HappyDia01 wrote...
Wow, you guys are kind of harsh on virgins... It isn't their fault they're inexperienced, and if they're giving you their first time (or their body, ever, period) that's a gift they're offering to you. You should be happy to recieve it, and not complain. Expecting perfection out of our sex partners ESPECIALLY on their first try is rather cruel, don't you think? It's awkward having sex for the first time with a new partner even if you aren't a virgin. You need to give them some time to get use to things. Once they're more comfortable, I'm sure they'll "improve" (jeez). If they're not willing to try - that's a fault of the person not the fact that they were still a virgin when you met them.
You misunderstand, I would never expect a virgin to have any skills, or be anything but a gentleman to the girl. As I have stated earlier then I have had the honor twice!
Both of them were my girlfriend and for both of them it of cause took a lot of time before they were ready, and they did not feel that great, but I was happy to do my best to give them the best experience I could, especially since the first time can often be more scary for a girl than a boy so I did my utmost to make them feel comfortable and I had a long relationship with both of them after I became their first :) (not at the same time of cause :P)
That being said, then I am older now and my expectations are different, e.g. I could not see myself being in a relationship without sex, since I think it is an important part and strengthens your feelings with your partner.
So maybe it sounds a bit harsh when I say virgins are bad in bed, but how could they be skilled when they have never practiced?? And if you have been practicing for many years then it is just not as fun to play with a beginner.
I would not say no to dating a girl if she was a virgin, but given my age it is unlikely to happen, and I would also have be very much in love with her, since I like good sex and love is probably the only thing that could give me the patience to be with her and wait for her to improve over time.