Sex from person to person...
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So I was just thinkin' about some sexxums..and it came across my mind that I've only ever had sex with one partner (but numerous times) but we are no longer together and I am about to go out with someone else and I got to thinking...
a lot of people say sex can be either really great or awful with specific people..but do you think its based on chemistry? as in "oh im actually in love with this person! they arent a fuck buddy like the last person" or is it just a physical thing where something about their body just works out better for sex?
So I'm basically asking what factors make sex better for a specific couple than others?
a lot of people say sex can be either really great or awful with specific people..but do you think its based on chemistry? as in "oh im actually in love with this person! they arent a fuck buddy like the last person" or is it just a physical thing where something about their body just works out better for sex?
So I'm basically asking what factors make sex better for a specific couple than others?
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Ayanami00 wrote...
but do you think its based on chemistry? as in "oh im actually in love with this person!Yes.
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Ayanami00 wrote...
So I was just thinkin' about some sexxums..and it came across my mind that I've only ever had sex with one partner (but numerous times) but we are no longer together and I am about to go out with someone else and I got to thinking...a lot of people say sex can be either really great or awful with specific people..but do you think its based on chemistry? as in "oh im actually in love with this person! they arent a fuck buddy like the last person" or is it just a physical thing where something about their body just works out better for sex?
So I'm basically asking what factors make sex better for a specific couple than others?
putting my money on psychology like near everything when it comes to humans in general and sexuality in particular.
personal experience: someone who's great at picking up hints ("sensitivity") = bliss.
someone who's as dense as a block of lead = discomfort at best, pain at worst.
plus being able to let oneself go completely blahblahblah etc. pp.
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Kind of Important
A ray of Tsunlight.
neyapuckachinha wrote...
Sisami wrote...
Sex from person to person leads to herpes.Or worse.
Children.
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Ayanami00 wrote...
what factors make sex better for a specific couple than others?Looks. If you're having sex with ugly fat whores with herpes, I would think it will not be very pleasant.
But If you're having sex with Mila Kunis, Jessica Alba, Megan Fox, Rachel Bilson all at the same time, it is a different story
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GoodDay wrote...
Ayanami00 wrote...
what factors make sex better for a specific couple than others?Looks. If you're having sex with ugly fat whores with herpes, I would think it will not be very pleasant.
But If you're having sex with Mila Kunis, Jessica Alba, Megan Fox, Rachel Bilson all at the same time, it is a different story
Unless they are really bitchy, or they are into more "extremely adventurous activities" than you can take. Though the activities may end up really fun in the end...
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Xenophian wrote...
GoodDay wrote...
Ayanami00 wrote...
what factors make sex better for a specific couple than others?Looks. If you're having sex with ugly fat whores with herpes, I would think it will not be very pleasant.
But If you're having sex with Mila Kunis, Jessica Alba, Megan Fox, Rachel Bilson all at the same time, it is a different story
Unless they are really bitchy, or they are into more "extremely adventurous activities" than you can take. Though the activities may end up really fun in the end...
Unless having sex with one of those susmentioned does not prevent you from having herpes. Or kids.
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I think good sex comes from practice. by that i mean the more you do it with the same person, you learn more of what they like, and vice versa. i have never had a good fist time with a new partner, it's always akward. that is partly* why i no longer bother with one night stands.
[size=10]*other parts being psycos and disease[/h]
[size=10]*other parts being psycos and disease[/h]
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I believe that chemistry between people is ideal for the best sex... However, it is not required.
The idea of "friends with benefits", while it doesn't appeal to me personally, is an example of what is called a romantic relationship: one that involves intimacy/friendship and passion. These kind of relationships are based mostly on sex and, while they don't last, are fun. In the end, it boils down to how much you want to commit to with your partner and how much fun you want to have before/if you move on to a more permanent or lasting relationship.
The idea of "friends with benefits", while it doesn't appeal to me personally, is an example of what is called a romantic relationship: one that involves intimacy/friendship and passion. These kind of relationships are based mostly on sex and, while they don't last, are fun. In the end, it boils down to how much you want to commit to with your partner and how much fun you want to have before/if you move on to a more permanent or lasting relationship.
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NEXUS
Since 2010
I have only had sex with one girl in my entire life. Now I Just
plain have sex with myself.
plain have sex with myself.
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definitely a emotional attraction and chemistry between two people has much more to do with sex than the actual physical act. At least I feel this from comparing my past experiences...
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Kind of Important wrote...
neyapuckachinha wrote...
Sisami wrote...
Sex from person to person leads to herpes.Or worse.
Children.
NO WAI!
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Good sex is when the female eats the male's head afterward to sustain her soon to be born children.
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If youve only had sex with one person then you can consider that as the best youve had (partner I mean). I guess things change as you have sex with more people and with different ways and personalities.
The issue is when the best youve had is with someone whom you do not love and sex with the one that you do love actually sucks.
I guess looking at it from another angle, being with someone who's had a lot of sexual action with other people well... makes one think too, I guess it can lead to insecurity as well to some - coz in a way it does make sense. Well me babbling
The issue is when the best youve had is with someone whom you do not love and sex with the one that you do love actually sucks.
I guess looking at it from another angle, being with someone who's had a lot of sexual action with other people well... makes one think too, I guess it can lead to insecurity as well to some - coz in a way it does make sense. Well me babbling
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Fun fact about sex. Male Bumblebees explode when they climax. I think if it's good enough to explode, then it's probably the right person.
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It has been proven scientifically that pleasure is greatly increased when one preforms intercourse with a person whom they care deeply for.
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shinji_ikari
Mustn't Run Away...
so....porn stars are all lame in bed..HMMMMMM..the amazing deep throat skill..cowgirl style riding that makes even the most talented jockey green with envy..or for the ladies a man with a magic tongue ,and hands..who is not only well endowed but can go for hooooours if needed, and knows all those little spots to get on a women..yes..physical means SO LITTLE..cuz i <3 juuuu..sorry but take a turn with someone who REALLY knows wtf their doing and i'm 90% percent sure even if you don't "FEEL A CONNECTION" the sex itself will be better