Is it bad if you're a nympho?

Because I honestly think I am one. ._.; I think about and want sex a whole lot, at least once a day. I even think about it after I had finished doing it, and then I land up getting all started up again. I usually have to control myself around my husband, too, because sometimes he tells me to be good and wait for a couple of days before we have sex again. It drives me crazy... @_@ And also it makes me feel kind of horrible being like this at times, and wonder if there's something wrong with me being like this. O.O Is this a really bad thing? I don't want to wear my husband out and have him become tired of me being like this....

First things first: are you so sex-crazy that you're willing to fuck anyone?

No, just my husband.

Then you're not as bad as you think. Because, trust me, true nymphomania is no laughing matter to a committed guy. See the first entry here.

http://www.cracked.com/article_17503_5-bizarre-sexual-conditions-that-can-ruin-your-life.html

Other than that, I'm afraid I can't really say much else, having no experience and what not. You could try to keep busy with a hobby that doesn't seem to arouse you as much, or do some chores. Something to keep your mind off, I guess. You may get a better answer from the other girls of the site, honestly, so just hang tight a little.

Thank goodness. I was a little worried there for a bit because I heard that you could still be a nympho without being a cheater. My main concern was my husband possibly not being able to stand me being like that or would become bored and repulsed with me and not really want me as much anymore. Just thinking about that happening makes me really sad, as silly as it may sound.... Maybe I should have added that in... >.>; Lols

That really isn't unusual for a young woman. Work something out between you, don't fret about it.

Well, serious nymphomania is just what the article said: urge to just have sex, regardless of the person. You just seem a little more into it, or just seem to have a bigger drive, but manage to realize your loyalties. And really, I said what I said because, being a guy, I wouldn't mind all that sex. Just the cheating that would piss me off. :P

Nympho- woman
Man whore- man.

Actually, I Googled a little, and they DO have a proper, equivalent term for it: "satyriasis".

Thank you. :) It makes me feel a bit better knowing that. And I'll try to keep myself distracted like arcellrox suggested earlier so I don't think about it so much and see how that works. xD



Lols! That's a huge relief for me. ^.^ And yeah, I would never cheat. I hate cheaters more than anything, so I completely get where you're coming from on that.

then your not a nympho, nymphos dont care who they get it from.

Just try to keep your hands busy with say, building models.. or cleaning the house.. do something to take your mind off it. As artcellrox said.
Hold out for the sex, be patient. After all, the longer you wait, the better the gasm will be, right? (assumption made by a man here)

Bullshit; sluts don't care who they get it from, nymphos are a good step below that. All OP wants is her husbands dick, not whoever has a boner at the time. There is a big difference between the two.



I would say try to talk him into getting more frisky more often as opposed to keeping yourself busy, since being horny wears on your mind constantly. I don't know how it goes for women when they get in the mood, but when I get a hard on it's very difficult to concentrate on other things, especially when it refuses to go away for periods of time. It also makes it difficult to walk around, women can be so lucky sometimes.

If he can't be coerced (which I would think is surprising, but not strange) then I'd say find a good masturbation tool to tide you over between the times the two of you get your freak on.

Mind elaborating? Because all I'm thinking is that sluts don't have to have the disorder.

that not nymphos, that is expression your love toward your husband. that you really desire about him. if my girlfriend like that surely that make me happy.

Once a day isn't bad. When I was younger, sex was the only thing on my mind. I went through a lot of girls trying to satisfy myself and always on the look out for more. Then I met someone that could keep up and that's all we did for a few months during the time we spent together. This helped me settle down a bit.

Eventually I came across a concept called sexual transmutation. It's where you redirect that drive into something productive. It was tricky at first, but I eventually used it to succeed at a lot of things. Probably one of the most valuable things I've ever learned. Strength training was the first discipline that I picked up, eventually it turned into wealth building. Worth a try, just had to find something interesting that can bring you a long term benefit. Everytime sex drive comes up, learn more/work on your discipline with 100% focus. First 20 minutes is a bitch, but tough it out and you'll be immersed. This process gets shorter and shorter, you'll eventually recondition yourself to be in control of your sex drive.

don't we all xD

you really have a lucky husband

As long as you never cheat on him, and keep everything to him only, you will be fine. If he says he wants you to wait, do it, for him. he probably does it for your sake, or for another reason. but still, lucky lucky husband :D

Wouldnt masturbation be a good thing for you? itll allow you to reduce this sex drive of yours, hell if you want him to have more sex with you allow him to catch you or even watch...to me nothing is more sexy... of course that is personal opinion