How to deal with ice personalities

I speak literally when i say of this...

So upon learning from that very annoying moment in dealing with ice personalities (see a fun mediation moment), i still cant find myself in dealing with them....

so guys... i gotta ask... how can you break that ice wall around a certain person enough for you to reach your hand and touch her?

Are you playing bad touch therapist and trying to slip some GHB for good time.

Not this shit again Zeker.

Only a good fucking can solve an ice personality.

Turn up the heat.

Blue Fire from Zelda: Ocarina of Time
Keep always a free bottle just in case.

Humor. It works for everyone. The only trick is finding the right joke. Gotta try and pick up little things here and there to figure out what she may like or dislike. For example, if she orders an all vegetarian meal, don't make a joke about vegetarians.

Fight fire with fire?

Her 'ice personality' is most probably there for a reason. See if you could find out what that is.

im currently not dealing with one right now, but if you guys ever did meet the ice side of a girl OR boy, what would you do to break it?

I'd tell them to get off their fucking high horse ,and treat others more kindly or go fuck themselves in a dank cave somewhere away from society so that their off putting personality does not affect others.

Perhaps you should also get off your high horse and consider that they might have shit to deal with, like, i don't know, socially crippling Social Anxiety Disorder.

To break it? Crack jokes and be funny. Keep going at it till she finally breaks. If that doesn't work, then just be around her. For example, if she's in the library, I'll sit across from her to read a book. If she makes a comment, I'll simply reply that I'm reading a book.

Another thing to realize as well is, they are human. At some point a sign of weakness or a temporary pause in that attitude is bound to appear. Best opportunity is when she looks down or sad. Take the opportunity to be there for her. If she starts acting up again, just keep at it.

I think the key to cracking an ice type personality is just being really understanding and patient.

I go for just being kind and warm to them. Somethign like that can go a long way with someone who's rather shy and reserved.

then they don't have a cold personality..they have a disorder..duh ?

Okay then, how do you know the difference? you don't. To clarify, i had SAD and everybody thought i was an emotionless dick.

I think you're an emotionless dick on top of having SAD.

Fire, and lots of it.

I don't need to know the difference ..poster didn't specify anything was mentally or emotionally wrong with these people..just that they where cold , but ok in your case im sorry you had to go through that , but for those that are just emotionless dicks read my above post..

Force or the power of gravity :D