General Frustrations

I've been having a rough time with love lately.

The more I peruse this site, I find myself more and more confronted with exciting, exotic, and interesting sexual exploits and tales, usually stemming back in the teenager years. I can't help but feel I'm missing out... not only is my list of sexual experiences very small, but my curiosity and embarrassment over my lack of experience has driven me to some morally questionable things, things I wouldn't normally do or think about.

Fortunately, or unfortunately, nothing's come of these yet. Still a virgin.

So, my questions are thus: AM I missing something? Just because I never fucked a cousin or played a very naughty version of doctor in my youth, is my life irrevocably and unchangeably missing a huge chunk that can never be filled?

SECONDLY, in a theme that's been repeated in both the manga and stories in this site, is there really a way to drive an otherwise sensible girl into a mad, lustful state? And if there is, how the hell do I get her to that point? How much work do I need to do, and when is it time to realize you're just too damn ugly?

...I hope I didn't offend any girls with that remark. Sorry if I did! ^_^;

Any advice you can give me would help...

thanks...

First off, let me say what I'm about to type out is my opinion, and only my opinion. Nothing more, nothing less.

In order;

Are you missing anything/missing a huge chunk of life?

Depends. If you're going on 40 and still haven't had sex/made love, yes, you're missing out. However, if you're still in your early 20s, and still haven't gotten some, don't fret. It'll come in time (just hope not too much time). This goes for any sex fun, and sex in general.

Second question, can you drive a girl to a lustful, sex-crazed persona?

Again, depends. It is absolutely possible, however the amount of work varies from person from person, and even than, on average, it'd take a lot of work and trust. Yes, I said trust. If a women is not comfortable/enjoying herself, don't expect much... unless you drug them. In which case, shame on you.

Third; How do you get them there?

Oh lord... Well, the easy way I would presume; Drug them. I've heard of various ways, all of which I disagree with, both scientifically, and morally (I know, god forbid, I'm of FAKKU! and have morals). Other than that, a lot of work goes into it; you'd have to feed their tastes/fetishes, and make sure they feel re~ally good, among a few other, minor things. However, I have yet to hear of a successful experience, so... yeah. Just something to keep in mind.

Hope that helps.

Kinda. You're suggesting I keep playing the nice guy, and that just hasn't panned out for me yet: the nice guys get the nice girls, and the nice girls are the religious ones.

...maybe I'm just giving up too soon, it's just hard not to be discouraged when every other fakku member and their brother has some wild sex story dating back to when they were 12.

thanks

There's no problem with being a nice guy, and there's nothing wrong with religious types. It's the closed-minded religious types you should worry about. Granted, there's quite a few nice girls that aren't religious either. So yeah, it's too soon to give up. You're still young (so I presume), so just keep on trying. You're bound to find the one, just for you. Also, you don't need wild sex-capades to make life and sex exciting. When you meet the one, you'll understand.

Anyways, good luck, bro, and you're welcome.

First things first.

It seems like you have this mentality that "Everyone else is doing things. Why aren't I?"

This is a very common misconception of the world. Everyone else is not doing things.

This sort of things is usually brought on by feeling you are falling behind. I mean TV shows relationships working out in so many different ways, and you always see people talking about doing these things.

First off. TV is not real. The relationships on there are not realistic and you should never base anything on them no matter how tempting.

Second off. People lie. Even if they aren't lying everyone is different and so gauging your own sexual progress against other people is a no no.

Also if you are only focusing on the sexual part, women WILL notice. So the best you can hope for doing it that way is a girl slutty enough to be willing for it.

When it comes to relationships, wanting to get to know the person should be your priority. Sex is something that should come along naturally. Don't try to force it.

First of all, how old are you?

And well, "everyone here is doing it". About that, think for a second.

Let's say, 4 of each 10 persons are perverted and have done wild things because THEY are perverted and take those paths, sometimes by luck, sometimes by pushing it, sometimes just because.

Of those 4, just 2 are perverted enough to feel lust for manga characters (a.k.a. Hentai)

Of those 2, 1 of them found this forum. Came in and well, if someone pulls a topic about "fellations", for example, since that person is perverted and have experience in that area, of course all of them should know at least 1 or 2 wild stories about it.

