Is it okay to be alone for the rest of your life?
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I have been through a lot of different relationships in a short time and I have taken a 5 year sabbatical from any intimate relations. I find myself longing for one, but I have a feeling I will never be happy that way. For some reason I am like trash who is tossed away or a punching bag to be abused. Maybe it is better to be alone, at least I won't feel like Swiss cheese.
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It is very different for everyone. My mom has friends who don't have partners and such and they are all happy. Apparently, there are people who just cannot find love or just don't have the capacity to fall in love. Going back to your question, yes it is okay to be alone for the rest of your life. There is no rule in life that states that you must always have a partner with you. As long as you have your family and your good friends with your, you will be fine.
But of course this only happens for so long.. in the end I think your just bound to be with someone again
But of course this only happens for so long.. in the end I think your just bound to be with someone again
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I personally would not want to be alone for the rest of my life.
I say don't give up, keep trying, you'll love someone who loves you just as much someday.
I say don't give up, keep trying, you'll love someone who loves you just as much someday.
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Okay? Fuck no.
Oioi! Drop this emo shit at once. You need to man the fuck up.
Lot of dem fuckers get some bad shit done to em. Do not give up.
No man should have to live his life alone.
You even feel longing for relationship so stop questioning all this goddamn shit and do the fuck you want to do.
You need some MENERGY!
angelborn wrote...
I have been through a lot of different relationships in a short time and I have taken a 5 year sabbatical from any intimate relations. I find myself longing for one, but I have a feeling I will never be happy that way. For some reason I am like trash who is tossed away or a punching bag to be abused. Maybe it is better to be alone, at least I won't feel like Swiss cheese.Oioi! Drop this emo shit at once. You need to man the fuck up.
Lot of dem fuckers get some bad shit done to em. Do not give up.
No man should have to live his life alone.
You even feel longing for relationship so stop questioning all this goddamn shit and do the fuck you want to do.
You need some MENERGY!
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Silly silly boy. Do you want to die knowing that your life was never complete? Just keep trying. I know there's somebody out there that will treat you properly.
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Thanks RedJest, jmcake, and Haburi-Chan. I must be having one of those depressive things. It lasts for awhile after someone I know has died. I get to thinking about life and my choices. Most would have stayed the same, but some I wish I had been thinking and weighed my options properly.
I'm hardly a boy anymore Haburi-Chan, but sometimes I feel just as stupid.
I'll keep my future emo-crap to a minimum.
To tell you the truth though, I don't think a relationship would make me happy anymore. I think I could be alone forever as long as I had a purpose.
I'm hardly a boy anymore Haburi-Chan, but sometimes I feel just as stupid.
I'll keep my future emo-crap to a minimum.
To tell you the truth though, I don't think a relationship would make me happy anymore. I think I could be alone forever as long as I had a purpose.
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Note that there's a difference in being alone and not having a steady relationship.
I have met a few adults who swing that way and a perfectly happy, but from what I know most of them are still sexually active and flirt around even if they never get into a relationship. I believe that this is fine, whatever flows their boat right?
Personally I do not want to be alone for the rest of my life and nor do I believe that I will. Don't worry about it dude, you'll find someone who is just right for you.
I have met a few adults who swing that way and a perfectly happy, but from what I know most of them are still sexually active and flirt around even if they never get into a relationship. I believe that this is fine, whatever flows their boat right?
Personally I do not want to be alone for the rest of my life and nor do I believe that I will. Don't worry about it dude, you'll find someone who is just right for you.
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I will kill myself if not married by 30. or have at least entered into a marriage pact with a suitable male.
I have 11 years to live.
I have 11 years to live.
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I'm fine with the concept. I'm only twenty-two so I've got plenty of time, but as it stands I'm in no rush to be in a relationship and I've never given a serious thought to marriage. I've got too much bullshit in my life that I have to take care of before I can share that burden with someone else.
Maybe I'll be alone forever, or maybe I'll find someone to connect with when I least expect it. Either way, I've got other priorities.
Maybe I'll be alone forever, or maybe I'll find someone to connect with when I least expect it. Either way, I've got other priorities.
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Chlor wrote...
Note that there's a difference in being alone and not having a steady relationship. I forgot to mention this point as well.. But point is, even if you have trouble now with your life as regards to your relationships. At some point you will recover from it. But it's important that you don't set your mindset that you will never be happy being with someone.
All it takes is a little bit of time and patience. Great things will come if you properly wait.
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I know how you feel, i been cheated on a few times. it makes me want to give up on relationships completely. i suggest you go to the pound and get yourself a dog. they give you unconditional love. i think having my dogs helps alot. my dogs are always happy to see me. all they want from me is some attention(and food).
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Depemds on your definition on being alone. You will not visit any realtives and friends for life. You will not meet anybody. You order all food from NutriSystem, have other items delivered. How strong are you mentally? Can you live on TV alone? Yes no internet commuication with any persons.
I think you may become psychotic.
I think you may become psychotic.
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tsuyoshiro
FAKKU Writer
It's impossible to be completely alone, there's people everywhere...friggin' epidemic it is. Still, the more alone, the better. Can't stand being around people, they piss me off.
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
I dun think not being in a relationship makes your life less complete in any way... but hey, at least having a partner do give you this drive to keep going. so... I say no, it's not fine to be alone all your life.
but that doesn't mean anyone will do either. look calmly and carefully, someday you'll find the right one. ^^
but that doesn't mean anyone will do either. look calmly and carefully, someday you'll find the right one. ^^
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earlshaggwell wrote...
I know how you feel, i been cheated on a few times. it makes me want to give up on relationships completely. i suggest you go to the pound and get yourself a dog. they give you unconditional love. i think having my dogs helps alot. my dogs are always happy to see me. all they want from me is some attention(and food).I actually have a black lab, but he can't move the way he used to and I think he's a little depressed that I'm working more. Unfortunately, I can barely pay the bills as it is. I should find his Kong and take him out this afternoon since I'm off today.
I just got home a little while ago from work. I basically work the graveyard shift, which means I miss happy hour all the time.
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Kiss-Shot
Soba-Scans Staff
It's not okay, nor is it wrong. It's just down to what you want from your life, if you want to be with someone for the rest of your life then go for it, if you don't then thats fine to.
Just don't be discouraged and just because one thing may not work out doesn't mean the next thing won't either.
Just don't be discouraged and just because one thing may not work out doesn't mean the next thing won't either.
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I thought I was happier alone too for the longest time, but then I found a great girl, we had to break up because I moved, but we are still friends. Even though im alone again she taught me that there is someone out there for everyone, just dont give up. =3
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you can survive and be happy for the rest of your life being alone as long as you have chocolates.
I like to think that the significant other is finding me and i am finding her,just that the searching process takes a very long time lol.^ ^
I like to think that the significant other is finding me and i am finding her,just that the searching process takes a very long time lol.^ ^
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I think that is completely normal to feel that way, Irecently just break up with my gf for various reasons and you feel that there's no one else for you and that you're gonna be alone and though it may be true that you can stay alone for the rest of your life the feeling of trying shouldn't be lost cause that defines you to be alive(my personal opinion a little messed up cause i break up just yesterday)