Looks vs Techniques

(Since it's a random question, I hope it belongs in the right category?)

Which is your preference? Is sex more about feeling good, or looking good?

(lol btw when I said as arousing as a lamp I am assuming you don't have a fetish for lamps.)

It doesn't matter as long as it's with a meaningful person?

Is what i would like the say, but alas it's anything but.

I think it's a too.. uhh.. meaningful answer.. if you know what I mean ;D

Are you alluding to societal acceptance, vs. personal preference?

If you are, this question could be rephrased:
"Do you have an inferiority complex?"

If that person is fugly, I doubt s/he'll ever get to the stage where s/he gets to use all the skillz.

And if the person is so damn hot, then that is already sort of arousing... until the real business starts, that is.

"Freakishly hot person but is as arousing as a lamp" I dont really get this. But I believe what you meant was "Freakishly hot person but sucks in bed more than anyone else". Because if a person is freaking hot, then they are usually arousing too.

I answered "Disgustingly fugly person but gives you orgasm haven". But I wouldnt have sex with ugly person no matter how good he is in bed IF I dont have feelings towards him. And I wouldnt have sex with freakishly hot person (doesnt matter if he's good in bed or not) either if I dont have feelings towards him.
So I would be as fine with either one of them IF I had feelings for him.

anii-chan! what a cute answer. LOL

I personally seem to end up with fugly who is as arousing as a sack of potatoes.

You gave a hard choice in your poll. You're suggesting either:

Ugly, so she'll make me flaccid by looking at her, but have amazing skills in bed. Problem there is if I opened my eyes she'd kill my boner.
Or hot, so she will give me a boner, but she'll be useless at sex so I'll never be able to keep it up for her if she can't perform.

I guess ugly and have skills. I can always close my eyes, avert my gaze, or fuck her drunk.

If said fuglyfolk has skillz, sounds good.

Well... in my opinion sex is sex. the person that you love would be beautiful in your eyes so it would not matter. (Unless you are having sex with a person that you do not love then that is a different matter to discuss.)

Easy to say, but to follow by?

I am a man and I would stick to my words. I would not love a female just because I want to have sex with her. I would love her for everything she has. even if she was missing some things that would not matter. (we are human anyway.)

I agree with mochure completely. And it's pretty easy to not have sex with someone you don't love; I've pulled that off for 20 years straight =D

If I find a guy "disgusting", I won't even gonna go there... I will be way too turn off before anything starts.
When I like a guy, I will mindlessly be attracted to him (even if he isn't the best looking, generally speaking).

Personal opinion, whoever I like, goes into the better looking category. If he sucks, practice makes perfect?

You can train people who have no experience.

I rest my case.

Damn! Good point. I think my answer will have to be revised to this, too :o

the best sex iv had has been with thick girls. they try harder... nuff said

It doesnt really matter for me, I go more for personality than looks.

My woman has both so hey.. now me personally.. im fucking ugly... but i never had a girl not cum(s). Now so i don't hear shit.. you know when i girl cums.. pussy constricts, eye dilutes and contracts and lips turn red.

Agreed.

My choice for this poll should be obvious by now.