should i tell her?

Stick is this:

apparently, the 'queen' (see what are your titles thread in random for details) herself was dating one of my classes guys..... at first they were all happy and fine with it all.... so i thought i was gone (was the one who had him introduced to her at her request at the reunion) and- everything was alright now......
the guy went to the states and came back...... with another girl..... apparently his fiancé arranged by his parents and went somewhere...... the queen...... still waiting for the guy...... has NO idea of what happened as he cut off all connections to her and her friends except me..... if i tell her.... she'll really cry and god knows what happens afterwards...... if i dont.... she will have my head if she finds out later on that i didnt tell her......

just to say.... i really DON'T like it when girls cry..... seriously.... it makes me feel all empty and cold inside.... even tho I am not involved.... seeing tears will trigger guilt even tho you are just a spectator

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i really am starting to hate being the nice guy....

Tell her. She may hate you to start with, but she should come around and see the fact later that you did her a favour.

If you are her friend, then, by all means, tell her.

Don't be the nice guy that keeps secrets. To a girl, that's even worse than being an open asshole. Sometimes both interpretation of that sentence holds true.

yeah..... and i'm pretty sure that sooner or later i will have a big handmark glowing red on my face......

You know, I think you have a lil too many love probs around you... >.>

Well, tell her. It's too big to hide.

If she slaps you, that's not your fault. If she has any integrity she will regret that choice and apologize later, so man up and take the temporary pain.

But she needs to know. I knew a person who was kept out of the loop from a similar truth, and it festered into something far worse. That truth, added to the realization that people were hiding things from her, will ultimately disintegrate her self-esteem the longer you wait. It's best to get it over with now.
Do it when you two are alone, however. Breaking such news in public is a one-way ticket to disaster.

yeah...... i know.... its all around me... but rarely no more TOWARDS me.... i faced misunderstandings.... what next? i'll play the part of acting fiancé?

also..... she's not called the queen for nothing..... even back at the reunion i was still always called 'queen's guard' whenever we are close together talking.....

Well she'll need SOMEONE to be by her side. Screw the public opinion, you'll be doing what's right.

whats right by making her cry? i dunno about girls that much but its better that she NOT know......

its her first love after all..... and omg im like death waiting to grab her pet puppy's soul to the river of souls

At this point, she's going to cry either way. This is the point where you ask yourself: what are the benefits of waiting this out? Are they morally better than the detriments?

And what makes you think that she will hold this against you?

well well. I agree, she'll cry either way. so yeah, tell her. it's less mean than having her hear directly "i have a fiance now so fuck off lololol" from that guy(assuming he doesn't love her anymore ofc) or any other way it's surely gonna be.

you seem like you're close to her. all the more reason you should be the one telling.

tell her, it can only get worse if you dont.

This. Hiding something like this can only end badly. It's going to suck no matter what, but telling her is the best of your options.

I have the same thought as all the other users who posted before me and probably after me.

Tell her, she's bound to found out about it sooner or later....

guy has mixed feelings with fiance....... also..... he still likes her.... but pains to see her atm so thats why he left......

i could call him a wuss for this......

yup... we're close enough.... but the relationship is of queen and guard.... like the title says.... queen's guard...... and i'm always the bag for brute force....

either way.... is it really okay? though this will really scar her.... its for the best? man..... as said before.... i hate it when girls cry..... it makes you feel all guilty even tho ur not involved

Does a queen's guard worry about his own status when his queen is in distress? I would hope not. It's obvious you treasure this person, but it's almost impossible for her to learn the truth without getting hurt. It's also impossible to hide such a secret from her forever. Even if it took years for her to find out, it will hurt just as much and she would have worried worthlessly over those years.

I know you're going to regret this. Yet it has to happen and you are the only one capable enough to let her know. You are hurting her now because you care about her future, her life. It might take a while for her to understand that, as you may imply, but at least know that you have our support when you take this advice.

Speaking of which, is there anyone in RL whom you can talk to? Even if this is a nice place for discussion, I'd be inclined to think that talking to someone tangible would have an inherent advantage over us. Might give you a little more motive too.

Just tell her. This is gonna be painful either way so might as well do the "right" thing. Besides, do you prefer to see her two timed by some mixed feeling guy just because you're hiding it from her?

by telling you also help the guy to face the issue.

Or perhaps, as an alternative, you can get him to tell her himself. If he's going to be so roundabout with his relationship issues, then it's your responsibility to make him face the facts. You know how much she's worrying. He doesn't. You can use that.