Just a pointless little situation
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Here's how it goes:
I am currently living with my family right now. My older brother also lives with us, so he used my laptop without my permission and played Snow Sakura. He then made fun of how I was a hentai freak. I told him to fuck off and go eat a dick, but this only lead to a fight to where he told me I was a psychopath for crying over a girl who isn't even real, BTW I cried because he beat my ass down good. He says he is gonna tell my father I am crazy so that he could take me to a psychiatrist. I can't just leave things at this, I am out of the job and have no money. As I see it, I can stay and confront my father who will probably make me go to a therapist, or I can pack my things and leave to somewhere. Since I have no one to give me advice but teh internet, I'll ask you. What should I do?
I am currently living with my family right now. My older brother also lives with us, so he used my laptop without my permission and played Snow Sakura. He then made fun of how I was a hentai freak. I told him to fuck off and go eat a dick, but this only lead to a fight to where he told me I was a psychopath for crying over a girl who isn't even real, BTW I cried because he beat my ass down good. He says he is gonna tell my father I am crazy so that he could take me to a psychiatrist. I can't just leave things at this, I am out of the job and have no money. As I see it, I can stay and confront my father who will probably make me go to a therapist, or I can pack my things and leave to somewhere. Since I have no one to give me advice but teh internet, I'll ask you. What should I do?
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... Wow.
So your brother's a giant douche and your father's going to think you're insane? Well, it seems like you're going to have to hope your dad believes you over him.
*Bit of an edit*
Let them pay for the therapist, if it comes to that. They'll have no idea what you actually talk about with this person, so you could be free to vent on how much they suck for an hour. While THEY pay for it.
So your brother's a giant douche and your father's going to think you're insane? Well, it seems like you're going to have to hope your dad believes you over him.
*Bit of an edit*
Let them pay for the therapist, if it comes to that. They'll have no idea what you actually talk about with this person, so you could be free to vent on how much they suck for an hour. While THEY pay for it.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Your were cried over a eroge girl=you need medical help.
your crying over a beat down= glue in his shoes and be king.
Just tell your dad his was fucking with my shit without permission and if the question of your otakuness come up say i was crying because he beat me down not my 2d lover.... say i have no 2d lover. hide laptop, and tied your brother down and beat him with a sock fill with a bar of soap.
your crying over a beat down= glue in his shoes and be king.
Just tell your dad his was fucking with my shit without permission and if the question of your otakuness come up say i was crying because he beat me down not my 2d lover.... say i have no 2d lover. hide laptop, and tied your brother down and beat him with a sock fill with a bar of soap.
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Yeah, everything is fine except for one slight problem.
If you run away, exactly how are you going to support yourself?
If you can't, its better to just go the therapist. Then, you could just bullshit your way through the session until its over with.
As for the crying over a 2d girl crap
Use movies as an example
Countless people cry over movies
Even when they know none of it really happened.
If you run away, exactly how are you going to support yourself?
If you can't, its better to just go the therapist. Then, you could just bullshit your way through the session until its over with.
As for the crying over a 2d girl crap
Use movies as an example
Countless people cry over movies
Even when they know none of it really happened.
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animefreak_usa wrote...
Your were cried over a eroge girl=you need medical help.I see no problem with crying over a good/sad ending in an Eroge, or anything for that matter. Kanon's a good anime example of this; if you've watched it and haven't even sniffled from all of the tragedy, then you're either lying about it or have no soul.
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Seeing a psych isn't bad, I've been seeing one for the past year. Plus, it's coming out for your dad's pocket, it's not like you have to pay for it.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Joe-kun wrote...
animefreak_usa wrote...
Your were cried over a eroge girl=you need medical help.I see no problem with crying over a good/sad ending in an Eroge, or anything for that matter. Kanon's a good anime example of this; if you've watched it and haven't even sniffled from all of the tragedy, then you're either lying about it or have no soul.
I meant of someone playing/raping his eroge game.
But since you said it. Didn't cry on Kanon ending, didn't like the series anyways. Never cried on any game except when i loss my save file on ff8 and brother erase my special games because mom was sniffing on the family computer back in the day.
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Tepel wrote...
Easy takedown:Ask him why he was playing Snow Sakura in the first place.
maybe he like shiny things.
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Sebastian wrote...
MentallyUnstable wrote...
therapisthidden message in that word. you know what to do
I like the way your mind works.
On-Topic:
Going to see a shrink ain't all that bad, buddy. And as Joe said- if you're of legal age- you can request that their policy of confidentiality exclude your parents as well. Then you can vent to someone who will actually listen. I've visited three in my lifetime for issues far worse than being a geek.
