Obsessive girls

So the other day I had a fight with this girl i've been seeing for a while, and we got to the point of being a couple, for a week though, but then she asked me to give her my messenger password and/or my facebook password

I refused saying that it's my personal life and MY PRIVACY and enven though it may or not involve her directly she has no bussines with my accounts
naturally she continued with her pleading and we fought and ended the relation
I feel no remorse whatsoever but it's staring to piss me off, cus it's the second time this happens


I wanna know are most of the girls like this? (even my friends(girls) say they do that, well, half of them)

What do you gals have to say about this?

Of course not. >.>

Why would I ever want to have somebody's passwords. To pretend to be them? That's just stupid.

it's mostly to see who they chat the most and also revise their conversations to see to who they talk and about what

I know cus my best friend is his girlsfriends bitch (looser)

but it's not that I don't trust her... it's just that well... ITS MY PRIVACY right?

oh and it doesn't go both ways; it has to be only the women with the password

Of course it's your privacy. >.> She's totally unreasonable for even asking for it.

wow she has some serious problems had to be said.There's boundaries that people do not want to be taken lightly.She apparently seems to have no boundaries.Thus not worth your time associating with unless you really want to be with people like that.Just because this one particular female has privacy issues and wants to be in all your business doesn't you have to subject to it.I think it has a lot to do with those you are hanging around as well.with the case being those female friends in this case they themselves most likely associate with other women who act similarly.

Also the way you worded it.It's far too much of a generalization just to lump in all women to a specific mold who behave like her.more like why are there a lot of women who act like this not all of them.

I myself respect my partners privacy.And maybe you should hang out with more well rounded people.I don't mean to sound as if i'm attacking you either i apologize if it sounds that way i mean no harm at all only to answer your question and help.

BRAVO madam!!!
BRAAVOHH!!!

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I wish most of the girls i've meet had the same ideals as you, srsly...

Some chicks be crazy, no it not normal for a women to ask what your user id and pass so they can see what people you are talking too.
DID YOU AT LEAST GET SOME HOT BREAKUP SEX, before splitting?

I told sometimes here but heck, why not again.
I once had a VERY obsessive girlfriend, you can name her Yandere-chan. XD
So Yandere-chan and I were dating for a several months and she started to be a little overprotective on me. First I liked it, you know that ment she liked me, but after some time I couldn't talk to any girl without her showing up somewhere near. It started to irritate me. Than some weeks later I broke up with her. After that I got mails with a panty in it, phone mails with croch shots (picture) and such thins. FOR HALF YEAR. Gah. Sometimes I feel is as if someone is watching me from somewhere far, but after the whole thing, she never showed up again. *shudders*
Never date Yandere-chan...

pfff i wish!!!
i was once lucky enough to do that
and I did once the infamous "cump" (when u have sex with a girl the night b4 u dump her )all did not go well the next week
. . . those eyes man D: the were like trying to make me burst into flames


ANYWAYS BACK TO TOPIC
me wants moar answers

@azylsagara: I have many normal friends it's just that i have various groups of them, mostly women for some reason, e.g. some are booksworms, other are otakus, techsupport, sports friends and a combination of the previous
i ussualy hang out moar with the "wierdos" cus it so happens they live within walkin distance from my house and thus easier to drop by *shrugs*

my experience simply goes that she stole my phone for a week and checked my past message history and incomming calls. luckily we had an 'emergency phone' lying around in the house. I tried calling but she didn't pick up so I didn't know she had it.

When she gave it back and asked who the girls where that I had a long chat history with I just said "it's over" and walked away. She's still hostile towards me even it was like 8 years ago.

Meh. it doesn't bother me if she wants that crap. it's not like i can't change the passwords afterwards if the relationship doesn't work out. and plus, i'd go to some extremes to fuck with her for it to amuse myself. i'd do things like make fake facebook profiles of non existant women, then message myself. starting off as purely plutonic polite friendly chats about meaningless crap. then guage her reaction. the more she made an issue of it, the more the messages will escalate with out acctualy crossing the line.

the key issue is trust. you could simpley give her what she wants, then turn it against her; "i trusted you enough to freely give you access to that crap. you obviously don't trust me enough to respect my privacy."

unless you are cheating and need to hide shit. if that's the case, slowly die in a fire you useless piece of garbage(i hate adulterers).

Someone clearly has trust issues...A good idea would have been to turn this around at her.

[font=Verdana][color=green]In all honesty, most girls aren't like that. In the previous sentence; most = all girls bar that crazy one.

You were right to sever the ties, shatter the bridge...other anecdote...smother the metaphoric puppy of the relationship? That works too.

I had that kind of situation, but fortunately I dont care if they got my passwords.

(OH_DESIRE~!)

man or woman who felt insecure of themselves tends to be obsessive as they want to own you as a whole and treat you like their puppet.
those thing you have said can happen to any gender.
i agree with cruz, it is a matter of trust issue.

Well I know one thing for sure and thats the fact that I would have responded exactly like you. Giving out passwords and such is a rather bad idea. I'd also tend to believe that you just should have given her that information but I'm pretty anti social whilst you probably aren't meaning you'd have been at more of a risk. Good decision.

a large amount of women want the same thing...
the perfect wedding, romanitc husband, someone to share EVERYTHING with, soul mate etc
they do all these stereotypes, yet these people refuse to do housework and cooking. If i have a woman who demands into my own privacy, then she best be the cooker/cleaner

My thoughts on the matter:

Giving passwords to anyone = Dumb

Bitches be crazy. Thankfully I've never been with an obsessive girl, don't want to experience that either.

Sometimes couples have this lovey-dovey thing going where they update/mess with each other's social networking profiles. It's all generally harmless and good-natured, this may have been what she wanted.