hubbys not into sexy cosplay

but i am... ive never cosplayed for him b4 but id really like to... im just a bit embaressed and dont know how i shpuld go about it. he does like me wearing short skirts though.. i think id feel better if it was for an occassion.. but this has been a fetish of mine that ive always wanted to do just havent had the courage to..

If it's something you really want to do, you can always ask. Just say, "Hey, is it okay if I try a sexy cosplay for you next time/for birthday/Christmas/etc.? I really think it would be fun." If you want it to be a surprise, don't say what it is, but if you don't care, you can just say "is it okay if I try a whatever cosplay? etc. etc."

The important thing is to try and talk. Even if it's embarrassing. Hopefully he'll be willing to do it for you at least once because he's a nice guy (and also damn sexy cosplay hell yeah).

I'm confused, you say in the title he isn't into it, but the post makes me feel like he isn't aware that you want to. Forgive me if I'm misreading.

If he does in fact already know that you would like to and has already told you it isn't his thing, then you can only really try to come to some sort of agreement; such as we do my fetish then we do yours.

If he is unaware of your desire to cosplay for him, then all you need to do is be upfront with him about it like 623 stated. You guys are married, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. It's safe to assume he cares enough about you (being that he married you) to help you fulfill your fantasy. It isn't anything super expensive or time consuming either.

P.S. Where are these cosplaying sex fiends hiding in my town? (answer: probably from me ;P)

I would talk to him about it if I were you. If he becomes adamant and serious about not wanting anything of the sort (personal opinion if he does this: WUSS!), then it's better not to push on the subject too much. If, however, he says to try and start slow, then do just that. Since you said he likes you in skirts, find out characters that wear skirts.

Also, what kind of fictional media is your husband interested in? Maybe that could provide hints.

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If you are a bit worried about how it will go, you could always just wear a cosplay with a short skirt, and see how you go. Maybe if you get him in the mood in a cosplay, he could like the idea. Assuming he doesn't dislike the idea.

I don't know why, I just feel like if I was in your position, I'd just end up getting into one of the costumes, and giving it a crack, see how we go.

hmm i might start off with something simple like Mrs claus for christmas hehe.
then maid outfits? school girl, bunny outfits?
then move on to actual characters?

lol getting excited and horny thinkin about it >__<"3


just hope he'll enjoy it if he doesnt then all my kinky dreams are gone =[

That's perfect. General sexy outfits to start off. Considering Christmas is soon, you can do that Mrs. Claus to start off, unless you can think of one to do sooner.

Also, calm down, seriously. You don't want to get so excited that you:

A) end up forcing yourself on the guy
B) disappointing yourself big time if he says no

lol im actually quite good at hiding my excitment in person and am more shy, thats why i let loose online cause i can hehe.. but i will keep your advice in mind.

hows this outfit

http://pages.ebay.com/link/?nav=item.view&id=121212431611

other ones look more tacky best i could find for the price..

You don't have any sex shops local to you that sell seasonal stuff? They're specialists when it comes to lingerie and sexy outfits.

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i live in melbourne AUS, and our sex stores stock crappy costumes from china.. then mark up the price, this is usually the case for most merchandise, so i choose to shop online because reality is.. that buying online will cost me less and i have a better range to choose and compare from.

Oh you poor girl. You have my condolences.

I know them feels.
Aus has a lot of crappy stuff, and a lot of it is overpriced.
Only downside to ordering shit online, is that half the time the size is wrong, unless you get a set size. I got a cosplay costume custom made, and gave the measuremnts with an extra 5 or so cm per thing, just incase. Was still far too small.
But yeah, I'm from tas, so I know how you feel. Absolutely nothing down here. Inb4 damoz' wife.

But yeah, see how you go with the mrs clause one. Although I feel like that wouldn't suit a first one... I don't know what it is, I think a sexy cosplay costume would be a lot better than mrs clause. I wonder if I'm thinking about the possibility of slight rp as well, and mrs clause is a bit boring, maybe?
I don't know, I'm weird.
Either way, order a set size costume if you can (if your sizes all match up fairly well. Keep in mind it's easier to bring something in that to take it out, as you'd probably know) and yeah. Have fun with it :D

BE YOURSElF, dress up sexy costume, he might be like it..did i say "might be"?..i mean..he will TOTALLY like it~ =P