How far can you open up
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I thought we were going to talk about vaginas. I am now relieved and also unsatisfied at the same time.
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i love talking to people and getting to know new people, i think you have to open yourself all the way with no walls so that you can easily have a conversation with someone. sometimes you just have to let go of your image and reputation and just have fun
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.....i was not expecting exactly this topic when i clicked on a thread named 'how far can you open up' but what the hell.
in my 20 years on this shitty planet i have noticed that theres a lot of fake nice people and a lot of people that would think of you as a freak no matter what you do or say. you just have to keep doing your thing despite of them and maybe even in spite of them. dumb bitches who only judje people superficially will only be judjed superficially themselves. and that sucks. what im trying to tell you is that your feeling of uncertainty is quite... ummm right. but you probably know the hedgehog's dilemma right? as much as it hurts you still gotta snuggle. and besides i know a number of girls who like shy nervous boys so there's passengers for every train.
the way i deal with people is a bit standoffish and reserved. if they show trust and open up to me then i feel safe opening up to them. sometimes i feel safe doing that even without them sharing god knows how much but thats okay. if we dont meet eye to eye then so what at lest we got to learn that about each other. youll get hurt countless times but thats how life is. you cant fight it, you cant help it. really the only thing you can do is live it. sounds kinda dumb and cliche... its true.
edit: no one's ever given me shit for liking anime. and that is because i couldnt care less if someone did. its all about how you carry yourself if you say you like anime in some sort of nervous apologetic way they you set the tone and people think there really is a reason for you to be nervous about it- then they reject it before they even know what the hell it even is. i say it matter of factly. point out its good and bad qualities. just be realistic.
in my 20 years on this shitty planet i have noticed that theres a lot of fake nice people and a lot of people that would think of you as a freak no matter what you do or say. you just have to keep doing your thing despite of them and maybe even in spite of them. dumb bitches who only judje people superficially will only be judjed superficially themselves. and that sucks. what im trying to tell you is that your feeling of uncertainty is quite... ummm right. but you probably know the hedgehog's dilemma right? as much as it hurts you still gotta snuggle. and besides i know a number of girls who like shy nervous boys so there's passengers for every train.
the way i deal with people is a bit standoffish and reserved. if they show trust and open up to me then i feel safe opening up to them. sometimes i feel safe doing that even without them sharing god knows how much but thats okay. if we dont meet eye to eye then so what at lest we got to learn that about each other. youll get hurt countless times but thats how life is. you cant fight it, you cant help it. really the only thing you can do is live it. sounds kinda dumb and cliche... its true.
edit: no one's ever given me shit for liking anime. and that is because i couldnt care less if someone did. its all about how you carry yourself if you say you like anime in some sort of nervous apologetic way they you set the tone and people think there really is a reason for you to be nervous about it- then they reject it before they even know what the hell it even is. i say it matter of factly. point out its good and bad qualities. just be realistic.
