Is it odd to fap to someone you know?
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HEY ALL!!!My 1st post :P. Anyways been following the forums for about a week now, seen lots of interesting people in here and decided to join this cheerful and fun community :D.
Anyways onto the main topic here. My question to you all is... is fapping to someone you know strange? Anyways thought upon this question 'cause my mate told me he was like thinking of some girls we know sexually or of sorts, don't know if he is fapping to them though (hope not). I asked some of my other mates about it, some said yeh it was fine some others said it wasn't. IMO, it's kinda strange 'cause I personally don't fap to any real life person whatsoever 'cause of respect and all...yeh I know I'm odd. Anyways what do you all think? Yes or no and why.
p.s I wanted to make a poll but I'm not yet versatile with the forums...so what you
see is what you get.
p.p.s I'm not talking about girlfriends or exes 'cause it isn't really odd to fap to your lover or ex-lovers IMO, especially if you banged her before.
Anyways onto the main topic here. My question to you all is... is fapping to someone you know strange? Anyways thought upon this question 'cause my mate told me he was like thinking of some girls we know sexually or of sorts, don't know if he is fapping to them though (hope not). I asked some of my other mates about it, some said yeh it was fine some others said it wasn't. IMO, it's kinda strange 'cause I personally don't fap to any real life person whatsoever 'cause of respect and all...yeh I know I'm odd. Anyways what do you all think? Yes or no and why.
p.s I wanted to make a poll but I'm not yet versatile with the forums...so what you
see is what you get.
p.p.s I'm not talking about girlfriends or exes 'cause it isn't really odd to fap to your lover or ex-lovers IMO, especially if you banged her before.
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Before I started using porn, or when I am cut off from the internet, I fapped to the girls I know, girls i used to know, girls I see on the streets, pretty much anything with breasts.
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in b4 queer jokes.
Like the person above, when I didn't have access to material I used to fap to girls I knew or liked in school or from where ever I met them.
Like the person above, when I didn't have access to material I used to fap to girls I knew or liked in school or from where ever I met them.
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I had a lot of yearbook pics with her...creepy but you gotta do what you gotta do, but only when there's nothing else available nya~
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i've never fapped to the idea of someone i actually know. that would be creepy... and i'm sure it'd be awkward talking to them after the fact. i've always had a vivid imagination and or porn
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animepark13 wrote...
i've never fapped to the idea of someone i actually know. that would be creepy... and i'm sure it'd be awkward talking to them after the fact. i've always had a vivid imagination and or pornThe majority of all hentai material is based on fapping to someone one knows.
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There was a female I was somewhat friends with in my senior year. She had really nice breasts and sometimes (only twice IIRC) I would fantasize about engaging in paizuri with her rack while masturbating. Didn't really find it weird though. Maybe I'm just nuts.
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NO, it is not. Simple as that. You fap to hentai because they are hot you fap to girls becasue they are hot it's common sense. Though funny how you used queer....
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IEAIAIO wrote...
Before I started using porn, or when I am cut off from the internet, I fapped to the girls I know, girls i used to know, girls I see on the streets, pretty much anything with breasts.No offense but that's kinda hard core, don't you think? But who am I to judge you. I didn't realize that I would get these kinda responses 'cause I've always thought people condemned these kinda stuff but anyways thanks all for your input. Keep em coming guys!!
Superior wrote...
NO, it is not. Simple as that. You fap to hentai because they are hot you fap to girls becasue they are hot it's common sense. Though funny how you used queer....But then again hentai isn't based on real people (maybe they are but i don't know of) but these are real girls who you know I'm talking about, I'd see it as a breach of their privacy, but maybe I'm weird that way.
p.s could you explain what you mean by it's funny how I used queer. I've been using it ever since I learned it that way but maybe I didn't realize I've been using it wrong :P
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Why would it bee queer?
Actually fapping to your girlfriend imagining she does something you wouldn't make her do in a real situation is incredibly amusing. Way better than fapping to some random vid.
Actually fapping to your girlfriend imagining she does something you wouldn't make her do in a real situation is incredibly amusing. Way better than fapping to some random vid.
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I don't believe it's very strange. People have sexual fantasies, whether that's about people you know and like or anonymous is purely subjective.
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g-money wrote...
animepark13 wrote...
i've never fapped to the idea of someone i actually know. that would be creepy... and i'm sure it'd be awkward talking to them after the fact. i've always had a vivid imagination and or pornThe majority of all hentai material is based on fapping to someone one knows.
i don't know them.... and they aren't real... so yeah
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sv51macross wrote...
There was a female I was somewhat friends with in my senior year. She had really nice breasts and sometimes (only twice IIRC) I would fantasize about engaging in paizuri with her rack while masturbating. Didn't really find it weird though. Maybe I'm just nuts.If that makes you nuts than I'm sure as hell nuts. As some of the previous people said I mostly did this when I had no access to the internet or anything "tangible".
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MonkeyFaze wrote...
My question to you all is... is fapping to someone you know queer? Anyways thought upon this question 'cause my mate told me he was like thinking of some girls we know sexually or of sorts, don't know if he is fapping to them though (hope not). I asked some of my other mates about it, some said yeh it was fine some others said it wasn't. IMO, it's kinda queer 'cause i personally don't fap to any real life person whatsoever 'cause of respect and all...yeh I know I'm queer. Anyways what do you all think? Yes or no and why.I require you to answer me two of my own questions before I may answer yours. This is not to be mean, they are for clarification.
