I Need Moral Help

I have always been a good person. Smart, inquisitive, and most of all I am understanding. But in life a have fallen in love a good six times. It was about the fourth I realized that I can't stand. . .forgive me for saying this, "ugly" women. I have no idea why but I can't get past looks. It has always killed me inside, and I am no looker but I can't see myself with anyone that is not at a certain level. No matter what her personality is.

I feel like a bad person. Its really killing me. I need advice (I hope I don't get banned for saying this) I am only not exactly the oldest member around, but am more mature and intelligent than anyone I know, and that's being modest. Like, seriously. . .I have never been unable to comprehend anything I went over enough. But now I hit a wall and the only reason for my thinking I can come up with is that I must be a bad person. . .please, take this seriously. Do not post stupid things like "You are a bad person, burn." or whatever.

It's because you're a child and are immature you can't get passed looks because you are also superficial.

Also nice job lying when you created your account namely the "over or exactly 18 years of age" part.

I didn't pay any attention. I also have membership with like 12+ other sites that make me say the same thing and Yahoo thinks I am 21. Life is a blur for me.

Well as long as you don't care about being superficial...

Superficial is one thing. . .I hope I grow out of it.

Being like this isn't something I planned, it just happened. I blame modern media, they pretty up every girl on TV. I grew up seeing pretty and I guess now I just can't get past it. Man, this thread makes me want to see my therapist. Not only about my problem but about the fact that i am one out of maybe twenty people in Alabama that reads/watches Hentai.

I thought this guy was supposed to be smart he just reveals his age on a 18 and over site

I am, but it was worth it. I could not get accurate advice without everyone knowing every factor.

plus this thread belongs in the Love, Romance, and Relationship section

who cares? he's gonna get banned.

Being underage gets you banned on Fakku. Most people just make another account and message their friends about it. I could care less.

And well, it's perfectly understandable for you to not be attracted to people who are not attractive. I mean, that's exactly what unattractive means. If you are avoiding them on purpose however, you need to think about what you have done.

Its ok buddy i lied on that 18+ thing a lot of times before i was legal

O and your ugly women dilemma is normal i'm kind of the same way

Although looks tend to be the initial spark in a relationship, you'll find that personality becomes more important as time progresses. Looks fade, but your mind and personality will keep people attracted to you long after you lose your beauty.

Keep this in mind.

You guys give far to much care to this eighteen rule. It's only there to keep Fakku out of legal trouble should anything ever arise from the inclusion of minors to this site. Odds of that happening are so ridiculously low it isn't even funny. I'm not saying he was right to join Fakku, but like any of us really need to take the high ground on this? Please.

I'm more than certain a few members are under the age of eighteen here. I know two of them who are active, and one who only recently turned eighteen a few months ago, but has been a member of Fakku since they were sixteen. Most people just have the good grace to keep such information to themselves.

Anyway, as for the "ugly" woman dilemma. I'm not going to beat around the bush here. It is your vanity. Grow up a few more years and you'll see life in an entirely different manner. I know that sounds mundane coming from some random person on a porn site. I'm sure I'd feel the same way if I was your age, but I felt similarly, even to the degree that I thought I was SO mature for my age. It wasn't until a couple of years ago that I felt mature enough to say that I know longer had that level of vanity. I'm still growing up with the rest of my vanity, as is everyone else on here.

You answered why here.

What I'm saying is there is a difference between law and practicality. I'm not condoning minors on this site, but pointing out the fact that it happens - a lot. There is little reason for members here to berate minors from joining this site when chances are pretty good that they are being hypocritical about it in one fashion or another.

You can either just choose to ignore it, or you can just tell Jacob, Mike or Matty (who still creeps around from time-to-time). Choice is yours, but belittling a person for doing something as common as that is just unnecessary.

You all astound me and I have enjoyed this topic.

Thanks for backing me up the one person that did.

Tsurayu it kinda sounds like you're underage I mean really you arguing this point way to hard.

Twenty-three.

I don't try to hide my age on any site that I'm on. Just never comes up on Fakku. Am I fighting it too hard? Maybe, in a sense. Better to say that I would be more interested in fighting to change the age of legal adulthood, or at least the laws pertaining to it.

It isn't like anyone could actually fight for minors on Fakku as it stands. I'm not going to assume what Jacob thinks, but were he to not care there is still the law looming over the situation.

Because no one, including us, have never gone to a porn site when we were under the legal age... ever.... we're all innocent, so we have full right to condone and throw the first stone... Whether he's banned are not, least he had the fortitude to say so (least now...). Least give him that.

As for the actual topic; You're young, that's pretty normal at that age. Once you get a little older, you might find that opinion changing. I know I did, and I'm sure most people were the same, so no worries, bro.

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