom you can do this for and who can also do this for you, then you know that the right person has finally come to you.
He's the right one for me. ❤
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
In my case my significant other was my first love... then she come out... nine year later we got back with each other... isn't life weird.
The story is quite beautiful, but some stuff stay with us and not on the web forever.... like my pic of my piercings down below... still getting shit from that.
The story is quite beautiful, but some stuff stay with us and not on the web forever.... like my pic of my piercings down below... still getting shit from that.
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Well I've been with my girlfriend for about 10 years now...while some people will say why the he'll we don't get married, we are happy like that and we plan to maintain our relationship as long as possible. While waiting for "The One" could help you, you need to go out there and make "The One" come to her!
P.S. I love your sig.
P.S. I love your sig.
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there's enough people out there with great personalities that you don't need to be choosy to find 'the one'
If you find a girl attractive, just tell them.
If you like a girl, tell them.
nothing can go any further unless you take those first steps, at the very worst you would have given someone that you fancy a lovely compliment. it's a lot easier to say nice things to a girl when you mean it, then it is to put yourself out there and ask to go on a date.
.. but step 2 is asking them on a date.
If you find a girl attractive, just tell them.
If you like a girl, tell them.
nothing can go any further unless you take those first steps, at the very worst you would have given someone that you fancy a lovely compliment. it's a lot easier to say nice things to a girl when you mean it, then it is to put yourself out there and ask to go on a date.
.. but step 2 is asking them on a date.
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I wish I could tell you, but I don't see the right one appearing before my eyes either.
Well then again, I don't study and stay inside a lot so I have only myself to blame.
Well then again, I don't study and stay inside a lot so I have only myself to blame.
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
I wish I could tell you, but I don't see the right one appearing before my eyes either.Well then again, I don't study and stay inside a lot so I have only myself to blame.
I'll be your significant other.
[size=8]see i am nice[/h]
