Is it okay to date your best friends sister? (Personal Qns)
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I don't know if this is the right community but, I need some opinions from fellow Otakus... Is it okay to date my best friend's sister? We both are Otakus. have everything in common, the only thing stopping me is that, well, IT'S MY BEST FRIENDS SISTER. That and I'm chicken shit, plus, her friends are cock-blocks. Help would be nice for my pathetic self. ;;3;;
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Depends entirely on the situation. There is no definite "Yes or no" to this type of question. And people can say all they want. But you'll never know unless you actually try.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Man code allow you to date/bang your friend sister as long it cool with him.
If said no, then you have to weight your friendship worth over pussy.
Totally up to you.
If said no, then you have to weight your friendship worth over pussy.
Totally up to you.
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It's completely okay to date. Although you might complicate your friendship with your friend well since you are dating his sister.
Well I always say, you already have the "No" garanteed but that is if you don't try. Best is to try and see what happens that way you get the most of it you might end up with a beautiful relationship and keep your friendship. I suggest starting slowly though, don't make it too obvious! Good Luck!
Well I always say, you already have the "No" garanteed but that is if you don't try. Best is to try and see what happens that way you get the most of it you might end up with a beautiful relationship and keep your friendship. I suggest starting slowly though, don't make it too obvious! Good Luck!
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animefreak_usa wrote...
Man code allow you to date/bang your friend sister as long it cool with him.If said no, then you have to weight your friendship worth over pussy.
Totally up to you.
Exactly.
All depends on whether your friend's okay with it.
As long as you treat her right, there really shouldn't be any problem.
[size=10]If you dating his mom, however- well. Now that's different.[/h]
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And a little detail I kind of left out is...I've known both of them for 6 years... And a thing that kind of bothers me, but can also add to my advantage is that, he honestly doesn't care. But, I don't know why it bothers me. Which adds to my ever-stacking pile of pathetic. Also, as it may be told, I am further encouraged by some of her friends (Which others seem to enjoy cutting into our conversations.) and ever approving older cousin. Nonetheless, she's far to outgoing but shy in some situations. But feh, what do I care. It's not like this could end in a major train wreck... Hehehehe..ughh...
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Look dude, the first thing you need to do is to realize that you, and everybody else, is just human. You're not more pathetic than everyone else - you just haven't gotten into the right mindset yet.
What's the problem with dating her if you like each other? Your friend will be much more relieved that his baby sister is being taken care of by his best friend rather than some stranger he doesn't know. It's only natural if you like her and knew her for so long.
Just know that it's different than dating some random chick you've met. So don't be surprised if the flow is much slower or faster than you were led to believe. Just go with the flow, and do what you two like to. It's your life after all, so make your own choice and make the best of it.
What's the problem with dating her if you like each other? Your friend will be much more relieved that his baby sister is being taken care of by his best friend rather than some stranger he doesn't know. It's only natural if you like her and knew her for so long.
Just know that it's different than dating some random chick you've met. So don't be surprised if the flow is much slower or faster than you were led to believe. Just go with the flow, and do what you two like to. It's your life after all, so make your own choice and make the best of it.
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If not now, when? :)
Honestly, "man code" is pretty much a cultural sham. If she and you connect, there is nothing a brother can do about it.
Seems he is fine with it from what you're saying, so go for it before she gets snatched up by a more forward guy! :)
Honestly, "man code" is pretty much a cultural sham. If she and you connect, there is nothing a brother can do about it.
Seems he is fine with it from what you're saying, so go for it before she gets snatched up by a more forward guy! :)
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Well I am just 1 brother out of the world. And when my friend dated my sister my friend thought he was going to get some after a few weeks of dating here all and all he tried to pressure her into it, she came home crying and the next day I was suspended for 2 weeks after I tackled him in the hallway.
So I think go ahead but don't think your going to tap that after a few weeks.
So I think go ahead but don't think your going to tap that after a few weeks.
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Mod Note: I received a report indicating that this thread is similar to another topic, as seen here: https://www.fakku.net/viewtopic.php?t=40033.
However, after reading through both threads, I have decided not to merge them as one is a question posed on a general level, while this particular discussion is seeking advice for a personal situation.
Sorry for the inconvenience caused.
