Oh no, my pants are too tight! Can you take them of for me?
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Have you ever tried to put "the moves" on your significant other and they didn't(or are pretending not to) get the hint? Or maybe had them put on you? This has happened to me alot of times and I woundered if this happen to others as well. Sometimes I can't tell if my bf didn't get it or didn't want to tell me that he didn't want to. To the guys out there what are some signs that I should look for to tell the difference? Or even any advice on moves you can't miss/ignor? Anything will help. Thank you.
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Kind of Important
A ray of Tsunlight.
Allow me to give unto you some insight.
Men usually have no idea what is going on. Little things are hard to catch (As you'd like) So, instead of giving hints, just come right out and say it. It may seem embarrassing, but guys (at least I do) Love girls who can get their points across like that.
I can say with certainty, that if you asked a man to take off your pants, he would. Simple. :)
Men usually have no idea what is going on. Little things are hard to catch (As you'd like) So, instead of giving hints, just come right out and say it. It may seem embarrassing, but guys (at least I do) Love girls who can get their points across like that.
I can say with certainty, that if you asked a man to take off your pants, he would. Simple. :)
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Find out his fetishes (leather, frilly lingerie, corset+stockings) and just walk in front of him like a model while looking at him seductively. You'll be on his bed under 5 seconds (does not have to be naked).
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@goodday: about three years give or take
i've tried just comming out and saying it but it's hard to beacause:1)im shy about things like that and 2)sometimes he teases me and it can kill the mood for me when he does and i told him about it but then he told me that he can't help but tease me because im so cute when im shy(i don't think so but he does) so when he tries to hold back from teasing me it will build up untill either he'll laugh a little, which kills the mood or loses foccus, which also kills the mood.
oh and he really doesn't have too many dress up fetishes. most of his are things you can only do in hentai or normal stuff that loses its flavor if you do it too much,but these sugestions have got me thinking a little so if you have any more please tell me. it will help so much more that you think. Thank you
i've tried just comming out and saying it but it's hard to beacause:1)im shy about things like that and 2)sometimes he teases me and it can kill the mood for me when he does and i told him about it but then he told me that he can't help but tease me because im so cute when im shy(i don't think so but he does) so when he tries to hold back from teasing me it will build up untill either he'll laugh a little, which kills the mood or loses foccus, which also kills the mood.
oh and he really doesn't have too many dress up fetishes. most of his are things you can only do in hentai or normal stuff that loses its flavor if you do it too much,but these sugestions have got me thinking a little so if you have any more please tell me. it will help so much more that you think. Thank you
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Try new things and surprise him.
It will make his blood pressure rocket off the charts (don't do it if he has heart condtions - seriously).
Men like fun sex. There isn't much an exception to that. Suggest sex in fun situation and stuff. Use your imagination and spice things up lady~.
But if your lazy like me... here's a suggestion...
How 'bout you wake up before he does when you're at his place, then do him while he's asleep? Nothing like waking up to a blowjob. It works better if he has a morning wood or something.
It will make his blood pressure rocket off the charts (don't do it if he has heart condtions - seriously).
Men like fun sex. There isn't much an exception to that. Suggest sex in fun situation and stuff. Use your imagination and spice things up lady~.
But if your lazy like me... here's a suggestion...
How 'bout you wake up before he does when you're at his place, then do him while he's asleep? Nothing like waking up to a blowjob. It works better if he has a morning wood or something.
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Like the others said, men are bad in catching hints. =P
So try to be really obvious, though work around it for a little bit. Wearing sexy clothes can help, especially when you've known each other for longer and want to try something new.
So try to be really obvious, though work around it for a little bit. Wearing sexy clothes can help, especially when you've known each other for longer and want to try something new.
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
Like the others said, men are bad in catching hints. =PAnd women are only good at cooking.
username02 wrote...
Sometimes I can't tell if my bf didn't get it or didn't want to tell me that he didn't want to. Possibly the latter. Perhaps he's worried about you being hurt if he says "no". Even though that is bullshit. I rather tell her up front that I'm too damn beat by work to be in the mood and that I need some rest first. But to each his own.
username02 wrote...
To the guys out there what are some signs that I should look for to tell the difference? Or even any advice on moves you can't miss/ignore?Guy here. I usually get the hint immediately because I'm not a block of lead!
However, I will, rarely, when the time is right, pretend not to notice. Because it's fun.
