Shy Girls

Hi...!

So yeah... I've been only dating fun and somewhat wild girls, but I've never dated any shy girls. A couple of days ago, I met this adorable, shy girl who doesn't seem to mind me. (She tries to have long conversations with me despite her shyness) I wish to know more about her, but talking to shy girls is my weakness when it comes to relationships... :(

Can you tell me any TIPS for before relationships and during relationships when dealing with shy girls? Can you also tell me what most shy girls usually like or dislike? Thanks :D



PS. She likes dancing "artistically"

Shy girls don't typically like flings. If you're going to be around a girl who is shy and reserved, you probably want to find somebody else if you don't want an actual relationship with her.

What the fuck is artistic dancing?

I think shy girls... are just cute sometimes... I dunno if its just me...

I think thats one of my IRL weaknesses...

...

Only hard thing is indeed getting them to open up...

Usually when I finally get a girl to open up its too late or something...

I just think its harder for me since Im not exactly the "Nicest looking person" around... Someone actually said "You look like I could be the biggest bully around" But yeah Im not...

but I think thats a reason I have a hard time gettin ppl to open up...

maybe...

i dunno what to say,
although my Girlfriend is a shy girl =.="..

but i think when you during the relationship
use some romantic word's ^^ (yeah i always do that XD)
for my information i think shy girl have many dislike =w="
about what they like i think .. try to gain her trust,do something fun (i dunno just tell her XD) or maybe Understand that shyness is very common in both boys and girls, especially in the early years.

oh yeah i forgot..
sometimes there's is a shy girl but very brutal (in sex "maybe")
when she already in deep love with you.

that's all for me hehe..~
wow like dancing nice >w<

As zig said, shy girls usually hate flings. So if that's your aim, well, stop it. -__-

It also might take quite the time for her to open up. They are usually feeling quite insecure, so first she might wanna be sure she can trust you or something like that... or maybe even see how serious you are with her...

Well, most of all, don't push her too hard. Let things flow... slow and steady. The sweet silence later on is so nice and so worth it. ^^

Hit common ground and work from there. + all the above.

I'd guess that a shy girl would appreciate handmade works more than something you just buy from a store... but that's about all I know. <.<;;

Ziggy: I've never dated girls for flings so It's all good.
By saying Dancing 'artistically' I meant hmm... you know what I don't even know how to explain this. Just ballet type dancing but not with the ballet clothing.

x-gen: Comfortable silence, got it. Thank you :D

Zak: you're just like me with you're weakness.

The Rest: Thank you for taking time giving me some useful TIPS. :P

BUT THERE'S ONE PROBLEM:

This might be pretty weird. K,
Q: How did we meet?
A: My mother was introduced to this woman, who had a son I became friends with later, and that friend's sister is the person I'm talking about...

Now my question. Would the girl date me, to get to know more about me, despite this awkward first impression?

Be kind and gentle to them. Shy girls are sensitive so don't fool around with them if you're not going to take them on seriously. With a chance you might be able to find yourself a yandere.

Trying asking questions about herself that take more than one or two words to answer.

Learn how to c-walk. That and talk to her whenever you see a chance. Just dont act like shes the only one you are talking to. Talk to her friends too.

That is my type of girl. I just find them cute, and many of the times, I do enjoy talking to them. I know a person that enjoys talking to women, crazy. The only problem is finding them is a little hard. Internet dating is not exactly what I would call handy in finding these types of girls.