1: By "queer", do you mean 'homosexual' or 'odd'? It can mean either, and your narrative allows for either to be used, albeit with different connotations.
2: When you are imagining your friend conducting in sexual activities, is the focus more upon the act of sex with the female classmate, with your male friend's face simply used to allow the fantasy to flourish with greater ease, or are your thoughts more upon him in the midst of passion?
(Of course, both of these questions assume that you are male and are already thinking about your male friend during such times when you touch yourself.)
p.s I wanted to make a poll but I'm not yet versatile with the forums so.... what you see is what you get xD.
This one is easier to answer.
When you made this thread, you had to find and click a button which said "newtopic".
Should you wish to post a poll instead, you simply have to click the button next to it which says "newpoll".
There, you will see the standard topic starting comment box. However, underneath it, will be a section which consists of text boxes for Poll Question, Poll Option (to be filled in and added one at a time), and Poll Run Length.
It's a simple process, really.
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i dont think queer is the right word, maybe weird/creepy? never mind i looked up queer
I dont do that, i find it to creepy to fap to someone i know, it makes things too ackward awkward(my spelling fails -_-)
I dont do that, i find it to creepy to fap to someone i know, it makes things too ackward awkward(my spelling fails -_-)
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forwantofanail wrote...
I require you to answer me two of my own questions before I may answer yours. This is not to be mean, they are for clarification.1: By "queer", do you mean 'homosexual' or 'odd'? It can mean either, and your narrative allows for either to be used, albeit with different connotations.
2: When you are imagining your friend conducting in sexual activities, is the focus more upon the act of sex with the female classmate, with your male friend's face simply used to allow the fantasy to flourish with greater ease, or are your thoughts more upon him in the midst of passion?
(Of course, both of these questions assume that you are male and are already thinking about your male friend during such times when you touch yourself.)
@forwantofanail: are you sure you read his post correctly? he explicitly said he doesnt fap to anyone he knows. the real bummer was how the assumed homosexuality was highlighted when it had nothing to do with the question. gay or not(and im not saying anyone is), there was no need for clarification on what was imagined just to answer the question posed.
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chaosbreak wrote...
forwantofanail wrote...
I require you to answer me two of my own questions before I may answer yours. This is not to be mean, they are for clarification.1: By "queer", do you mean 'homosexual' or 'odd'? It can mean either, and your narrative allows for either to be used, albeit with different connotations.
2: When you are imagining your friend conducting in sexual activities, is the focus more upon the act of sex with the female classmate, with your male friend's face simply used to allow the fantasy to flourish with greater ease, or are your thoughts more upon him in the midst of passion?
(Of course, both of these questions assume that you are male and are already thinking about your male friend during such times when you touch yourself.)
@forwantofanail: are you sure you read his post correctly? he explicitly said he doesnt fap to anyone he knows.the real bummer was how the assumed homosexuality was highlighted when it had nothing to do with the question. gay or not(and im not saying anyone is), there was no need for clarification on what was imagined just to answer the question posed.
Are you sure you read my post correctly? You even quoted where I said that the questions assume that MonkeyFaze did indeed "fap to [those] he knows."
Let me explain the questions:
Question 1 has to do with his meaining. Is he asking if it's simply wierd to fap to the thought of friends or if it suggests homosexual tendencies? There is no "assumed homosexuality", I also put the word "odd" between apostrophes to show that they were definitions.
Question 2 asks for the reasons he would do so, if he did place his friend in his fantasies. Motivation to do so is the the determining factor here.
I had hoped that I had worded the questions in such a way as to allow MonkeyFaze to answer his own question himself while answering mine. At the end of the day, he's the one who decides whether or not he'll actually fap to the thought of someone he knows or not, not us.
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forwantofanail wrote...
MonkeyFaze wrote...
My question to you all is... is fapping to someone you know queer? Anyways thought upon this question 'cause my mate told me he was like thinking of some girls we know sexually or of sorts, don't know if he is fapping to them though (hope not). I asked some of my other mates about it, some said yeh it was fine some others said it wasn't. IMO, it's kinda queer 'cause i personally don't fap to any real life person whatsoever 'cause of respect and all...yeh I know I'm queer. Anyways what do you all think? Yes or no and why.1: By "queer", do you mean 'homosexual' or 'odd'? It can mean either, and your narrative allows for either to be used, albeit with different connotations.
2: When you are imagining your friend conducting in sexual activities, is the focus more upon the act of sex with the female classmate, with your male friend's face simply used to allow the fantasy to flourish with greater ease, or are your thoughts more upon him in the midst of passion?
(Of course, both of these questions assume that you are male and are already thinking about your male friend during such times when you touch yourself.)[/quote]
By queer i mean odd or whatever you perceive as strange. And OMG you got it totally wrong I didn't mean I fantasise about my friend. I meant that my friend was attracted to some girls sexually and it got me thinking that maybe he fapped to them not me fapping to my friend and another girl. Like I said I find it strange and don't fap to people I know in real life.
p.s sorry for the misuse of queer I usually use it to describe strange or odd.Really really sorry I'll change it right away.
