Illogical

So there's this girl I like. I know, original. The problem is, she's not really that hot, and I don't like her. See the contradiction? See, for one she's a radical Christian like you hear about. No sex til marriage, gays are evil, evangalize to everyone, wear overly modest clothing, stuff like that. Also, every time I see her she's saying something stupid like "I want to be with a man that worships me and will do anything for me". Every time I talk to her I remember that she's thick and the kind of person I stay away from.

Problem is, it's insane. She obviously likes me because she's constantly hanging around me, talking to me and doing nice things for me. Also, at one point she talked about me to one of my friends for like half an hour. So definitely likes me. Me, I hate almost everything about her, but I can't stop thinking about her. I even dreamed about her once... how dumb is that. I find myself wanting her even though logic tells me I shouldn't. Is this love, or have I just lost it?

I think you like her because she originally liked you. Tell me if I'm wrong.

You have a love-hate thingy going on.

Alternative:
Deep down at your core, you want to break her and turn her into your plaything. Which I would definitely approve of.

What he said, would be my guess.

Get the hell away from her.

Uhm... logic? Yeah right. Logic.

Seriously though, unless one side is gonna change somehow, I don't see it working. Accept that part of her or shut the feeling down. For her, quit the religious shit or fuck off.

I don't see any other way.

Mind break is always a viable option.

Well, same thing happened to me and i chose to stay away from her...
after that, i get on with my life, got a girl friend and lived happy~

the thing is... the ghost of the past came back to haunt me...
she kinda befriended my girlfriend...
and she start talking bad things about me to my girlfriend everyday for a whole month until my girlfriend actually thinks i'm really bad and unworthy and we broke up...

then, she starts talking to me again...
so...
erm... she kinda fucked up my relationship... DAMN! WTF is she thinking!?

just how shallow is the relationship that she actually broke up without talking about it with you? >.>

well, we did talk... more like a LOUD conversation... and followed by a very long "cold war" and then instead of going cold turkey, we started talking to each other again... but the break up comes after the talking....

Your primal part is telling you you need that pussy, but intellectually you understand she's is not the one, and she won't give you any until marriage (not that this is the most important thing ever, BUT IT COUNTS). Overcome the chemical reactions happening in your mind that try to fool you.

Intellect over instinct.

Its the path of least resistance. its almost free for grabbing, atleast in your mind probably and thats where this urge is from, i think. though you claim shes all this serious about christian crap about sex, I feel you are hopeful inside that she'd give in and all of that morality and bad personality will not matter once she's in bed. something from what youre saying hints of her being a hypocrite anyway, I guess thats also something your head is sensing, giving you extra hope on em....

just go for it and dont forget to use contraceptives

Not really. Usually if a girl follows me around like this I just think they're a creeper. Also, no to the other bit. ;)


To everyone, thanks for the input. Though some of you seem to be interpereting it as physical. It's not a physical want (though that IS there).

To ashcrimson: I do have that scenario in the back of my mind drawing a parallel between this girl and Julia in 1984.

I'm with nash, break her. if nothing else it's a fun way to kill some time. the fact that she's so hard core christian means she's easily manipulated to begin with. it will take a while to do, but it's oh so satisfying when it works. and when there's the underlying possability of sex, it makes it a little more entertaining.

ahh the good old days. warm fuzzy memories of slowly building someone up just to knock them down. then i get to put the shattered pieces back together any way i want. i need to get out and find a new puppet.

Some STDs are passed on genetically, and others can be contracted through completely innocent things. While, yes, she is significantly less likely to have one, there's still a chance.

if we can get back on topic...
You dont like her, you know that she likes you, so your brain makes you think that you like her back... Its annoying but true.
From your post I can geuss your not religious (dont worry im not going to flame you about it)
This actually gives you a fool proof escape method, since shes obviously deeply religous, if she asks you out, just tell her that you arent religious. Or if it cant wait, bring it up in a conversation, this should put her off.