How would you females react to this?
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So I'm 19 and married, the problem is that we are married but not actually we have just been friends forever and I bailed her outta debt. We will be getting a divorce in a yr or so its just a little expensive. I'm still looking for a girlfriend so I'm lost as to if i should tell her the situation right away or wait till we get to know each other? or do i most likely have no chance in hell since they will say i think poorly on marriage?
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Wait, what?
Your marriage gets her out of debt how....?
Also, yeah don't tell her unless you both mutually are ok with seeing others, or something.
This sounds tricky.
Your marriage gets her out of debt how....?
Also, yeah don't tell her unless you both mutually are ok with seeing others, or something.
This sounds tricky.
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It has to do with my job i get paid more for being married. My "Wife" is perfectly ok with it we have never had that kind of relationship before we sleep in different bedrooms etc. She also has a boyfriend from before we actually got married I was actually he accepted it. I'm would like to know how would you react to a guy telling you this I would also have my "Wife" tell her the same so it wouldn't seem like I'm cheating.
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Since you're both married solely for financial reasons, I don't see what's the problem here. You even say she has a boyfriend herself.
Also, I am curious as to what "looking for a girlfriend" entails.
ps: Please use some correct punctuation and proof read your text before posting. It makes it a lot easier for us to read it.
Also, I am curious as to what "looking for a girlfriend" entails.
ps: Please use some correct punctuation and proof read your text before posting. It makes it a lot easier for us to read it.
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Since the marriage is a purely business relationship, i would be up front about it right away. maybe not use as an icebreaker or mention it on the first date, but for sure early on. other wise it might look like you were hiding it, and the only reason to hide it is if it were more than just business.
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Looking for a girlfriend entails asking out and becoming friends with cute girls.I'm not going to go out searching for one but if I find i girl i like i will go for her.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
If it's only going to be a year, then you should just wait it out before you actively try for a relationship because it just sounds like it'll get complicated fast regardless of how you go about it.
Granted if you find someone you're willing to go for it with, then you'll just need to tread carefully with the situation and be somewhat upfront about the situation.
Granted if you find someone you're willing to go for it with, then you'll just need to tread carefully with the situation and be somewhat upfront about the situation.
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I'm not going to go out searching for a girlfriend but how would she react to me telling her my situation?
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damn am i the only one who has realized he is in a contract marriage because he is in the military and wanted more money lol and no its not illegal and dude just for your safety dont get a girlfriend until the marriage is over because your ass will go to jail oh wait your a marine nvm army is only one that still punishes adultry well anyway just tell her whats up be nice about it and all should be well as long as she knew it was a temporary marriage from the get-go
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Hmm... Just have to explain it right I guess? Make sure she understands the situation properly before she makes assumptions.
My advice would be to wait until you get the divorce and then start getting involved with other women. I guess it can't hurt to become friends with some, but be sure that they are just friends until you're in the legal clear.
My advice would be to wait until you get the divorce and then start getting involved with other women. I guess it can't hurt to become friends with some, but be sure that they are just friends until you're in the legal clear.