Just need to let this out.

In the past year or so ive really started feeling lonely. I work and have friends so its not the kind of lonelyness that friends can fix. Ive had strong urges to wants to have a girlfriend. And with that feeling comes lust which ive been trying to surpress and its getting really hard for me to do so. Its not about satisfying my self, even that is not enough....Let me explain. Lately ive had dreams where im having non-sexual ecounters with girls, some arent even real, there was one where i met a girl version of my self and she asked me if i was seeking comfort and if also wanted revenge. That one kind of scared me. Unfortunaly im not good looking, still a virgin and i dont even interact with girls my age at work or anywhere else. I just thought this would be the best place to talk about it with some one..

Unless you try internet dating (which can be a big downer in itself)getting a girlfriend is something that either happens by accident or happens with someone eventually over a long period of time. Why is it in just the past year you've been feeling lonely? What were you feeling before that time? Dont confuse wanting to be in a relationship with someone with just needing to experience sex. If you dont mind me asking, how old are you? Age has a lot to do with this scenario.

I'm [size=10]Im 18 honestly i dont think its about sex. I just feel alone. The feeling has been happening for a long time, i didint really start feeling it until after a while.[/h]

I understand your predicament brother. These feelings often times will go away in time, once you pick up a hobby or maybe just find something to keep your mind off your loneliness. I too have trouble in seeking companionship with those of the opposite sex and feel rather lonely at times. My unfortunate response was to go onto sites like omegle or chatroulette. That is not the best place, but I did find a friend on one of these sites that I now talk to even today. while I will say seeking that missing companionship in all the wrong places is not the best course of action, I will suggest you just try to meet new people. go out and socialize. if that doesn't work....just fap to fakku.

anywho, I hope you find someone that will treat you right and someone that you will do the same to. living a nice love life is actually quite hard just keep your chin up and keep looking for the horizon, for that horizon might just have a big o pair of titties.

Unfortunately, not interacting/ being antisocial with girls isn't going to fix your lonliness. The only person who can fix your lonliness is you. You either need to start talking to girls/ learning how to talk to girls, or as somebody else said maybe try internet dating, which even then, you'd need to talk to girls.

Go on the pull and have a one-night stand with a woman twice your age and 3x as slutty

Hire out a prostitute

Perhaps go speed-dating or go on a dating website? Or speak to one of your friends about what ails ya and they might hook you up with a girl who likes you. Never know.

Honestly this whole thing sounds like it's just all in your head and you've been dwelling on it for so long you've convinced yourself that your lonely.

well let me just say this. don't put yourself down or think you can't get a girlfriend cause u think your ugly or have no self confidence. that attitude will get you shot down and no where. what you need to do is be the best you can be. if you don't like who you are right now then you need to change something about yourself. anyways don't get discourage by what girls think. there are lots of girls out there and surely one of them is bound to like you. don't lose your cool.

Same here im a fat hunk of crap lol, i cant really find much redeeming about my outsides, but there will be a woman someday who will love me for me, a kind hearted gentle man who just wants to spoil a woman with whom he is in love with, and also have kids, a lot of kids haha. You are not alone and i don't mind if you PM me about it, im still a virgin as well and not scared to admit it, and im 21, so don't worry and have faith man! There is a cute girl out there waiting for you to spoil her, and i know mine is out there too!