Hentai As a Reference

I know, odd thing to say, but I get this feeling that watching hentai HAS helped me out. How so? Well, despite not being a virgin for a few years, I never actually got around to getting my first kiss since my relationships were either sex friends or stale ones with practically no intimacy going on. When I finally did get around to my first kiss as of a few weeks ago, my girlfriend claimed that I was a good kisser and refused to believe that I just had my first kiss. I'm pretty sure that I had an idea what to do thanks to hentai. As for feeling up her chest, you could say that I referenced hentai for that, along with previous experience.

Well then, does anyone agree or disagree with what I'm saying? Obviously, it depends which type of hentai one views. By the way, despite what I've stated, my girlfriend is still a virgin. Any tips on how to escalate it further?

I guess it give you some pointers, but i can't seem to think hentai in 2d or real porn can really help you with the act. You know the basic in and out maneuver, but can a video or mango really teach you what life and a slut can't? Mmmm kissing taught from a porno really isn't real life.. too sloppy and leads to vagina on mustache and penis inside a hole of your choice. Any person can tell you the most a kiss and heavy petting session would give you and boob on hand or hand on small brain... with a new relationship or predating and early dating situations. Those porno scenarios come once in a while but not like in pron.

That in mind i guess hentai can help the idea and the courage of asking for sex or some form of base ideology. More a self confidence thing more then a knowledge of interacting with the opposite sex or the person of your lust. I guess it depends on the person and the need of that type of info needed.

I found this quite amusing due to the fact that before I met my current boyfriend I used to watch/read like, a whole lot of yaoi, the first time we got "intimate" we didn't have much time, so I only gave him a blowjob which I believe he enjoyed a lot since it wasn't long before he came, it was my first time doing something like that and I have to admit that if it hadn't been because of all those yaoi doujinshis and mangas I'd probably would not have had any idea of what to do.

So, I think it can give you like, the general idea. But it's only with practice that you become good.

Hentai kinda broke the ice for me and my boyfriend when we first met so I think I'm biased in saying that Hentai is an awesome reference.
I think porn in general is good to watch and learn skills and realize what actually turns you on. I think you'll have to have sex a few times to know physically what you like and what your actually capable of.

A problem with hentai though like a lot of us are aware (I hope) is they exaggerate a lot of scenarios, proportions and natural ability because they can. I know I watch hentai because I like seeing things I'll never experience or are physically impossible for the human body to Handel.

So, I agree with what your saying... this is a really interesting topic though.

I wouldnt say it helps but would definitley agree with "what turns you on". Hentai is the porn of choice I have used (if it ends up workin out that way anwyay) to spice the moment up with a video. And she most certainly has enjoyed it and picked quite a few herself ;)

Don't copy the language or setups of porn/hentai/fiction/AV. But some of the techniques for pleasuring can be agreeable: still, ask your partner first if they'd like to try anything, or what you would like to try on them.

Chances are some adult content is getting it right. That said, take it with a grain of salt... anal isn't as easy as "stick it in", finding the gspot isn't magical or simple or the same between all, and deepthroat isn't always fun for some, etc. ;)

The only thing hentai helped me do is overcome my American-suburban-penis-fear. After seeing so many penises, I became curious of my boyfriend's. After overcoming my fear, and getting comfortable with them, sex became a whole new world for me.

My sister told me she uses porn and hentai to learn new moves and shit.
She said she tried it out and it was great. I on the other hand, have yet to try something that I saw directly from hentai/porn.

Ya never have I taken something out of hentai/porn to bring to life with my girl unless she was after it. They want to feel that naturalness, that realness. If you are just acting something from a video then how does it make a difference of acting it with the chick you are with than anyone else. Keeping it real and doing what is making them feel good at the moment and trying new things definitely brings better sex then just throwin a porno on and bein like so ya tonight we try the backward smash!!!!!...thats the c`mon man of sex right there lol.

As the topic states, it's a reference. I'm not encouraging acting out sex videos because that's not how things work out all that well. I'm just saying that it's got a few legitimate points here and there that help. Good to see I'm not completely alone in this line of thought.

It helped give me a vague idea of what I was doing. I had no idea how to start/ I was nervous/ afraid I'd be overstepping my grounds (literally one of the reasons I'd never had sex before. I was too afraid I'd push her into it, despite the girl pretty much begging for it >.>)

I'm still not great though. I need to look up some more shit.

You know ... I agree to this.

Hentai has indeed given me an idea on how to really flirt with girls and how they like it. I actually became quite confident with myself.

Hentai has deeply changed me about the ways I treat women, and that in a positive way.