But now, let's check again the numbers. 1 of each 4 perverted persons is here, and 1 of 10 persons you meet in the street (just an example, numbers can be even lower).

So in short, of 100 persons, probably 40 are perverted, and only 10 are hardcore enough to be here posting happily how they fap themselves all day, how they had it with their sisters, how their girlfriends are so crazy about sex that are willing to do it anywhere.

In short, this is not "everyone". This is a "group of persons who like these kind of stuff, do it usually, and for THAT reason is here".

Go into a cristianic church, one of those hardcore ones where they tell that you'll go straight to hell if you don't go wild talking about god to every person you meet. Everyone there is like that. Now, leave it and go to the real world. Is everyone like that?

Don't feel bad about not being like almost everyone here. This just makes me think that you don't socialize a lot. That might be your main issue here.

Ha, aw no. Don't worry about a thing.

They're called fantasies for a reason: they don't happen to everyone all the time.

yeah, I'm young. 19. Barely legally able to be on this site. Whootz!

I suppose, in this light, that makes more sense. But still, It's hard not to be at least a little intimidated.

I'll just keep on keepin' on. I wish the people in my town were as cool as you folks...

thanks!

I was a virgin until I was 21.

Don't worry so much about it.

Dude i feel ur pain i have the worst luck in the love department.

This, not everyone does those kind of things you know?

I sometimes wish I could do stuff like that. I have semi religious girlfriend, so I won't get to lose my virginity until we get married. I sometimes ask myself why I'm getting into such a serious relationship while I'm still young. I think 'I wish I could have some exciting sex adventures.' But then I think about my girlfriend and those thoughts go away. I can wait to lose my virginity for her. Love changes the way you think.

It's all about quality, not quantity.

in high school, i had a chance to get with two girls at once. they were in my room, on my bed. but by that time they were both pretty skanky and used up. so i went to sleep on the floor. upon hearing this story, many dudes have said that i was stupid, and though less of me. i may not have caught gonna-sypha-herpa-titus from them skanks. i just didn't want to take the chance.

i had a few one night stands, but they were pretty lame. awkward and uncomfortable. the best sex i ever had was with a steady GF. the more you get to know each others bodies and turn ons and such, and the more comfortable with each other you become, the better it is for both of you.

also, many people lie about their 'exploits'(espescialy men boys). don't take anyone too serious.

just as you said pal. Not the same at all, and in my case, I even felt grossed a time I had sex with a not even close girl. Not that she was ugly, she was fine and her pussy was cool, but there weren't any feelings at all so I kinda feel bad. Best sex is when you love or care about the person.

Funny fact, also doing it when you hate the person is good hehe... (no, I haven't raped anybody)

hate and love are basically the same coin, just different sides.

In the end, it is someone you care about a lot. Just one is positive caring and the other is negative caring.

grudge fuck. i did it once, with a friends ex who i never got along with. when they were going out, me and her always fought. i saw her later, after they broke up. one thing led to another, and we wound up in a motel room. it was a pretty good ego boost, knowing that she truely didn't like me, but that i made her cum a few times. it was like a porno, all the things i would never ask of a girl i cared about, i just told her to do them, and she did. it wasn't one sided though, i did some things she wanted that i wouldn't normaly do(tossed salad for one).

Amazingly, this isn't making me feel any better. -_-

lets not be rubbing stories in my face, kthnxs.

Mr.Shagg:

Mine was with a some-sort-of-ex-girlfriend, thanks to her the love of my life sent me to hell... I hold my grudge for many years without saying her anything, so she thought I was ok with her. I wouldn't go into details out of respect for Pocru, but I'll just tell you the end. After almost an hour and half of fuck, I told her "let's leave it like this. I didn't felt like doing it anyways." Her face: priceless. It's so easy to just move your legs aside and let yourself be fucked, and you are bad even for that. HAHAHAHA remembering this makes me so happy.

Pocru: Man! you'r still young! my first kiss was at 16 and my first time was at 18 years! you just need to meet new people, that's all. Don't push things, just find a natural way to do it.