how do i let her down easy?
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i am a partial clinical psycopath, i cannot feel sadness or its varients or happyness or a few of its varients. this is do to a lack of neurons in the associated parts of my brain.
As such i had a bitch of a time trying to dump my last 3 exes, 2 of which turned violent. I truly dont mean them any harm, but i cant not be cold to them about it, and so they (mildly putting it) dont like me anymore. i wanted to atleast stay friends with my last ex but sadly due to my delima that is not possible.
i know breaking up isnt easy regardless, but is there anyone who can help me be, i dunno, gentler or something about it, before i break another heart?
As such i had a bitch of a time trying to dump my last 3 exes, 2 of which turned violent. I truly dont mean them any harm, but i cant not be cold to them about it, and so they (mildly putting it) dont like me anymore. i wanted to atleast stay friends with my last ex but sadly due to my delima that is not possible.
i know breaking up isnt easy regardless, but is there anyone who can help me be, i dunno, gentler or something about it, before i break another heart?
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I don't even know what advice to give you. Maybe give her a card? lol
If you can't help but say it in a "mean" way, then find another way of doing it.
If you can't help but say it in a "mean" way, then find another way of doing it.
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To be honest? No. I cannot. Maybe send a card indeed.
I've already tried several possibilities in my head but to no avail, each and every one of them would have to have you bypass your 'coldness' since you'd need to understand basic emotions.
I've already tried several possibilities in my head but to no avail, each and every one of them would have to have you bypass your 'coldness' since you'd need to understand basic emotions.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
I have the same problem... the Psychopath one not the women problems. Just say bye baby.. see you on the flip side.
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LuPonce wrote...
tell her the world famous line(s)1)i wanna see other people
2) its me not you
More like infamous. Just tell her it's not working out, and if she understands, it all good. If not, then explain why.
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A card is going on the right lines, maybe a letter if you want to express yourself easier, however after the letter is wrote there is bound to be some kind of confrontation.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
You could do want i did to the last one... court ordered restraining order on her crazy ass.
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Doesn't sound so much like psychopathy as much as sociopathy. You seem to be pretty high functioning despite those handicaps though, and so I encourage you to keep dating. It's probably a breakdown of communication, because they can't understand why you act the way you do. Keep looking, somebody out there will be able to understand you and learn to adjust to your unique way of expression. It's not that you have no feelings, but just that it's felt in a different way. You may lack certain neural pathways, but the things that make up the "feelings" are still there and still affecting you. Otherwise, you wouldn't feel regretful hurting these girls right?
If you need to let them down easy, I'm afraid there's not much you can do besides explaining to them in an honest way. Really, I think rather than a card, a handwritten letter would be better. It's more personal, and feels less cheap to the girls. You can also speak your heart without having your issues getting in the way of what you want to say to them. Because you can't do the normal associations with feelings and appropriate response, your actions will seem strange to the general public. Those girls probably failed to adapt to you, and couldn't see past the condition to find out your true thoughts. Don't bother trying to correct these relationships; if they don't want to learn to adapt to you, why should you do the same to accomendate them, when you're the one with the handicap? Find another girl that can learn to appreciate you and learn to see you and love you for who you are, and not see you as a sociopath.
If you need to let them down easy, I'm afraid there's not much you can do besides explaining to them in an honest way. Really, I think rather than a card, a handwritten letter would be better. It's more personal, and feels less cheap to the girls. You can also speak your heart without having your issues getting in the way of what you want to say to them. Because you can't do the normal associations with feelings and appropriate response, your actions will seem strange to the general public. Those girls probably failed to adapt to you, and couldn't see past the condition to find out your true thoughts. Don't bother trying to correct these relationships; if they don't want to learn to adapt to you, why should you do the same to accomendate them, when you're the one with the handicap? Find another girl that can learn to appreciate you and learn to see you and love you for who you are, and not see you as a sociopath.
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Aai
FAKKU Ass Master
Why would you want to stay friends with your ex girl friends?
Terrible idea, lay her off and move on with your search.
You need to think about that stuff before you even start a relationship with a girl.
It's hard not to be sad after a relationship, but it's something that is inevitable.
So if you don't want to break girls hearts, don't go out with them knowing you are going to lay them off.
Terrible idea, lay her off and move on with your search.
You need to think about that stuff before you even start a relationship with a girl.
It's hard not to be sad after a relationship, but it's something that is inevitable.
So if you don't want to break girls hearts, don't go out with them knowing you are going to lay them off.
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Just tell her " Its over" and make sure its somewhere where she can't go too crazy.
Also, where a bullet proof vest and a cup for a while.
Also, where a bullet proof vest and a cup for a while.
