So Tight

I've recently begun dating a girl that's got a really tight pussy.

I don't think my huge cock can manage to penetrate her anymore than about a fourth of the length that it's actually at when fully erect. Any pointers?

Me and her are both finding this very frustrating.

Don't worry it happens... just find a good quality water-based lube, and it will make everything easier :D

Yeah, lube will definitely help in this situation.
Also maybe more fingering during foreplay can help loosen her muscles more.

Just like how guys come in various sizes, the same applies for girls. Not much can be done if you're hitting her womb...you're not going to go in much farther.

But if she's not wet, just turn her on more.

Wait, so is she just really tight? Or is she more "shallow"?
I didn't really think about that until reading hightide's reply.

She's just absurdly tight. I swear, her pussy suffocates the fuck out of my cock.

I'm wondering if I'm just too big (I'm 9 inches, no lie) or she's just too shallow. She can't take it.

Uhm, you should definitely be able to tell if its tightness or shallowness.
If she is shallow, it means you're hitting her womb. She should know when that happens as should you.

Well, last time we had sex (earlier this week) I definitely felt more akward doing her than usual. I'm probably going to go with a mixture of both, because I felt like I was hitting her womb. On top of that, she was also tightening up on me and screaming 'it hurts, get off'.

Thankfully, her slapping me in the face got me out of my arousing daze.

I appreciate the help so far, and will take your ideas into consideration with her.

Any more ideas are always welcome!

A. Dildo.. leave it in a hr a day... get the vagoo use to something wider then her OP(original pussy).
B. she has to get use to it inside her so go slow and bam it will get more comfortable.
C. WHY ARE YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT THIGHNESS, enjoy the 1000 worm effect.

A. Any suggestions on what kind of dildo?
B. But going hard and deep is more pleasurable, which we both agree on. I guess you're right though... (damn no more good sex for awhile! *snaps fingers*)
C. But it's better to be loosey like a goosey, imho.

Same width and length of your penis will be best.

Good call. Hopefully they make one the right size.

You know if you really love your girlfriend, you could surgically reduce both the thickness and the length of your penis.

But she always told me that she enjoys being with 'a white guy with a big dick'.

I don't think she'd enjoy that idea very much, although I'm not exactly privy to it either.

Oh! And also, try different positions.
If she rides you, it will give her the control she needs to make sure that you are going in comfortably and hitting her where she wants it.

I'll let her know. We're partial to the 'London Bridge' and 'Incline Leg' at the moment, beyond the good ol' Missionary Position. She likes it when I occasionally donkey punch her, or slap her around a bit, too.

I once had the same problem. However, I then found anal sex to be far better, as it was able to actually fit it. Maybe I'm a sinner now ;)

Any tips or advice on what kind of anal positions are best?

Maybe I wouldn't be pushing my girlfriend to the limit then.

Oh! if you're interested in DP, you can get some suggestions here.

I'm not sure how she'd feel about that.

She's more into the 'single-hole'. Don't know how adverse she'd be to doing in the stinkhole, since I usually manage to get away with 'two in the pink, one in the stink' in the heat of the moment