In every relationship, there is (should be) a unique style of communication. Communicating that you're turned on is best not done in some formulaic, "GETTING LAID 4 DUMMIES" manner, but is best worked out between the two lovers. That is what makes it fun!
So I'm hesitant to name "moves". What works for me ranges from kissing to biting that (see below) part of my hand, to hugging and walking me backwards into a wall to...
...as I said, each couple has their own way. And I'm not going to list the more personal ones!
THAT part:
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
Like the others said, men are bad in catching hints. =PSo try to be really obvious, though work around it for a little bit. Wearing sexy clothes can help, especially when you've known each other for longer and want to try something new.
Pretty much this. Eco also gave some good responses. Just try different things, and apply to his tastes. Something's bound to work.
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Instead of giving hints (Men do suck at catching hints), why don't you just give him an honest statement?
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As a guy i know i missed the hints alot. i suggest physical contact, gradualy getting more intimate. start with playful hitting, leading to wrestleng/tickling, then some more romantic touching, and kissing. that works for me, and on me.
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Jericho Antares
FAKKU Writer
I've caught hints, but then again I've thought that things were hints when they weren't...those were bad nights.
I'd prefer to not catch the hints :(
I'd prefer to not catch the hints :(
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Pretty much what the guy above said I personally catch hints but I also catch hints that aren't there and so I get really nervous as to which hints are real and which are not.If you're gonna make hints girls make them often constant.
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I have trouble catching hints, and might have missed possible opportunities as a result, but then it's confusing as to what is a hint and what isn't, and I've gotten slightly embarrassed in the past as a result of that.
Personally, I'd like to be able to catch hints, because it's hard to come right out and say stuff, but some hints can be confusing.
Stuff like this is good. Hinting, but straightforward at the same time.
Personally, I'd like to be able to catch hints, because it's hard to come right out and say stuff, but some hints can be confusing.
earlshaggwell wrote...
As a guy i know i missed the hints alot. i suggest physical contact, gradualy getting more intimate. start with playful hitting, leading to wrestleng/tickling, then some more romantic touching, and kissing. that works for me, and on me.Stuff like this is good. Hinting, but straightforward at the same time.
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ok. just so i know, to the men here what are some stuff that ladies have done that you couldn't resist? i'd like some new ideas to try if you please. thanx
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Hmmmm... Something that I couldn't resist.
Well I still swear to this day it would be amazing if I woke up to a girl giving me oral...heh, but something so amazing and erotic I couldn't resist. Well one aproach you could use it to essentially force him Pull down his jeans, Take the dominant role If you really want some then go down that route i'm sure he'll be in the mood when he sees you go all nympho on him. To be simple if you really want some try the direct aproach grope his crotch Put his hand in your panties i'm sure he will be a willing follower
Well I still swear to this day it would be amazing if I woke up to a girl giving me oral...heh, but something so amazing and erotic I couldn't resist. Well one aproach you could use it to essentially force him Pull down his jeans, Take the dominant role If you really want some then go down that route i'm sure he'll be in the mood when he sees you go all nympho on him. To be simple if you really want some try the direct aproach grope his crotch Put his hand in your panties i'm sure he will be a willing follower
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Yes, waking up to a blowjob would be a fantasy come true.
Now, I'm not so dense that I don't notice what the deal is right away, so no moves need to be applied on me.
So, about your case, I don't see how your boyfriend can be so oblivious to your "moves". Like gibbous said, every couple has their own way to communicate. And if you still don't recongize eachother's signs, maybe you should just try being blunt about it.
Now, I'm not so dense that I don't notice what the deal is right away, so no moves need to be applied on me.
So, about your case, I don't see how your boyfriend can be so oblivious to your "moves". Like gibbous said, every couple has their own way to communicate. And if you still don't recongize eachother's signs, maybe you should just try being blunt about it.
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done the waking up to a blowjob thing a few times. fun,but hard to do since he's a restless sleeper. he said he really liked that so maybe i should do that more if nothing eles to make him happy.
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This should be good too if you have yet to try it:
When you're about to shower, put on the sexiest lingerie or clothing you have and go into the shower, then call him over to help you with something. Surprise him as he comes in and treat the dude to a stripshow, then you can have fun in the shower/tub. Best of all, if you are careful, there will be minimal cleanup.
When you're about to shower, put on the sexiest lingerie or clothing you have and go into the shower, then call him over to help you with something. Surprise him as he comes in and treat the dude to a stripshow, then you can have fun in the shower/tub. Best of all, if you are careful, there will be minimal cleanup.