How Bad Do You Want To Lose Your Virginity?

It seems like a really big deal before you do it, but once you do, it's really not anymore.

On a related topic:
I'm of the opinion that sex should have nothing to do with love. When you think of it that way emotions get confused with strong physiological reactions, a lot more feelings get hurt, and people look down on eachother for things that aren't even under their psychological control.

Now, I have sex with my girlfriend, whom I love. However I don't have sex with her because I love her, nor do I love her because we have sex. I have sex with her because she's a kinky freak like me and she turns me on and gets me off. If she didn't, I'd be having sex with someone else, however I would still love her. Open relationships aren't as bad as people make them out to be, it's just a leftover hypocritical stigmata from the New Testament.

The second happiest people in the world are happy-to-be-single people. The most happiest people in the world are Happily-Married people. (look it up)

True, you don't have to love someone to have sex with them, and having sex with someone sure doesn't mean you love them. But in a sense it is like giving a present to someone - you can give anyone a present, but the BEST presents come handmade from someone you know really poured a lot of love into it.

I love how virgins think you either lose it to your ONE TRUE LOVE, sent from heaven to be your soulmate for ALL ETERNITY... or to some crack whore with AIDS who you met in an alleyway. There's a lot in between and it's called "reality".

didn't read any of the options or your thread but I voted for space because... well, it's space. Does this mean we all pitch in to buy him a hooker of undisclosed gender now?

I don't wanna answer because I'm a faggot.

You got sick over that? That's just guy talk, nobody wants to say the truth, that they haven't got any action for months and they spend most of their time on the computer masturbating to Hentai! Oh yeah I went there.

Well I've fucked like 80 billion bitches and I'll sling ghost-mayo at anything that moves so it ain't no thang. But in all serious, lost it, someone I loved intensely. It's the only proper way to have it.

Some days I just want it over with so that I dont have to think about it anymore and other days I feel like I could hold out for a while untill the "right" person comes along.

Today I dont really care about that stuff.

Losing my virginity isnt high on my list of life goals. (Something happened to me when I was 18 anyway that completely turned me off the idea of sex but thats another story) :S

Fukken lol'd

Don't really care whether I lose it or not, I am what you call a "fapper for life", but if that special someone should come along, I would give it to them, though that is very unlikely.

Pretty bad, but I'll make sure that the person's cute or worth losing it to.

I used to be apathetic about it, saying I'll lose it when it happens; wont force or seek it. But really, I'm getting to that point where i need a relationship.

I'm making sure the girl who takes my v-card is decent looking. No way in hell am I going to be desperate and fuck a hobo.

Idk whether to lmao or lmfao.

Sad thing is, I was actually enjoying being a virgin until this one guy brought it up to me. Long story short, I was in a long-distance relationship at the time, RL guy asks me out, I reject him, he's butthurt and tries to turn it around so I look like a freak.

We got into a few fights over why I'd reject him for the guy who lives a country away. He was all like, "How can you survive without physically touching him?" and I tried to explain that I had little desire for that, I was doing just fine, etc. He persisted, eventually coming to the conclusion that I was some sort of freak because I didn't have a huge, unbearable desire to do things. (I do want it, I was just also okay with not doing things.)

After the arguments, I started really really wanting to lose my virginity. =( That asshole.

I dont want to lose it that badly... seeing as thatIm still a virgin

What I want is to have it back.