So how'd you meet you BF/GF?

My last ex was my childhood friend since 2nd grade. We started dating when he confessed that he "has been in love with me since then". But things didn't really work out because we were too different I guess. After years of fantasizing I think he created an image of me which wasn't really me. He thought that I was his perfect innocent "waifu". Whatever...

Now I met someone through OkCupid. We've been chatting for a month now. I'll go on a date with her and see how it goes. Wish me luck!! :3

We (officially) met at a mutual friend's birthday party and I was a creep and sent him a friend request on Facebook and a message saying "Oi!" with my number while still at the party. We had only talked for maybe 5 minutes at the party. I then sent him a second message 20 minutes after apologizing for being weird and said we should hang out sometime.
Our first date was two days later.

Well it was kinda complicated. We both went to the same highschool but I was friends with her older sister and brother long before I knew who she was. She came to art club one time with her sister and we kinda became friends, in the you're my friend's little sister so I'll make friends with you kind of way. I thought she was kinda cute and from what she told me later on she thought I was cute too and liked my unique personality. Even so there was no real romantic feelings at that time plus she was a freshman and I was a senior. We would kinda sorta hang out only during art club but not really and I'd say hi when I saw her. Right before I graduated her sister started dating one of my friends around the same time I started hanging around him more. When we hung out sometimes my friend would bring her sister along. Now again still no romantic feelings but she did kinda get cuter and I started to get to know her a little more. Then the summer that year my two friends that were dating, the sister, and I went to an anime convention and we had a lot of fun. At a certain point they had a rave at the con and joking around I picked up the sister princess style and danced with her in my arms. Later on that night I saw her on Facebook and started a conversation with "Why is the loli up so late?" referring to a earlier joke where I ran out of the dealers room with her in my arms yelling I bought a loli. We got a few people clapping for us. After a week or two of talking we started dating and after a few months I talked to her about that con and how I started catching feelings for her that day. She revealed that she had the same thought of "Maybe it would be fun to date this person" and hoped I would ask her out. We've been together for over a year now and we love each other very much.

Since I don't have one nor ever had I will discuss the woman I had sex with.
Basically I knew her sister first, met via a friend on facebook because of doll discussion, this girl thought they were cute, we talked and...well long story short, casual sex.
I did fool around with the first one too but it didn't reach sex.
Still could.

Oh god. My current relationship.
This was honestly a rollercoaster at the beginning so let me explain.
When i was single for a majority i used to frequently ERP on this website:
https://www.f-list.net/c/jade%20vladmir/

Through this website, i met a guy named Reynard who introduced me to a girl named Julia. After we ERP as a group for a while me and her started talking. Me being a guy, i was hella interested in this relationship but of course i had my questions because it was started through meeting on a ERP website. We started talking over the phone and she had this cute girl voice that i instantly just melted over. I came to find out she was mtf transgender (GO FUTA'S!) and I instantly fell in love with her as a person after that. I found out she played World of Warcraft, League of Legends and Streetfighter! (All games that i play) and even got top 3 in Canada Cup's yearly tournament in vancouver! After about a year together the relationship was going well until i found an account she had made on a fetish website (We had agreed to stop ERPing with other people early in the relationship and stay completely monogamous). This really upset me and hurt me, and when i confronted her with it she broke down over it. We talked it out and a week later we were back together. We have gone almost 3 years now without any issues and a planned trip ahead to see her in vancouver this summer. A lot of people would never give someone who cheated a second chance, but honestly i'm 100% glad I did. We are inseperable and i'm extremely glad for the outcome of the whole thing!

I dont remember the first time I met my boyfriend because he came to the club I worked at and my friend had a birthday there so I was off my head. He's friends with a long time friend of mine which is how we met apparently. Later on I kept seeing him at the clubs I work at and he would make fun of me and tell me how we met (I went to see our mutual friend and started dancing in the middle of their group and gave out free drink cards -_-), so I didnt really like him because he annoyed me. Few months later he went back to Korea and I didnt see him for awhile.
One day our mutual friend had a birthday party and I saw my boyfriend there and I was kind of happy he came back. Later on we started texting each other daily, I still didnt have any feelings for him at the time but we planned to meet up with a group of friends.
Basically we made out and he said lets be in a relationship and I was like "okay" and thats about it.
It has been almost two years now and I couldnt be any happier. Good decision based on a drunk make out sesh lol

holy shit the feels

basically im ted from how i met your mother and my story continues..

I hope you're nothing like Ted, the likelihood of dying single is too big

haha its kinda sad but my friends were the first to see this parallel; lol dont worry too much i have my robin :p

Pending for when pigs fly. Well that and Half-life 3.

The girl I am dating now was a friend of a friend. Mainly my friend introduced us cause she know I can be a submissive person and she can be rather aggressive. So introduced us back around my birthday and been having fun since.

