Our turn on's not the same.. Stay or Go ?

Is it still a good idea to stay in a relationship if your GF / BF does not share the same turn on's as you, like Hentia and Cosplay or furries ect ect and do you think the relationship is over if you start to have sex dreams with other people ??

If you said to your girlfriend you like furry you deserve to get dumped. Why not just say you are into beastiality cause that is what she thinks now.

I have sex dreams on a lot of girls/guys. That normal.

That's one of the most normal things I have seen you post.

Now when you say you have dreams on people, are you saying you sleep on people and have sex dream? And are these people aware of your sleeping on them?

Compromise. Discuss what turn-ons they feel are vital to their sex life, and what are not. Are you disgusted by what they are into? Do you feel it is morally degrading? Are you worried that it will cause you lasting physical or psychological harm? If not, stick with it. You might find something about it that you end up enjoying. Even if you don't, you're at least bringing your partner great satisfaction, and in return they're bound to be more willing to indulge you on your own turn-ons, fetishes, and kinks, even if it's not necessarily something that they themselves like. It's about your willingness level. Talk it out.

Are you two still having satisfying sex and are you happy in the relationship?

Yes and Yes, I mean my real question is should I be worried if what turns us on are not the same thing.

So how do I bring up my sex dreams with other women, or just keep that in the dark ?

You don't bring it up. As long as you want to just have sex with her, and don't feel like monogamy isn't what you want right now, it's perfectly normal and healthy.

If it's accompanied by an urge to break up and have casual sex, then it's a problem.

Mistyped. about people. Or I'm sleeping on my victims. Whatever makes people happy I guess.

Your dreams should stay in your subconscious where they belong. They are from the irrational, emotion-driven side of your personality and should not be subjected to rational interpretation by anyone but yourself. As for your differences in what turns you on, that is because you are two different people. Learning what turns your partner on, and trying to provide it, is what having a relationship is all about.

If you are uncomfortable sharing all your fetishes, that is natural. I assure you that it is the exact same for your partner as well. The true measure of your bond is how you feel about each other, not your particular sexual preferences. Seek to find common ground, and if you cannot find it then it is probably doomed to failure.

Just take the time to learn each other's feelings before even considering sharing something as potentially damaging as dreams and fetishes.