girl asked me if I want to study with her

She maybe just wants to study with you or she may like you.
Tricky...

so we had the study date thing. she seems like she likes me and I like her. She wants to be a surgeon and I want to be a artist or a art teacher. anyways she is 4 years older than me lives at home with her parents and she has a baby. I don't know how I feel about that. I think she is really nice and attractive but I don't know what to do. I don't really want any kid responsiblities being 22 and all but I still really like her. she is nice, hardworking and cute and I she likes me. what do I do? I can't tell if I like her really because I just got out of a long term relationship and deep down I just want human affection (sex).

First off, congrats on her liking you. Now, leave aside the thoughts of the kid for a while. Think and feel deep down. Do you just want some consolation boning because you miss being in a relationship, or do you really like this woman? If it's the latter, please continue being close to her, since it seems the feeling may be mutual. When the time comes for the kid to come into the equation, you'll probably be ready. If she ever does bring it up early, just calmly and gently say your mind, about you still being young and haven't thought that much about kids.

Just take a deep breath and follow what your heart says. If it all works out, this may become your life! :D

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P.S. I'm just kidding about that last part. I know you're not ready to be a dad yet. :P

You can still get affection from this relationship if she has time to study with you then she has time to show affection then you two can work it out after that maybe

The kid wouldn't be your responsibility until the two of you got married or something serious like that. Being a grown-up friend for the baby would be okay, but if she's trying to push you into more responsibility over them you should do as art said and calmly tell them you aren't ready for that step yet. But other than that, she showed interest so go for it.

Do you hate children? Or is it just a matter of not feeling ready for the responsibility.

And really, just because she has a kid doesn't mean she's interested in you being a father figure to them. She might very well be interested in the same thing as you are.

As you seem to be retarded, chances that she wants to study with you are incredibly low.

As you seem unappealing, chances that she wants to sleep with you are incredibly low.

What's really going on?

She's using the fact that she knows you want her to boost her self-esteem.

I'm trying to decide if I really like her or maybe it's because I have not been with a girl in the last 3 months. either way we are probably going to hang out thursday and sunday this week.

Obvious chance at sex is obvious.

Go for it!

studying = dtf

Grats on finding out that this woman likes you for the first part. In regards to the child and whether or not you really like her, I think you should be aware of the kid factor but not to be overly concerned about it. If you find that you really do like her and are considering a serious relationship with her, then you should think about if you can handle providing for both the woman and her child. But if it gets serious and she asks you about handling the kid as well, just be honest with her. If you don't feel like you can handle the responsibility then tell her that and ask if she can wait until you're in a position where you'd be able to take care of them. This is thinking way into the future of course, but you do need to consider your long-term plans if you really like this woman. I wish you the best in the future man. ^^

the truth is I have been hanging out with her and I don't feel any real emotion towards her. She is calm, laid back and nice to me. I am also calm and laid back and us together it just feels boring. I realized I need a girl with qualities my ex had: fiery, passionate and somewhat irrational because then we balance each other. I don't want to really date some one like me because I hate myself already. It makes me sad because she is really nice and sweet but I don't have that much attraction to her I realized. I guess I just like "bad girls."

"Fiery, passionate and somewhat irrational" does not make a girl bad. A "bad girl" can be all of those, but the main things she are are mean, not caring for others but herself, and prone to backstabbing others if it means making herself feel good. Learn to differentiate between the two. A girl can still have those three qualities you mentioned, and STILL be loving and loyal.

Other than that, sorry to hear that you don't really feel much else for Ms. MILF. Guess continuing with her isn't going to help anymore. :(

oh no, I did not mean "bad girl" as in bad but kind of like the a "bad boy." if that makes any sense. She definitley has to be nice and sweet but she has to have somewhat of a tough, rebellious and wild side to her.

The "bad boys" you're referring to are no better. For your sake, man, don't use that term anymore, and just stick to being more descriptive. :P

This means....
....SHE WANTS TO FUCKING STUDY WITH YOU.

Any other aim is secondary, you just have to work your way up from there if you want some.

OK, THIS IS GETTING OUT OF HAND! Super scrub, when you've come to a new point in the thread (Stage 1: ask to study; Stage 2: mother dilemma; Stage 3: no real attraction), PLEASE! Update the thread title and OP information! People still think you have yet to ask this girl to study! >:(

hmmm I honestly thought this thread would go away if I ignored it long enough.