Need to do some self-evaluation
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Alright, so I'm a healthy 16 year old male. I'm physically fit and I enjoy reading and interacting with others. I have lots of friends, but a few close ones. There's not anyone who wouldn't like to talk to me; but, I digress. I'm good at socializing and I would classify myself as a confident person. However, I don't understand how I'm not able to get a female interested in me. I don't look bad; in fact, I would call myself above average. Girls always have a good time chatting with me. They would always giggle or smile or react with an outgoing personality. Yet, they're always unimpressed when I confess to some of them. I just need help from Fakku to tell me what I'm doing wrong. I accept any means of discouragement as long as it's guided towards my wellbeing. We can even chat over the forums if you need to know more about me if the description of myself is too vague. Please and thank you.
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halahsv wrote...
Chocobophobia wrote...
I'm 16 year old good bye!
maybe being a moron it's your problem.
lol so do you have some discrimination against age? Just because I'm in my teen years doesn't mean you can go around being all pessimistic on me.
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iyeSCREAM wrote...
How long have you actually got to know the people before you confess to them?Finally, a meaningful comment. I guess I would know them for a month first. I would also take the initiative to talk to the girl most of the time. I also ask the girl to hang out with me several times before getting serious too.
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Hmmmm. I think that may be a problem. I'm not too sure though. It is a bit fast to confess to someone after knowing them for a month. Do you share and talk about yourself just as you ask her about her life and such?
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iyeSCREAM wrote...
Hmmmm. I think that may be a problem. I'm not too sure though. It is a bit fast to confess to someone after knowing them for a month. Do you share and talk about yourself just as you ask her about her life and such? Yes I usually share about myself and the girl does so as well. We find mutual interests which leads to more conversations. A lot of things happen within a month; so I think time is not the problem here.
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iyeSCREAM wrote...
What's the usual response/reaction from them when you confess to them?They would just go like:"I see. That's very kind of you." Or something along the lines of that. I'm not sure if they are being sarcastic or not. But generally speaking, girls don't want to hurt the boy's feelings at all so it would be understandeable if they give that kind of reply.
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Chocobophobia wrote...
halahsv wrote...
Chocobophobia wrote...
I'm 16 year old good bye!
maybe being a moron it's your problem.
lol so do you have some discrimination against age? Just because I'm in my teen years doesn't mean you can go around being all pessimistic on me.
This is a PORN site, the law says you have to be +18 to join. Sorry but better luck next time~
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Sprite wrote...
Chocobophobia wrote...
halahsv wrote...
Chocobophobia wrote...
I'm 16 year old good bye!
maybe being a moron it's your problem.
lol so do you have some discrimination against age? Just because I'm in my teen years doesn't mean you can go around being all pessimistic on me.
This is a PORN site, the law says you have to be +18 to join. Sorry but better luck next time~
QFT
Pre-sure it says you have to be 18 to join this forum... if it does, the op is a retard.. if not, well, it's implied, so the op is a retard :)
As for your problem, before you get banned:
Wait longer, get to know them more. Stop going purely off their looks, your a kid, you don't know the difference between love and lust.. etc etc
Stop asking out older chicks yada yada yada
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Maybe the problem is in them, you are quite young and many girls that age dont usually want serious relationships nor commitment, on the other hand like it was said before, its not all about looks, also its not like a girls is automatically interested because she smirks and laughs when she talks to you. Also it was a mistake to tell your age since you will be banned most likely, but guys honestly there are more children on porn sites usually than adults, its normal these days.
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Chocobophobia wrote...
Alright, so I'm a healthy 16 year old male. [font=verdana][color=green]Lol, I think I know the root cause of why girls aren't going out with you...
I'm physically fit and I enjoy reading and interacting with others. I have lots of friends, but a few close ones. There's not anyone who wouldn't like to talk to me; but, I digress.
[font=verdana][color=green]Hmm, arrogance I see? I can say safely that there's at least one person in the world who wouldn't like to talk to you...
I'm good at socializing and I would classify myself as a confident person. However, I don't understand how I'm not able to get a female interested in me. I don't look bad; in fact, I would call myself above average.
[font=verdana][color=green]If you were truly confident in yourself...you wouldn't be here. Arrogance again as well?
Girls always have a good time chatting with me. They would always giggle or smile or react with an outgoing personality. Yet, they're always unimpressed when I confess to some of them.
[font=verdana][color=green]They're just being kind. Also, they're unimpressed because they thought you'd be smarter than to ask them out. Kinda ties in with the first comment I made; you're not very smart for admitting that you are underage on a porn/hentai site AND thinking that you'd get much help from us.
I just need help from Fakku to tell me what I'm doing wrong. I accept any means of discouragement as long as it's guided towards my wellbeing. We can even chat over the forums if you need to know more about me if the description of myself is too vague. Please and thank you.
[font=verdana][color=green]I discourage you from trying to ask out anyone for some reasons:
- You're doing the opposite sex a disservice by asking them.
- It's for their wellbeing that you don't ask.
- (Serious comment here, oh wow) From what I can tell, judging by your post, is that you have asked out more than just a few girls out in your short 16 years. Unlike us guys, girls like to gossip a whole deal. It's probably spread quite quickly that you asked so-and-so out, and then another person soon after. It just reeks of desperation and shallowness on your point for not getting to know the girls a bit more before asking them out. I know that, if I had heard that a random girl asked out so many people before me, I wouldn't accept as it doesn't exactly make me feel loved; imagine how a girl would feel about it. Just wait until you find a girl that you truly like, and not someone you have only talked you, before asking them out.
Okay, nice talking to you before your ban.
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halahsv wrote...
Chocobophobia wrote...
I'm 16 year old good bye!
maybe being a moron it's your problem.
He cannot be a moron because he said he is "above average" and superfunny and supersmart, and above average supershmexy guys cannot be morons, didn't you know that?
I mean seriously, how can someone be so dumb to tell everyone he's underaged in a forum that kicks underaged?
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Chocobophobia wrote...
lol so do you have some discrimination against age? Just because I'm in my teen years doesn't mean you can go around being all pessimistic on me.
you do know this site is for 18+ right?
he has the right man.
Look at youre age before you stumble across this site acting so care free.
