Orgasms?
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13lue wrote...
artcellrox wrote...
13lue wrote...
artcellrox wrote...
13lue wrote...
Alex23 wrote...
13ue, maybe he should have his head between your thighs so you can squeeze his scull when you orgasm; he'll be focused more on breathing than what sounds you're making and, hopefully, his brain will change shape and make him more supportive.
He doesn't want to go down on me anymore.. it's really sad actually ; n;)
He used to but now he's telling me he's not used to..the way it looks. I've always been self conscious about it and after a year of making me feel like it was okay he's saying he'd change it if he could. It's not fair!
Doesn't wanna go dow-...wha?! Is he gay or something?! D:
And what does he mean by "changing it if he could"?
Let's just say I don't have the prettiest pussy in the world.
And that matters how? He's you boyfriend, woman! He's supposed to love every part of you, EVEN the imperfections, not DESPITE them!
I said that too ):
Sounds like he doesn't want sex to me.
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artcellrox wrote...
And that matters how? He's you boyfriend, woman! He's supposed to love every part of you, EVEN the imperfections, not DESPITE them!Love does not mean like or enjoy at times.
13lue wrote...
He doesn't want to go down on me anymore.. it's really sad actually ; n;)He used to but now he's telling me he's not used to..the way it looks. I've always been self conscious about it and after a year of making me feel like it was okay he's saying he'd change it if he could. It's not fair!
Try flavored lube, see if he's cool with that. Looks shouldn't really have anything to do with oral sex on a woman. He just might not feel comfortable bringing up the real issue. Which is usually smell or taste.
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AvatarEnd wrote...
Try flavored lube, see if he's cool with that. Looks shouldn't really have anything to do with oral sex on a woman. He just might not feel comfortable bringing up the real issue. Which is usually smell or taste.
No he really just said "If they were a little shorter I'd be more inclined to do so."
I wash frequently.
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13lue wrote...
AvatarEnd wrote...
Try flavored lube, see if he's cool with that. Looks shouldn't really have anything to do with oral sex on a woman. He just might not feel comfortable bringing up the real issue. Which is usually smell or taste.
No he really just said "If they were a little shorter I'd be more inclined to do so."
I wash frequently.
That makes no sense whatsoever to me. He's being lazy. Just sit on his face.
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AvatarEnd wrote...
13lue wrote...
AvatarEnd wrote...
Try flavored lube, see if he's cool with that. Looks shouldn't really have anything to do with oral sex on a woman. He just might not feel comfortable bringing up the real issue. Which is usually smell or taste.
No he really just said "If they were a little shorter I'd be more inclined to do so."
I wash frequently.
That makes no sense whatsoever to me. He's being lazy. Just sit on his face.
He says he wants to, it's just different for him. He only really does it when he's trying to last longer and mix it up I guess.
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13lue wrote...
He doesn't want to go down on me anymore.. it's really sad actually ; n;)
He used to but now he's telling me he's not used to..the way it looks. I've always been self conscious about it and after a year of making me feel like it was okay he's saying he'd change it if he could. It's not fair!
Wow, what an insensitive asshole! For me, personally... I was always really, REALLY nervous about having someone go down there, because having someone so close - being able to taste it, smell it, see it in such detail - is a really intimate thing! If someone told me they didn't like how it looked and thus didn't want to go down there anymore, I'd feel really offended, and tell the motherfucker that if he can't lick it then he can't put it inside anymore! And blowjobs? HA! AS IF! If what I have to offer isn't good enough for you then just use your hand from now on, you fucking bastard!
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To me it wouldn't matter unless I know the girl I'm with is a squirts/screamer etc. and doesn't when we have sex than yeah I would feel inadequate.
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Kita
Day 1 NaruHina Fan
Maybe backtracking a bit, but I'd say that there shouldn't be any concern about a lack of vocalization. Personally I wouldn't notice, assuming there was biting and scratching going on :3
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I don't really know. But I believe that it doesn't really matter what the orgasm is like so long as it occurs.
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As long as you actually orgasm that's enough to stroke his ego so there, doesn't matter if your silent, just talk it out with him.
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HappyDia01 wrote...
13lue wrote...
He doesn't want to go down on me anymore.. it's really sad actually ; n;)
He used to but now he's telling me he's not used to..the way it looks. I've always been self conscious about it and after a year of making me feel like it was okay he's saying he'd change it if he could. It's not fair!
Wow, what an insensitive asshole! For me, personally... I was always really, REALLY nervous about having someone go down there, because having someone so close - being able to taste it, smell it, see it in such detail - is a really intimate thing! If someone told me they didn't like how it looked and thus didn't want to go down there anymore, I'd feel really offended, and tell the motherfucker that if he can't lick it then he can't put it inside anymore! And blowjobs? HA! AS IF! If what I have to offer isn't good enough for you then just use your hand from now on, you fucking bastard!
Ugh, this!
I'm super sensitive about my lower body's looks. If someone gives enough of a damn about me, they can accept what I cannot change (I keep it clean and trimmed, but I'm not doing more than that: after all, I wouldn't expect any partner to!).