It's a somewhat complicated story in my opinion.

I went to a maths tutor back in year 9 with 3 of my friends and we mucked around here and there. There was a girl who I never really talked to or noticed much there, but after maybe a few weeks I was added on Facebook by her. Her cousin was in my grade who I knew back in year 2 and split off once year 3 started.

Being one of those people who can't really handle girls that well, I chatted with her feeling happy that a girl had shown interest in me. As the weeks went by, we started chatting everyday on MSN and Facebook. Though I soon realised that I didn't need a relationship.

I would be playing Facebook games on an old laptop and whenever I received a message, it would lag the hell out of the laptop to the point where the window wouldn't respond. I was a bit annoyed so sometimes I would appear offline for Facebook. She would then start making up random lines on MSN claiming that today was an "I Love You Day" where you say that to a person.

This was going too fast in my opinion. I was happy to have a girl chase after me, but I didn't feel any chemistry or enough chemistry with her. She wasn't unattractive in my standards, she was cute, but I just didn't feel anything. Being bombarded with messages everyday I came home from school, sometimes I appeared offline on MSN to avoid her.

To an outsider, a cute girl doting on you would seem like a dream come true, but what if you didn't like that person in a romantic way? It's hell especially when you're awkward with girls and have trouble saying "no" or showing disinterest publicly. It got to the point where she started messaging me asking if I liked her or not. I wasn't sure what to tell her. I was considerate of her feelings. If I said no, she would be depressed, but if I said yes, I would be lying to her. It was a lose-lose situation. I didn't reply to her, but talked to her normally.

One of my friends who is a peverted skirt chaser started talking to her. She went to an all girls school so being acquainted with my friends who were pretty much all guys was fun for her. But her messages started to mention my friend a bit. That he was funny and good company I think. An itch I couldn't get rid of appeared. Jealousy had struck me. My friend wasn't exactly good looking, or smart, he was just a pervert who liked looking at girls. Shows how much MSN can twist a person's identity.

I never really talked to girls and to have one fawn over me, I didn't want that taken away. I asked her out due to jealousy. But I don't think she knew about that. This was all done online. For shame I say. I was new to dating. Too embarrassed at my own incompetency, I asked her out to a movie and brought 3 of my friends and she brought 3 of her friends. We watched the movie quietly and went to eat at the food court. We never really chatted with her friends, it was pretty awkward.

At the end when we walked back to the station, I walked beside her and said "You look pretty today" to which she replied "Thanks while smiling". I didn't feel nervous. I didn't stumble my words. The compliment was just something for the sake of it. I really tried to like her, to develop feelings for her. But I just couldn't. Then another event happened.

It was meant to be a guy only outing. Meet up with the boys, go eat some food and chat. But my perverted friend invited his girlfriend, god knows how he got one, and my other friend brought his one too. The other two couples were mutually in "love" as one would say. They held hands and I felt obliged to hold hands with my girlfriend at the time. It wasn't something I wanted to do, but I tried not to show it. We ate our food without much fuss and at the end, I gave her a very awkward farewell hug. There were times she offered to buy me gifts, but I didn't want anything. I didn't want to use her or leech of her.

I heard from my friends that she crushed on my other 2 friends really hard before coming onto me. It screwed up my feeling for her a tad bit. It can't be helped though, I was crushing on girls as well, not publicly though.

Nothing clicked. I didn't know what to do. So I avoided her. I ran away from the problem. And it caught up to me. Phonecalls from her friends, texts from her, messages from her. I didn't know what to do. It was more cruel this way. To ask her out and let her suffer heaps instead of rejecting her at first and letting her get over me. I was sick of it all. Sick of my cowardice. I sent her a text. A text detailing how much of an asshole I was. That it was all my fault. That I was a pathetic excuse for a human. That I couldn't be forgiven for what I did.

I still met her at tutor, but it was hard. We chatted now and then on MSN. A week after our sorry excuse for a breakup she dated another guy at tutor. The rebound. She talked about him on MSN. He was funny, the perfect guy. and after 2 weeks she was tired of him. Praises turned to complaints. "He wants to kiss already, it's so fast" I never kissed her. What she was feeling now dating him was what I was feeling dating her. But I kept my mouth shut. I didn't have any right to speak out of turn.

And she broke up with him. It's been a couple of years now and we're both in different universities. She's had another 2 boyfriends including her current one after the rebound and I've just been crushing on one girl who I know I'll never be good enough for. I don't even know if I want to get in a relationship with a girl anymore. I don't need sex. I just want to go on dates, hold hands, have her sleep on my shoulder and just enjoy each others' company.

And so ends my story. Long and dull I guess. Apologies to those who read through the whole thing or those who got bored and skipped through it.

least you got laid.

*sits down to read all these walls of text.*

Love is an interesting thing to find huh?

