[Locked] Hairy crack

next time u got from back have some DUCT TAPE ready lol....

but in all serious i do not know GL.

You should do it. Shave, pluck, etc..

lol just talk to her. plain and simple. no fucking beating around the bush (lol bush) just sit her down and tell her i have a problem with this or that

Just talk to her, its nothing to fuss about its all natural. If shes your girlfriend youll have to accept her, the best advice i can give to you is to talk to her about it and not be a douche and over react.

Just tell her that it would be exiting if she tried shaving/waxing once. And if she actually does it, you'll have to make sure she understands that you really like it. Like give her the best and longest oral sex session she's ever had. Make her feel like you really want her more than ever.

Or if you happen to have birthday soon, she could shave for your birthday ;)

But if she really feels sexier than normally after shaving, I'm pretty sure she'll at least want to shave again. Or at least thats how my brains work.

Hair is natural. My first suggestion would be to grow up and learn to deal with it. Think about it. Waxing somewhere that sensitive is painful as hell. You're asking her to hurt herself for what reason? Would you, personally, be ok with the pain of waxing/shaving your own crack? If not, why would you ask her to do the same?

If you are ok with waxing your own ass, talk to her about it, as dalester says--maybe even offer to do it together for moral support, or something. Definitely be nice about it--don't approach it as something that she NEEDS to get rid of because it turns you off, but as Raparperi says, think of it as something sexy and exciting to do for the both of you. Maybe do it as a kink exchange where you offer to fulfil one of her fantasies if she tries this. But if she says no, then that should be the end of the conversation and you should just deal with it in one way or the other.

Does she shave anywhere else? If she does, it's extremely simple. Just tell her to shave everything down there, you find it hotter that way. I don't recommend giving incentives...it doesn't work well in the long term.

If she doesn't shave at all...it can be troublesome. It's a pain in the ass trying to get someone to start a new permanent habit.

I can't stand pubic hair and I avoid girls that don't shave/wax meticulously. It's much easier getting someone that already has the habits I want, instead of trying to change a person.

' hey baby your hairy ass is giving me rug burns on my stomach.' Simple...

Ask her if you can shave her, then attack that hairy ass!

fucking guy you make me laff daily.

Let's put it this way.

Are you willing to get your ass waxed? If not, she doesn't have to be willing either.

There are girls who already do it for themselves because they prefer it e.g. me, but you should accept her for how she is.

And for the guys who said they avoid girls who don't shave/wax meticulously, well I hope you're giving your girls the same courtesy. Not like we enjoy having your pubic hair in our mouths when we're giving oral either.

Thank you~

Edit: Take back what I said in that last part. Some people prefer pubic hair, some don't, but you should never stop or refuse to date someone who doesn't fit into YOUR preference. Real girls aren't like hentai and it's quite impossible for a vagina to look and feel smooth all the time.

Me personally i shave daily.. would shave my back if i could reach back there too.

I completely agree with LostQuartet.

Maybe she tried either shaving/waxing and didn't like it so much? She should use whatever makes her more comfortable. For example I prefer waxing. Some girls prefer shaving. It really depends on the person.

I'm a big fan of being honest w/ someone. Tell her that you want to try something new- get her a gift certificate at a spa for a Brazilian wax. Most women will jump at the chance to make her lover happy. Be cautious, because her feelings will be hurt if you tell her she's hairy. A self conscious girl is not going to be any fun in bed. Make it sound like something new you want to explore and make it sound like sexy fun. You might even ask her if there is something she wants you to have waxed for fun (Chest? Back? Shoulders???) Good luck.

Why does it have to be waxing anyway? I did that before and it hurts as hell, so I'll agree with the others here. If you shave it with a wet razor it will look and feel just fine. Rather, it would be nice if you could do it for her. =P Think of it as foreplay, even though that might be a weird idea.

[font=verdana][color=green]One problem with that idea though; if his hand slips and he cuts her, he'll probably not be having sex for a while afterwards. Is he willing to take such an all-or-nothing risk?

[color=blue]I think you might always have a risk of doing that and moreso if you do it yourself. Most lady razors don't easily cause cuts though.

Offer to help her with it? If she is okay with removal.

;-; it is tough to shave/put cream/wax on ones own behind without messing up.

THANK YOU. I am honestly sick of how many people tell me I need to shave. I am not going to, because I don't want to. It's fucking natural, and everyone needs to learn to deal with it. If you talk to her about it, you probably shouldn't tell her it turns you off, because that might make her upset. It would make me upset. It is a natural part of her body, and if you can't deal with that, I don't know what to tell you. I am honestly tired of people that believe that HAIR is gross. IT IS THERE FOR A REASON. IT IS NATURAL. Whatever. I know nobody will ever listen to me. I just know how it feels, for someone to tell you that you are unattractive just because you don't alter your body to fit society's image of 'sexy'. I am proud of my body, I am proud that I am brave enough to not shave, and take everyone's shit for it. I know I am probably overreacting, but I simply cannot stand how many people are against hair. Why must women, and even men go through the pain of shaving/waxing/whatever? I think shaven women look like little girls anyways, and I am a woman and plan to look like one. Sorry. It's like three in the morning. I'm crazy. But I still mean all of that. I don't shave my legs either, it's super comfortable and I love it. I won't shave for anyone, but myself (although that won't happen because I hate shaving). If a man has a problem with it, he can find someone else to fuck/date. Now I'm rambling. KBAI.