Have you ever been in a relationship?
Have you ever been in a relationship?
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I had a hell of a time finding the right women (i went through 7 girls) after the last one i finally said f@#k it and wait for someone to ask instead of me next thing i know i have a beautiful wife who is a tom boy and loves Hentai and video games so yeah i really lucked out with her and whats awesome is I've known her for over 5 years and we act like the day we met
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yes, but had a moment where there was not enough to sustain the relationship.
It was a mistake that relationship.
There was a moment that seemed hell on earth .... seriously
It was a mistake that relationship.
There was a moment that seemed hell on earth .... seriously
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Nope.
I've liked a few girls, all wonderful people, but I don't believe I'm ready for a relationship with any of them quite yet.
They are all wonderful people, not perfect, but good, friendly people. The kind of people you love to see smile and listen to. I consider them to be very beautiful. Not perfect, I'm not naive about people like that, but beautiful. Beauty that fascinates and enlivens me.
Beauty, to me, is a combination of the internal and external of a person. Horrid looking outside, but a benevolent inside, does not make for deep beauty to me. On the flip side, an ugly heart with a perfectly proportioned body is also not true beauty to me. The girls I've liked are both. Not perfect at all, no one is, but imperfections are not necessarily ugly.
So naturally, since the girls I like are both, I must work to make myself both as well. In a masculine sense, of course.
I need to focus on making my outside match my inside. My body's getting there, and God, am I sore from it, but I'm not quite there yet.
I feel much more confident as a man than I did two years ago, and so I must use my determination to make myself into what I want to be.
I feel like I could get into a relationship with someone, but unfortunately, the truth is that the cover does have an effect on whether or not someone is attracted to another, so I will wait until my package is improved upon. Then, somehow get in a relationship. I'm against some forms of hooking up, so my options are limited. I want the relationship to arise from a friendship. I'm confident that many relationships begin this way, but I'm limiting myself to this option alone.
Now, the only possible problem is following this plan through. With my drive, I can do that much, I think.
I believe that a woman does not make a man manly. Femininity can never make or validate masculinity. Only I can make myself into what I want to be. And it is also a belief of mine that a requirement to be in a relationship is that you must be able to function well without one.
But even despite that, I can't wait to get into one. I'm determined not to screw up, and I know that I would never be able to condemn my partner for any mistakes. Condemnation achieves nothing positive, after all. Just anger and guilt. Forgiveness, on the other hand, brings about warm feelings for the one forgiving (if it is true forgiveness) and lets the other know that the love is real and unwavering.
I'm a hugger, btw. Probably the biggest thing I'm looking forward to is embracing someone with romantic love. At least to me, nothing says "I love you" more than a warm embrace.
Sex is great and all, I have no doubt about that, but it doesn't really mean much to me unless it's part of a much deeper relationship.
Crap, spent too long writing this post. I got work tomorrow! >_
I've liked a few girls, all wonderful people, but I don't believe I'm ready for a relationship with any of them quite yet.
They are all wonderful people, not perfect, but good, friendly people. The kind of people you love to see smile and listen to. I consider them to be very beautiful. Not perfect, I'm not naive about people like that, but beautiful. Beauty that fascinates and enlivens me.
Beauty, to me, is a combination of the internal and external of a person. Horrid looking outside, but a benevolent inside, does not make for deep beauty to me. On the flip side, an ugly heart with a perfectly proportioned body is also not true beauty to me. The girls I've liked are both. Not perfect at all, no one is, but imperfections are not necessarily ugly.
So naturally, since the girls I like are both, I must work to make myself both as well. In a masculine sense, of course.
I need to focus on making my outside match my inside. My body's getting there, and God, am I sore from it, but I'm not quite there yet.
I feel much more confident as a man than I did two years ago, and so I must use my determination to make myself into what I want to be.
I feel like I could get into a relationship with someone, but unfortunately, the truth is that the cover does have an effect on whether or not someone is attracted to another, so I will wait until my package is improved upon. Then, somehow get in a relationship. I'm against some forms of hooking up, so my options are limited. I want the relationship to arise from a friendship. I'm confident that many relationships begin this way, but I'm limiting myself to this option alone.
Now, the only possible problem is following this plan through. With my drive, I can do that much, I think.
I believe that a woman does not make a man manly. Femininity can never make or validate masculinity. Only I can make myself into what I want to be. And it is also a belief of mine that a requirement to be in a relationship is that you must be able to function well without one.
But even despite that, I can't wait to get into one. I'm determined not to screw up, and I know that I would never be able to condemn my partner for any mistakes. Condemnation achieves nothing positive, after all. Just anger and guilt. Forgiveness, on the other hand, brings about warm feelings for the one forgiving (if it is true forgiveness) and lets the other know that the love is real and unwavering.
I'm a hugger, btw. Probably the biggest thing I'm looking forward to is embracing someone with romantic love. At least to me, nothing says "I love you" more than a warm embrace.
Sex is great and all, I have no doubt about that, but it doesn't really mean much to me unless it's part of a much deeper relationship.
Crap, spent too long writing this post. I got work tomorrow! >_
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well i just answered yes cause i still don't know where i stand with the girl i love.....
we look like were a couple already....
but we know on our own that we are still not....
;(
we look like were a couple already....
but we know on our own that we are still not....
;(
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Every person should follow the simple rule of hit it and quit it...saves on time, problems, and money
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For almost 1 1/2 years with an AMAZING girl.. I've been in more, but they just sucked compared to this one. <3
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I was in one for just about two years, but we broke up about three months ago...
*sigh* still haven't gotten over it. Had other girlfriends before but i thought she was the one (T-T)
*sigh* still haven't gotten over it. Had other girlfriends before but i thought she was the one (T-T)
