How is everyone currently doing in their lives?
Do you wish to change your current single lifestyle?
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Hello everyone, and I wanna ask each and every one of you this simple question, how are you? ( Meaning how are you doing in your current state )
Let's face it, we ALL have potential to meet people and build a strong and stable relationship, however for some of us we cannot simply just head out there and just wing it, in fact, many are either shy, in denial, hate it, or even just wanna stay single forever, and it takes a damn good person to change all that, am I right?
For me I am doing fine and also in a current small issue which is not worth something mentioning, however for me I don't wanna be reckless when it comes to meeting the opposite sex since I don't wanna get heartbroken and also butthurt. However I do wish to meet someone but I also don't wanna accelerate the process since I am the type of guy who should take it kinda slowly and react at the right moment.
But enough of me, what about you?
Are you fine with your current lifestyle, can it ensure your chances of meeting your one and only, or maybe a harem, or does it get in the way? Are you willing to change your lifestyle for the sole purpose of the goal?
For me, it is not the case of changing my current lifestyle, but rather it is about changing the way I think and how I view the world .. I don't wish to constantly think about the negatives and just leave all that out of my head, and the best part is, it is slowly taking effect and I feel really calm, and it makes me feel like I do have chances in life .... however .. does that apply to you?
( Off topic )
My first thread, I hope it makes sense to everyone here.
Let's face it, we ALL have potential to meet people and build a strong and stable relationship, however for some of us we cannot simply just head out there and just wing it, in fact, many are either shy, in denial, hate it, or even just wanna stay single forever, and it takes a damn good person to change all that, am I right?
For me I am doing fine and also in a current small issue which is not worth something mentioning, however for me I don't wanna be reckless when it comes to meeting the opposite sex since I don't wanna get heartbroken and also butthurt. However I do wish to meet someone but I also don't wanna accelerate the process since I am the type of guy who should take it kinda slowly and react at the right moment.
But enough of me, what about you?
Are you fine with your current lifestyle, can it ensure your chances of meeting your one and only, or maybe a harem, or does it get in the way? Are you willing to change your lifestyle for the sole purpose of the goal?
For me, it is not the case of changing my current lifestyle, but rather it is about changing the way I think and how I view the world .. I don't wish to constantly think about the negatives and just leave all that out of my head, and the best part is, it is slowly taking effect and I feel really calm, and it makes me feel like I do have chances in life .... however .. does that apply to you?
( Off topic )
My first thread, I hope it makes sense to everyone here.
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I'm unhappy and unwilling to fix it. Ironically amending my situation takes less effort than maintaining the status quo, so I'm either completely insane or an emotional masochist... Either way, thanks for asking. I would elaborate more, but it's really not all that bad, I'm just unhappy, that doesn't mean I'm miserable, just that happy isn't a weird I'd use to describe myself.
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I’m fine; don’t really care much about relationships since I have never had one (it’s kind of a †˜you can’t miss something you never had’ thing.). It isn’t my lifestyle, but my outlook on myself that I need to fix. I’m too insecure about my looks, busy with school and trying to just enjoy being a young woman. I’m willing to change it, just not right now – I have other things to worry about. I don’t need to even try to bring a guy into my life until I am able to sort my own things out.
Good for you though with your improvements!
Good for you though with your improvements!
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Fro wrote...
I don’t need to even try to bring a guy into my life until I am able to sort my own things out. That is also what I am aiming for ... although I decided to go on the offense and go head to head combat with my loser self, I may be fighting a winning battle since I had the answer there all along.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
I have no complaints. Life is stale and predictable, but i can't say i want to change it good or bad.
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I have absolutely no complains with how my life is going in terms of relationships. Although my mind occasionally plays around with the thought of a relationship, I never seriously consider it. I'm only interested in a single person, and only that person will be able to pursue a romantic relationship with me if they desire.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Lollikittie wrote...
I seriously want to jump off a very very very very very tall structure.Don't worry... i'll catch you.
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Lollikittie wrote...
I seriously want to jump off a very very very very very tall structure.Meet me at the Sunshine Skyway bridge in an hour!
Edit: it's ironic because it has "sunshine" in the name, and is a favorite for suicide in the Tampa area.
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Lollikittie wrote...
I seriously want to jump off a very very very very very tall structure.Is your life THAT depressing?
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Court Jester wrote...
Lollikittie wrote...
I seriously want to jump off a very very very very very tall structure.Is your life THAT depressing?
I think I'll answer this as well being that I seconded it. No, mine isn't, I can't speak for her, I just want a change of pace and a scientific test to the question of "is there an afterlife?" might be enlightening.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Lollikittie wrote...
animefreak_usa wrote...
Don't worry... i'll catch you.
I have no idea how to respond to that.
With a hug. Also i have a wonderful youtube link for this but alast they will fuck my tender ass since it not ib and it's a girl jumping from a building while someone is photographing her descent to the ground.
Abnormal beauty is the name of the film.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Lollikittie wrote...
I seriously want to jump off a very very very very very tall structure.What's happening to make you feel this way? Pm me, yo.
As for me, I'm currently single, and trying my arse off to change that. Trying to win back my ex, which seems to be going alright. I remain hopeful, still.
I really should get back into looking for a new job.
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Relationship issues I want to fix the nonexistent part of the history aspect.
But life is semi-chaotic at this time and a realize that I need to tie up loose ends finish a few things and fix some other issues going on at this time before I can even have a hope of realistically starting a relationship.
But life is semi-chaotic at this time and a realize that I need to tie up loose ends finish a few things and fix some other issues going on at this time before I can even have a hope of realistically starting a relationship.
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Pretty dece. I just wish a certain person would stop worrying about me. My SO thinks I'll be too 'guyish' since I'm starting my doctorate next month, in a university known for it's partying girls. Kinda silly, but expected.
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Well yeah I'm single and while I enjoy my own company I still want sex, that is to say besides that carnal desire I don't care for a relationship.
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Livided
FAKKU Writer
I am fine with it but also open to meet new people as friends or otherwise since I do not know many if any with the same interests in Sweden.
But I still enjoy life and go forward with a smile, but indeed hard to find contacts easily.
But I still enjoy life and go forward with a smile, but indeed hard to find contacts easily.