And that's if it even comes down to that. Siblings often make threats that they never actually intend to follow through with- nor is there any guarantee that your father will automatically think that you're some depraved nutter.
And unless you live in a seriously fucked-up family, moving out is rarely a good idea. Especially over what really oughta be a trivial matter.
When the confrontation does come about, all I can say is don't lose your head. If you can make your points calmly and rationally, it'll haft the odds in your favour.
Or you can just let yourself be labeled as a freak and use it as an excuse to compulsively kick your brother in the nads every time he says 'the'.
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First - Why do you not have a password for your computer?
Second - go get a job.
Last - Use proceeds to take martial arts lessons.
question mark question mark question mark... profit
Second - go get a job.
Last - Use proceeds to take martial arts lessons.
question mark question mark question mark... profit
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Sorted it out with my father, he says he understands(?), but says I shouldn't let this become an addiction. We really didn't talk about it, we talked more about how my brothers ruined their lives and how to not become like them. In the end, he told me to stop my hobby or it will lead me down a path of addiction and that I should consider seeing a the rapist. My father really is a wise and understanding man, but the same cannot be said to my brother, who is probably bragging to the rest of the family that I am insane.
This event has made me realize that I should cut off contact with almost all my family members, get a job, and move into my own place. To be honest, I really did think for a moment that I did cry for 2D girl, not because of the pain. I need to find myself...
I'm still gonna play eroge though.
EDIT: I did grow up in a pretty fucked up home and my siblings have did some despicable things to me. My brother did tell other family members what happened.
This event has made me realize that I should cut off contact with almost all my family members, get a job, and move into my own place. To be honest, I really did think for a moment that I did cry for 2D girl, not because of the pain. I need to find myself...
I'm still gonna play eroge though.
EDIT: I did grow up in a pretty fucked up home and my siblings have did some despicable things to me. My brother did tell other family members what happened.
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Joe-kun wrote...
Let them pay for the therapist, if it comes to that. They'll have no idea what you actually talk about with this person, so you could be free to vent on how much they suck for an hour. While THEY pay for it.
that's what i do, and the therapist just keeps telling me i'm right
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You are you, nothing will change that. My family, even my own parents, are not aware of my fascination (to put it bluntly) with anime, manga, and eroge, and I'm quite sure if I tell them about it, they will never understand. To me, it's not really an addiction, just a secretive hobby (along my other secretive hobby: Warhammer 40,000, which, oddly enough, is on a spectrum completely opposite of the land of moe and kawaii). You should try to get out and do something athletic or an extracurricular activity as it'll most likely improve your standing with your dad.
Or better yet, make yourself a model offspring. Don't fall into addiction like what your father says your brothers did. Do well. Be successful, and blow their reputation out of the water.
I'm assuming that your father is probably basing his decision off a generalization. That's like saying all videogames are violent because a very minute group of people went out killed with videogames as a loose reference. And that argument in specific is complete and utter bull.
Or better yet, make yourself a model offspring. Don't fall into addiction like what your father says your brothers did. Do well. Be successful, and blow their reputation out of the water.
I'm assuming that your father is probably basing his decision off a generalization. That's like saying all videogames are violent because a very minute group of people went out killed with videogames as a loose reference. And that argument in specific is complete and utter bull.
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Well you could just tell them straight-up that you like that stuff and that that doesn't make you crazy. Plus, running away makes 'em think you really are crazy and if they find you, you're just gonna end up in therapy anyways.
Finally, your brother's a jackass, superglue his dick to his nuts in his sleep.
Finally, your brother's a jackass, superglue his dick to his nuts in his sleep.
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Deftera wrote...
Well you could just tell them straight-up that you like that stuff and that that doesn't make you crazy. Plus, running away makes 'em think you really are crazy and if they find you, you're just gonna end up in therapy anyways.Finally, your brother's a jackass, superglue his dick to his nuts in his sleep.
thats a high gamble choice. forcing it all on them is just going to make the situation worse and make it seem like he's pushing his hobbies onto other people.
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Leh wrote...
Deftera wrote...
Well you could just tell them straight-up that you like that stuff and that that doesn't make you crazy. Plus, running away makes 'em think you really are crazy and if they find you, you're just gonna end up in therapy anyways.Finally, your brother's a jackass, superglue his dick to his nuts in his sleep.
thats a high gamble choice. forcing it all on them is just going to make the situation worse and make it seem like he's pushing his hobbies onto other people.
Better than being forced to go to a therapist for some God awful reason.