How to introduce kinks!
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Hey Fakku.
So I just started seeing this girl. We're pretty damn compatible and we get along pretty well. We've been doing A LOT of dirty talk lately, and shit is starting to get pretty real, aka we're figuring out what makes each other tick and getting each other off that way.
So today she was asking me if I had any fetishes. I was kind of hesitant to divulge, but I decided to reveal the tip of the iceberg (just the tip ;) ). I told her I kind of had a thing for hentai. She wasn't shocked or embarrassed or anything, but I think it threw her off a bit... As for myself I felt kind of exposed, but it wasn't all that bad.
Now the real thing here is bringing up the rest of it...like, how do I tell a girl I'm into incest hentai, futanari, trap, etc etc etc? I don't want to freak her out or anything like that. She's a pretty open chick but I don't want to play my hand too early, so to speak. When I asked her about her fetishes, she said she didn't really have any, albeit she likes a healthy amount of roughness.
So should I divulge what really gets me going? Should I hold off, at least for a while? Anybody else have anything similar happen to them, with good/bad results?
I'd love to hear your stories/opinions, hook a brotha up!
So I just started seeing this girl. We're pretty damn compatible and we get along pretty well. We've been doing A LOT of dirty talk lately, and shit is starting to get pretty real, aka we're figuring out what makes each other tick and getting each other off that way.
So today she was asking me if I had any fetishes. I was kind of hesitant to divulge, but I decided to reveal the tip of the iceberg (just the tip ;) ). I told her I kind of had a thing for hentai. She wasn't shocked or embarrassed or anything, but I think it threw her off a bit... As for myself I felt kind of exposed, but it wasn't all that bad.
Now the real thing here is bringing up the rest of it...like, how do I tell a girl I'm into incest hentai, futanari, trap, etc etc etc? I don't want to freak her out or anything like that. She's a pretty open chick but I don't want to play my hand too early, so to speak. When I asked her about her fetishes, she said she didn't really have any, albeit she likes a healthy amount of roughness.
So should I divulge what really gets me going? Should I hold off, at least for a while? Anybody else have anything similar happen to them, with good/bad results?
I'd love to hear your stories/opinions, hook a brotha up!
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If the question is raised, answer honestly. It's so much better than lying or withholding, because believe me kid, she -will- find out, and if she finds out on her own, without you, it will make you look like a creep.
If you're forthcoming, tell her what you would like in reality, versus what is just a fantasy, and you'd only do, say.. as a roleplay thing, it should make her feel more comfortable.
If you're forthcoming, tell her what you would like in reality, versus what is just a fantasy, and you'd only do, say.. as a roleplay thing, it should make her feel more comfortable.
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Lollikittie wrote...
If you're forthcoming, tell her what you would like in reality, versus what is just a fantasy, and you'd only do, say.. as a roleplay thing, it should make her feel more comfortable.This is the most important thing that came out of your post, in my mind. It seems like you were just listing hentai tastes and what not. There's a fine line between what you like to fap to, and what you actually want to try.