my gf wont let me see her boobs even after we had sex. y?

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Some girls are sensitive to their looks and bodies... I guessing she has a shirt on or her bra went your mad loving her?

1. you got to let her be relax with herself. foreplay and spooning helps. Go underwear shopping with her to show support for her and do everything to show that you don't care if her boobs be weird or wrong, say your beautiful anyway because that how i feel about you not your body.

2. She has emotional problems so you gotta work it out on her time schedule. Support her and love her and if this a big deal to you, tell her... but if might backfire on you so it your choice... and eat her out like a champ... works for me.

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Some girls are sensitive to their looks and bodies... I guessing she has a shirt on or her bra went your mad loving her?

1. you got to let her be relax with herself. foreplay and spooning helps. Go underwear shopping with her to show support for her and do everything to show that you don't care if her boobs be weird or wrong, say your beautiful anyway because that how i feel about you not your body.

2. She has emotional problems so you gotta work it out on her time schedule. Support her and love her and if this a big deal to you, tell her... but if might backfire on you so it your choice... and eat her out like a champ... works for me.

Relaxation is the most primary key to anything.

If she's not comfortable with it, you have to discover how to make her comfortable. Most people just generally feel insecure about their bodies, women in general. This is mostly because of all the magazines and such in the media.

So you have to do your job and reassure her about things. Compliments go a long way. Romance as well.

For example. What do you do when you engage in sex? Is it a pretty straight forward thing and wham bam you're done? If so, then there is probably not enough romance going on for her. Try being much more intimate. Start slow and make her feel the attention you have.

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Getting back on topic, I may not be in any position to comment since I am still searching for answers to my own relationship problem, I would think the current mood between your girlfriend and yourself plays an important part.

Ah, what happened Gambler is that he posted it first in Serious discussion. Then reposted a new thread here after he was informed about his mistake.

Then the one in serious discussion was moved here as well instead of being deleted.

I was really insecure about mine so I didn't show them for a while. My boyfriend just kept pushing about how he'll love them and that he bets they're wonderful. He kept asking everyday and when I finally showed him, he immediately said that they were lovely and kissed them.

[color=#ff0080]She lets you see her pukka, but not her boobs?

o.0??

Anyway, what red-vanilla said. She may have a scar or just think that they're ugly. Whether they really are or not, you have to wait until she's comfortable enough to show them.

And practice your poker face, because she's going to be looking for any sign that you are just as disgusted with them as she is.[/color]

For her not to show you her breasts, even after you've had sex several times, leads me to conclude that she has a huge complex with them. Something more than a simple size complex.

Whatever it is, the only real way to clear things is an honest talk between the two. If you're this intimate with her, you should have no problems on making her open up about the subject.

Two things:

If she is rather... large (fat)... then she might just not want to take off her shirt.

Second, you should really ask one of her friend or someone who knows her. There isn't any other reason to figure out why other than to believe why she said she doesn't want to show you. If you don't believe her, then you need to ask someone who knows her and might know why.

She might be either wearing padded bras, or is insecure about her upper body in general. Worse case scenario, she's hiding a deformity or something. Either way, be cool with it: you do like her not just for her body, right? Let her know.

Don't push the issue during sex, talk afterward calmly. Ask why in particular she has such hesitancy to show you herself.
If she's in fact uncomfortable with her appearance, let her know you want her to be as relaxed as possible: sex should be a safe environment and she shouldn't have to feel either ashamed or embarrassed about her body!

Maybe you can come to some sort of compromise: see-through apparel, bra still on, etc...

i will give one suggestion and one only go down on her i know this sounds like im just being a perv but no try it start slow with the foreplay gentle kissing petting and what not and while you are doing so kiss every inch of her body not literally but its a great way of showing you love every part of her and on another note (ok i lied not just one) give her complements because this is a confidence issue but back to the original thought if you spend time trying to please her she will let her guard down and youll get you chance to see them and (if she has vocally said her breasts are ugly or w/e) when you do see them tell her you love them and they are perfect (no matter what or you will never see them again) well these are my words of wisdom worked on my ex hope it works for you.

she must self-esteem issues about her body if that's the case.I'm surprised she'd even let you have sex with her if she's not comfortable with herself.I suppose you can try making her feel better about herself by complimenting her or make her feel like she's beautiful.Or perhaps it will ease into it on it's own...best of luck to you.

Talk to her and ask her what the issue is, if it's a self esteem issue tell her it's ok, keep giving her compliments until she gets sick of hearing them, and then tell her some more ;P
Just be there for her and make sure she's comfortable around you, and that she knows you're with her because of WHO SHE IS, not just because you think she's got a nice rack, you get what I'm saying?
Give her time, I'm sure she'll become more confident as long as you're there to support her.
And NO you do not have a right to be angry because of it.

dude i feel for u i have been there take animefreak usa-kun's advice and go under wear or swimsuit shopping

probably she is shy and not confident is showing it often.
not to mention she might don't want to feel like sluts