Holding the Reins

A random question popped in my head while reading doujin, who is in control during sex? I know I sure as hell am, I get mad being told what to do.

Sometimes me, sometimes my bf. But I like it the most when both of us do what ever we want to each other (this doesnt work for some couples, but we have so similar tastes it works well).
For me its quite hard to be the one "holding the reins" if I'm sober. But if I'm not sober, it can be sooooo fun to be the one who's in control.

Both; we usually switch off, depending on who's in the more dominant mode. We're both switches, but teh bf is decidedly more sub, and I'm a tiny bit more dom.

Basically this. I'm usually more attracted to dom guys, but if it's that "grahh I'm gonna screw you until you cry and you'll like it" guy then it's a complete turn off. I guess the words I'm looking for is someone who knows what they want. I've got some dom tendencies, but I'm sub and I prefer the opposite of a guy/girl I'm with.

Generally always dominant in a relationship, though I'm really too mellow to voice it most of the time. I just put on my bossy pants when I feel it's time.

I'm definitely dominant, I actually wish him to be the more leading part but that's not gonna happen because he enjoys me being the dominant one...I picture the perfect combination: me being dominant in the hole relationship, work, life thing, he being the dominant one in bed...yeah wishful thinking....I have to compromise in life and dominate in bed (¬_¬)

your good for an s/m maybe u should join us on some fetish play hehe jokes

we sometimes exchange roll on who to lead from time to time

I usually lead since my GF is very timid and shy. Once she gets going though, she completely takes over and I just let it happen. It's a real turn on for me how much she changes.

In most cases I lead.. there are moment when she leads but mostly i do..

conclusion.. most of the guy leads... ^^

I am more of the total domination male partner in the bedroom.

Actually since my girlfriend and I are so familiar with hentai, I can pretend like I'm in a hentai sometimes...

Is that bad?

FUCK YOU. ALL MY WANT, HAVE IT AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLL

You'll have it all and more one day. =D

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I'm slowly getting her to do things.. She said she wanted me to lean her over the counter and do her.. never got around to doing it.. D: maybe with a few beers she'll remember ;D

Sometimes me, sometimes my partner, it's kind of shared between.

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Although I usually end up being the less aggressive one in the bedroom, I somehow end up taking lead most of the time, although my easygoing attitude makes me cool with just about anything. The only person to totally take control no questions asked no concerns heard was the girl I was with in the Army, she was in charge and didn't care what I said otherwise.

He's the dom, so I suppose for the most part he holds the reins.

However, I often get a little ahead of myself and sort of... take over.