Getting back on topic, I think it would be good if you approached the situation like any other relationships, without taking advantage (or disadvantages) of the fact that she is your friend's sister, nor the time period you have known them.
However, after reading through both threads, I have decided not to merge them as one is a question posed on a general level, while this particular discussion is seeking advice for a personal situation.
Sorry for the inconvenience caused.
Getting back on topic, I think it would be good if you approached the situation like any other relationships, without taking advantage (or disadvantages) of the fact that she is your friend's sister, nor the time period you have known them.
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PumpJack McGee wrote...
animefreak_usa wrote...
Man code allow you to date/bang your friend sister as long it cool with him.If said no, then you have to weight your friendship worth over pussy.
Totally up to you.
Exactly.
All depends on whether your friend's okay with it.
As long as you treat her right, there really shouldn't be any problem.
[size=10]If you dating his mom, however- well. Now that's different.[/h]
I my opinion, dating a best friend's sister (or brother) can be a great thing. First you have to convince him it is okay if he isn't already fine with it.
However, once you start dating you are going to feel like you are part of the family (this may be a bad thing depending on your objectives). You already have one of her family members liking you, and if two of their children like you the parents should feel better about you too.
As long as you aren't planning for a hit-it-and-quit-it mode of attack, you'll have a heads up over someone who would have to make friends with the girl's family at some point down the line anyways.
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Yeah it should be fine as long as you take it seriously. I mean date her not with the goal of getting to bang her, but to be in a relationship with her. If you really like her then yes, go for it. Just dont treat it like a joke or you will lose both the relationship and your best friend.
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I don't know. I have both a little brother and a little sister and my little brother said he didn't care but he got pissed when his best friend would pay more attention and hang out with my sister than my brother, so unless you can balance the time you spend with both I say go for it. but if you can't and he's not really cool with it maybe wait a bit longer or find another girl.
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Gambler wrote...
Mod Note: I received a report indicating that this thread is similar to another topic, as seen here: https://www.fakku.net/viewtopic.php?t=40033.However, after reading through both threads, I have decided not to merge them as one is a question posed on a general level, while this particular discussion is seeking advice for a personal situation.
Sorry for the inconvenience caused.
Getting back on topic, I think it would be good if you approached the situation like any other relationships, without taking advantage (or disadvantages) of the fact that she is your friend's sister, nor the time period you have known them.
Oh, sorry. I just joined and felt I needed some advice. I should say sorry for posting something similar.
TO everyone else, not to sound like a sappy pussy, I thank you for advice. I seriously appreciate it. Also, I don't really look at her for something such as "To tap". it's just...Hell, I don't even know. But surely, as my cousin told me, "with a little push, can get you walking a long way."
So, sincere thanks to everyone, and, I will bring it up with him, even though I'm sure he doesn't care. Because of their constant verbal arguments, however, I'm sure that's how all brothers are.
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neko-chan wrote...
PumpJack McGee wrote...
animefreak_usa wrote...
Man code allow you to date/bang your friend sister as long it cool with him.If said no, then you have to weight your friendship worth over pussy.
Totally up to you.
Exactly.
All depends on whether your friend's okay with it.
As long as you treat her right, there really shouldn't be any problem.
[size=10]If you dating his mom, however- well. Now that's different.[/h]
Well, now that I look back, I've known my best friend ever since we were little kids. Also, I know his parents really well. However, her friends are less friendly to me... Don't think they like me. Wonder why, I'm not a total douche. Barely even talk to them. Mainly because they never give me the chance..
I my opinion, dating a best friend's sister (or brother) can be a great thing. First you have to convince him it is okay if he isn't already fine with it.
However, once you start dating you are going to feel like you are part of the family (this may be a bad thing depending on your objectives). You already have one of her family members liking you, and if two of their children like you the parents should feel better about you too.
As long as you aren't planning for a hit-it-and-quit-it mode of attack, you'll have a heads up over someone who would have to make friends with the girl's family at some point down the line anyways.
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Heh, sounds like a situation my friend is in, only he's not an otaku, she is, and her bro will kick his arse, anyway, you could but should you break up or hurt her it may complicate things between you, also things would be kinda awkward if you were hanging out at his house and your always cuddling with her or something, you have to set up boundaries as to not endanger both relationships, alternatively, stay close friends with both of them and don't throw in a cnahce to ruin a good friendship.