[color=#ff69b4]Ended up meeting my first GF when I was about 15 years old. With my brother gone from my life do to him moving I was looking for something to do, ended taking long walks going nowhere really, ended running into a friend of my brother that stop and started to talk to me a bit, just asking how I was doing with him not being around. We started to talk more and more, and I started to go over his place from time to time, play video games and watch shit on TV, and talk random things that would go on forever.

One day I went over around the time he was going to be back from school, when I got there his Sister open the door and let me in doing way i was there. His Sister name was Lucy. Seeing how my friend was about a hour late getting home me and her starting talking, and I ended up me and her do a lot of the same things, anime, videos games, books, etc. Over about time I got to be pretty damn good friends with her. Then one day I was over and on my way out from being there watching Lucky Star for the 15th time, I made my way out and has I passed her in the drive way she stop me to ask me something, she asked if I like her. Me not knowing how to go about this I got a odd look on my face and just said "Sorry?" as if I didn't hear her the first time. She walked up to my and then said it one more time: "Do. You. Like. Me. Aaron?" Ended just saying "I'm not really sure..." Not what she was looking for at all and not something I should had said now that I look at it. I went home to think about it a bit just to find out I really did like my friend's Sister.

Few days passed after that me not wanting to go over there for a good bit over what happen and not sure if she told her brother and how he was going act at all. When I got there she was the one who open the door and with a bit of a face that look like she was unhappy to see me a bit. I ended up being there for about 5 hours and not saying a word to her before leaving. On my way I walked by her room door and hear a anime coming from her room, I take a look in on my way by and shes Watching Cowboy Bebop and she had just hit the ending song for it. Seeing this put something into my head, i slowly open the door bloody lip syncing to the song, and.. well... i got what i was going for with her, I got her to fall off her bed she found it so damn funny. We where both in tears over what I just did and I think me doing what I did show her I liked her more then just a friend and she knew it. I'm just going to say this my friend went from being a friend to big brother.

Me and her went out for a good bit and we had a good time together, but sadly it did not meet it very far. About six months after we started to date she told me she was moving in about 2 weeks time do to her Dad getting a job somewhere.

I never got to say goodbye.

Met my bf "E" in a art class separate from High School. At the time, I was dating someone else and we were just classmates. There was this other person he liked, a friend of mine. He'd always tell me to introduce him, or bring her around, etc etc. He spoke with her a lot and joined the same class she did, but nothing came of it since she moved for college. We'd meet in the city to hang out sometimes, and then one day he brought a friend a long. His friend was flirting with me and "E" didn't like it one bit. The big question came along when they were taking me home. " Do you have a bf?" I answered yes. "E" turned around SO fast and he looked so surprised; he didn't know. He never asked.

However, that same summer ( a year after we met) I started to feel like this person was cool enough for me to visit his home. My boyfriend had left out of town for school and I was bored. Ended up hanging out with my friend "E". Until one day, I felt like something more was going to happen. Heart pounding.... just in his room alone with him. I won't say I'm holy or righteous, but I felt wrong; terrible. I left and didn't speak to him for half a year. Even though I didn't do anything, It was the thought that I could've that made me sick. I literally ignored him because I knew I was still with my boyfriend who moved away.

YET, I found out my boyfriend was .... mmm fluttering with the other college gals. Bets between guys and I wasn't willing to forgive. I didn't run to my NOW Boyfriend "E". I stayed alone a few years. Decided I would try to connect with High school friends and he asked me out a day before my birthday.

We're an odd match !

We met when I was a sophomore (second year) at our university and she was a freshman (first year). I was invited by a random dude I ran into on campus to come to his anime club - he had been carrying a Samurai Champloo messenger bag that I commented on, he asked me to join his anime club, and I figured what the hell, why not.

She had also met him and been invited to the same club meeting. From the moment I first started talking to her I was kind of interested, and hearing her side of it afterwards, she was as well. We flirted pretty heavily for a day or two until finally one night we ended up kissing. I'm not even sure which one of us leaned in first, we were both very attracted to each other.

We've been together for about four and a half years now and are quite serious about staying together. It's nice to have someone stick around for so long - 4.5 years is, what, about 20% of my life so far? It's kind of hard to believe, to be honest.

Oh, and we continue to hang out with the people from that anime club today. They are some of our closest friends from our university days - we were even roommates with some of them for a time. Hard to imagine how much different my life would be today if I hadn't bothered to show up to that meeting.

Met her on Fakku. We were good friends for around 4 years, roughly. Some months ago she asked if I'd marry her. Thoughtlessly, I said yes, and shit happened. I almost thought it was a joke by her - mind you, I did liked her, but didn't have the guts to approach her in that way - but she said that she was actually serious.

So basically, shit happens, we're still together. Long distance relationship sucks, but who knows, things might just work out. Albeit I feel undeserving sometimes, but she's awesome.