If you had kids, would you let them?
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If they started to watch hentai I'd turn a blind eye to it, be the cool dad that dosen't bust their ass for it, but I probably wouldn't talk to them about it or let them know that I know.
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[color=violet]I Don't Think They Will Let Me Know If They Are Watching Or Reading That Kind Of Things...Even If I Think They Are I Can't Just ask Them "Are You Watching Hentai?" Or Something Like That....If I Know I'll Ask Them Properly...That They Leave It To Me If They Don't Read Or View It....!!!
...Hehehehehe [/color]
...Hehehehehe [/color]
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Tell him off not for the fact of he was looking at hentai, but for the fact that he wasn't being more discreet about it.
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My kids would be allowed to read what ever they want, but I would make sure that I had a talk with them about real life vs. hentai, since allot of hentai contains elements that is unlikely to be normal or happen in real life.
Actually I would have that talk with them no matter what, since I would assume they would discover porn at some point, and porn also has lots of unrealistic elements.
Actually I would have that talk with them no matter what, since I would assume they would discover porn at some point, and porn also has lots of unrealistic elements.
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Why the hell would you want to know whether your kid watches hentai/porn? How would that come up in a conversation?
"Billy, m'boy, you just got your driver's license, and I think it's time to tell you about the birds and the bees."
"Dad, I already know about sex. We've sat through three different classes about it, and my girlfriend and I would be doing it already if she wasn't such a prude."
"Ah, well, let me tell you about porn-"
"Dad, shut the fuck up. I am not going to talk about porn with you. That'd be gross."
Am I the only one who wouldn't inquire into my child's masturbation habits at all?
"Billy, m'boy, you just got your driver's license, and I think it's time to tell you about the birds and the bees."
"Dad, I already know about sex. We've sat through three different classes about it, and my girlfriend and I would be doing it already if she wasn't such a prude."
"Ah, well, let me tell you about porn-"
"Dad, shut the fuck up. I am not going to talk about porn with you. That'd be gross."
Am I the only one who wouldn't inquire into my child's masturbation habits at all?
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ShaggyJebus wrote...
Why the hell would you want to know whether your kid watches hentai/porn? How would that come up in a conversation?"Billy, m'boy, you just got your driver's license, and I think it's time to tell you about the birds and the bees."
"Dad, I already know about sex. We've sat through three different classes about it, and my girlfriend and I would be doing it already if she wasn't such a prude."
"Ah, well, let me tell you about porn-"
"Dad, shut the fuck up. I am not going to talk about porn with you. That'd be gross."
Am I the only one who wouldn't inquire into my child's masturbation habits at all?
I would take that sucker by surprise one day and bust into the room laughing. Then we'll have an awkward moment of silence, followed by getting a drink from the cabinet to discuss about porn. That, or I just catch him by accident and things will follow from there.
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Kiss-Shot
Soba-Scans Staff
My kid can fap to what he wants, stopping your kid from fapping to porn seems a bit weird to me, although might want to leave the tentacle porn and the other real weird shit out there till he's/she's around 16.... although I'm pretty sure I came across those things pretty early.
Meh either way i'd just leave them to it.
Meh either way i'd just leave them to it.
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[color=red]If/ when I have kids i wont probly even bother. If they want to fap to something I wont get in their way. Like everyone said we started at that young and some to hentai while other to real porn and we all turned out fine... right?[/color]
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i'm not gonna lie... I think I would feel strangely proud that my offspring would have similar likes.
Although to be honest I really do not think little Johnny is going to walk up to me and go "Dad is it alright if fap to some hentai" (unless they were being a cocky shit not expecting me to know what it was) if they ain't fappin then they ain't happyin...
Although to be honest I really do not think little Johnny is going to walk up to me and go "Dad is it alright if fap to some hentai" (unless they were being a cocky shit not expecting me to know what it was) if they ain't fappin then they ain't happyin...
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Process: Freak out, yell, get angry, contemplate, think, think more, facepalm myself, curse at myself, try to speak to him/her and apologize, get locked out, rebuild 'communication', rebuild relationship, show acceptancy by buying some hentai for him/her, hope for the best.
Honestly, i think this is how it'd go for everyone. But thats just me.
Edit: Please not that i'm assuming here that you are no longer actively interested in hentai for the sake of your family and dropped it at the -least- 8 years ago. Your un'corrupted', so to speak, child finding your H stash would be pretty bad after all.
Honestly, i think this is how it'd go for everyone. But thats just me.
Edit: Please not that i'm assuming here that you are no longer actively interested in hentai for the sake of your family and dropped it at the -least- 8 years ago. Your un'corrupted', so to speak, child finding your H stash would be pretty bad after all.
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Nashrakh
Little White Butterflies Staff
Haburi-Chan wrote...
[color=blue]Of course. I'd be a hypocrite if I wouldn't.[/color]^
This.
Essentially the only answer that would make sense IMO, since most of us started looking at hentai at a fairly young age, as well.
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Really? I know how my parents would react at me My mum would laugh my dad wouldn't do anything
I hate how niave this conversation implies all parents are as if they don't know their kids are masturbating
I hate how niave this conversation implies all parents are as if they don't know their kids are masturbating
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tsuyoshiro wrote...
I'm pretty sure that if I had kids, they wouldn't come up to me and ask whether or not they can look at hentai; they'd probably just do it. Fine by me, gotta do somethin'. I wouldn't exactly be the one to suggest it. It might turn into a bonding experience of some sort, but maybe we'll try sports first, and work our way up to hentai.A bonding excperience? thats sick dude.
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Nashrakh
Little White Butterflies Staff
Hazah wrote...
Really? I know how my parents would react at me My mum would laugh my dad wouldn't do anything Then again, did your parents look at hentai when they were young?
Hazah wrote...
I hate how niave this conversation implies all parents are as if they don't know their kids are masturbating
I never saw someone write something along those lines. I mean I totally agree with you, THEY EVEN HAD SEX BEFORE, you know.
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Nashrakh wrote...
Hazah wrote...
Really? I know how my parents would react at me My mum would laugh my dad wouldn't do anything Then again, did your parents look at hentai when they were young?
Hazah wrote...
I hate how niave this conversation implies all parents are as if they don't know their kids are masturbating
I never saw someone write something along those lines. I mean I totally agree with you, THEY EVEN HAD SEX BEFORE, you know.
I don't believe that looked at hentai when they were young I'd be rather amused if they did
the very title seemed to me to imply when you are a parent you dictate whether children can masturbate to porn which brings up amusing mental images. but Yeah I agree with you
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Nashrakh
Little White Butterflies Staff
Hazah wrote...
the very title seemed to me to imply when you are a parent you dictate whether children can masturbate to porn which brings up amusing mental images.
Actually, some people are real strict about this. I think they're twisted, but they exist... (Roman Catholics come to mind... here in Middle Europe, they're not that rare and some are strict, while others are more relaxed when it comes to issues like this)
To me, the opening post could be read as implying that hentai has a different effect on children then regular porn. That'd be an interesting question, I think.