She said she wants to talk... i'm fucked aren't i?
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so... me and my gf's been togather for just over a month, things were going pretty well. Then yesterday, she seemed quite down and emotional... then before i sent her home, she asked if we could talk over the phone, she did call me after i reached home, but she just kept silent through out the whole call...
then today she texted me... saying we need to talk...
so... im pretty much fucked right? :(
then today she texted me... saying we need to talk...
so... im pretty much fucked right? :(
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Just call her, and get her to tell you. If you were fucked, she'd probably break out crying, and do it.
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LongevityDrunk wrote...
She's probably pregnant and afraid to tell you.I recommend dumping her.
This. Before you listen her out.
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You guys do know this is a serious forum, right? You need to stop with the stupid jokes and/or ignorant replies, and take everyone who posts here seriously. Reply respectfully to their questions. If you were serious, you all don't deserve to be in relationships in the first place.
OP, stop assuming the worst. Communication is important. If she wants and needs to talk, you should hear her out. If she does break up with you, then that's unfortunate, but it's only been a month... Do your best and try to move on. If she doesn't, then at least she is establishing a pattern of talking out the bumps in the road with you, and you two should continue this pattern well into your relationship - whether it lasts for a few more months or the rest of your lives, this will always be important. Relationships aren't just for fun and games, they're going to suffer through a lot of hardships as well, so try to prepare yourself for it as best you can.
Good luck, let us know what happens.
OP, stop assuming the worst. Communication is important. If she wants and needs to talk, you should hear her out. If she does break up with you, then that's unfortunate, but it's only been a month... Do your best and try to move on. If she doesn't, then at least she is establishing a pattern of talking out the bumps in the road with you, and you two should continue this pattern well into your relationship - whether it lasts for a few more months or the rest of your lives, this will always be important. Relationships aren't just for fun and games, they're going to suffer through a lot of hardships as well, so try to prepare yourself for it as best you can.
Good luck, let us know what happens.
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Don't listen to Dia, they are speaking out of their ass. I bet they just got dumped so they are acting out.
Also this section is about as serious as the medical condition erythema solare.
Also this section is about as serious as the medical condition erythema solare.
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I wouldn't try and assume the worst, but I wouldn't keep my hopes up for the best either.. just try to stay neutral about the whole thing, listen it was only a month.. I know it may seem like you guys had something good, but if it's a break up, it's better now than a year or so down the road right?
If it doesn't work out, try to stay positive, if she does happen to be pregnant like LongevityDrunk says, well just try and support her.
If it doesn't work out, try to stay positive, if she does happen to be pregnant like LongevityDrunk says, well just try and support her.
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If she wanted to break up with you, she wouldn't have been down or quiet. Unless she's one of those overly sensitive 'good girl' types that thinks 'being honest' is the same as 'being mean'.
It's only been a month, dude, so it's not anywhere near serious.
Just ask her what's on her mind. If it is in fact a breakup, it's not like either of you are emotionally invested so it wouldn't be the end of the world. Not that breakups ever are, but it's better to bow out early if it's glaringly apparent that not enough is there to proceed, than stick around until you're so miserable you're contemplating murder-suicide.
It's only been a month, dude, so it's not anywhere near serious.
Just ask her what's on her mind. If it is in fact a breakup, it's not like either of you are emotionally invested so it wouldn't be the end of the world. Not that breakups ever are, but it's better to bow out early if it's glaringly apparent that not enough is there to proceed, than stick around until you're so miserable you're contemplating murder-suicide.
