I feel like i did the right thing
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I basically told my Girlfriend i'm into hentai and i asked her if she had a problem with it. She told me she didn't mind me looking at porn in general. Some of my friends heard about this and thought i was lacking common sense, have no respect, called me sad, etc. i feel like i did the right thing, i wanted to be honest. Have you guys ever had this happened to you?
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You did do the right thing in being honest with her. And if she doesn't mind,i don't think its anyone elses business
Also, i can't think of any similar experience i had
Also, i can't think of any similar experience i had
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I tell my girlfriends after a certain amount of time/ my trusted friends. Most of my friends know I come here, so it doesn't really phase me. I have a 0 fucks attitude, so it really doesn't phase me if people go 'OH MY GOD, BEN LOOKS AT CARTOON PORN' Ok, whatever *get back to shitposting on the forums
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I think what you did was good. It is a good idea to tell her about these things so that it doesn't one day cause problems. If she did not agree with you watching/reading hentai, then you might also want to consider if you want to continue in the relationship. Only relationship I was ever in actually ended in with this being one of the major reasons for it ending.
Personally I would say goodbye to your "friends." Though that is entirely up to you.
Personally I would say goodbye to your "friends." Though that is entirely up to you.
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This is my 1st relationship and i've known her 4 years prior so i just wanted be open with her. I typically disregard whenever people lip for my Hentai love.
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Good for you.
Your friends are stupid because most porn sites have a large section of hentai just laying around so I am pretty sure that they watched a few videos.
Tell them to stop being little hypocrites and that they need to grow up.
I think you did the right thing and happy your girlfriend accepts this.
Your friends are stupid because most porn sites have a large section of hentai just laying around so I am pretty sure that they watched a few videos.
Tell them to stop being little hypocrites and that they need to grow up.
I think you did the right thing and happy your girlfriend accepts this.
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devsonfire
3,000,000th Poster
Well, apart from being honest by calling your girlfriend ugly or fat (yeah I'm joking because I'm trying to keep the topic light and enjoyable), I don't think being honest is wrong.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
Brofist to you for being honest.
I told my friend Barry I like Hentai. He seemed to disapprove but still talks to me all the same. Told my girlfriend I like Hentai and it turns out she does as well. She even joined Fakku which I call a win-win. But I've heard of people losing friends because of it, so you just never know what'll happen.
I told my friend Barry I like Hentai. He seemed to disapprove but still talks to me all the same. Told my girlfriend I like Hentai and it turns out she does as well. She even joined Fakku which I call a win-win. But I've heard of people losing friends because of it, so you just never know what'll happen.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Gravity cat wrote...
Brofist to you for being honest.I told my friend Barry I like Hentai. He seemed to disapprove but still talks to me all the same. Told my girlfriend I like Hentai and it turns out she does as well. She even joined Fakku which I call a win-win. But I've heard of people losing friends because of it, so you just never know what'll happen.
If they are real friends, they won't care :D
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
It's better to do it now than to get discovered by her instead and find out then that she has an issue with it.
Being honest is good. You felt there was potential that this could be an issue you had to work out with her, told her so you could work it out and then worked it out. That is called good communication which is necessary for any relationship to be successful.
Being honest is good. You felt there was potential that this could be an issue you had to work out with her, told her so you could work it out and then worked it out. That is called good communication which is necessary for any relationship to be successful.
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
I've told some boyfriends about my hentai interests and have had good and bad experiences. Let's just say that the relationship I'm currently in was a good one. You shouldn't be judged for your hobbies and interests no matter what they are in (unless they break serious laws and morals, that I can't help you with). So congrats for telling her, hopefully this is one of many steps in furthering your relationship :)
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I told my wife while we were still dating and now she's into Fakku too. Uses my username and thankfully has yet to favorite any yaoi even after the yaoi invasions.
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Personally if it were me and my friends were giving me shit for liking hentai(which they do in their normal loving way) then I would just be a dick about their fetishes as well(which I do in my normal loving way).
I remember telling my wife that I was on this site and enjoyed hentai, she has a problem with it but I also have a problem with some of her interests so we mutually overlook these things in our relationship. And we've been happy ever since.
OT: Definitely the right thing to do. Bonus points since she doesn't mind.
I remember telling my wife that I was on this site and enjoyed hentai, she has a problem with it but I also have a problem with some of her interests so we mutually overlook these things in our relationship. And we've been happy ever since.
OT: Definitely the right thing to do. Bonus points since she doesn't mind.
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It seems like a fair amount of people have experiences with people shutting them out because of what they're into, especially with porn. I've never really experienced that.
I think that most people don't really care, and that most of what's holding people back from just talking about their fetishes is fear of the unknown.
OT: you did the right thing.
I think that most people don't really care, and that most of what's holding people back from just talking about their fetishes is fear of the unknown.
OT: you did the right thing.
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Fuck what everyone else said. Why does being honest about watching porn make you sad? Some people lack intelligence. I think you did the right thing, and if she doesn't mind it than you're golden.
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It should be implied that all guys watch porn, even when having gf. Hentai is just an specific kind of porn and nothing to be ashamed of. So neither she should mind, neither should you feel bad for it. And talking about it just depends on how your relationship works