painful choices.

i have been in a relationship with a girl that i love for about 4 months and something has come up that i can't decide on by my self and my irl friends have been no help.
the punch line is that my girlfriend won't go down on me unless i wax all my pubes, not shave, wax and she has to watch. i love her and everything but wax! any advise.

Nair it.. it like like waxing but no pain... shave is fine.. i guess it up to you on the bj vs painfully waxing a part of your body what more sensitive to pain.

what are you waiting to wax kiddo?

It hurts, but girls do it all the time... and unlike shaving it won't result in razor burn and rashes. I say do it and it will also impress your girl, she may even use it as a litmus test to see how serious you are about her.

I've always been of the opinion that if guys want girls to shave/wax they should be willing to do the same.

I'm not much of bj man, myself, and I have a low tolerance for pain in the gentile region.

I'd say that's a trade off that's not worth.

THIS. A MILLION TIMES, THIS.

No one should have to force you to do it, though. If you decide to wax, do it because YOU want to, and not because you want to please her. And if you do decide to do it, trim your hair a bit shorter first. If the hairs are too long it will hurt more when pulled.

Mandatory waxing is an odd request....what's wrong with clean shaven? Anyways, I can't stand pubes either...on myself or the girl. If it were me, I'd get it done at a spa. The thought of ripping out my own pubes seems like a difficult task.

Waxing doesn't hurt, stop being a pussy.

it seems like if something goes wrong my skin will be ripped off with the hair

dude, ur getting laid. quit bitching and go with it. your hair will grow back.

the pain is abit more of a concern to me

Grow some balls! If a girl's vagoo can handle it, then so can your crotch... and no, waxing can't rip your skin.

DON'T YELL AT ME

ok, i have heard the counsel, and i think i will do it...

Just shave it,it will grow back.

Ripping your skin should be the least of your concerns, there far worse possibilities

Don't be an idiot. The genitals of a girl as just as, if not more sensitive than the scrotum of a guy... sheesh.

@user_name_pending If you're concerned about pain & complications then ask a cosmetician and they'll explain everything to you... and it's not like it's not their *job* and do it *every day*. On the other hand, unlike shaving it's not recommended to try waxing on your own as it takes practice to properly pull the wax off. Unless done with sufficient force and smoothly enough it will hurt and you'll have to do several pulls instead a single one.

EDIT: apparently there's a youtube video for everything

YOU PEOPLE ARE MAKING ME SECOND GUESS MYSELF T.T I FEEL SO scared now



i know its a chest but still T__T

Think what will happen in a moment of carelessness that some wax solidifies on the skin of your balls! pull it or remelt it?

Be veeeeerrrry careful!

Nair is very 'corrosive' to thin skin. Watch where it goes because you might not get any sensation back. Knew of a guy once who naired his chest, accidentally got some on a nipple. It turned all red and bloody, and he never felt anything from there again.

Personal opinion...there are worse things a woman can ask of you than to be nice and clean down there. Pubes are ugly, get rid of them. I'm not sure why she's so adamant about no shave, I can get the stubble pretty smooth.

As a person who has occasionally waxed my own genitals, I can say that it will hurt, but the pain isn't THAT bad and won't last, especially if you put soothing cream on it afterwards. I do recommend going to a salon to get it done, but if you really want to do it yourself, then I suggest you buy a sugar or honey wax so if you chicken out you can just wash it off with soap and water.