When was your first time?

hehe, ziggys right. a girl blows air in my ear and i go crazy. although this is was generated roughly, a friend of mine presented a peculiar theory to me that i thought the two people roaming this topic thread might be interested in.

there are three kinds of guys in this world:

the hopeless romantic, the guy who only feels comfortable in a commited relationship. when they arent in one they complain about it, and when they are its all they think about.

the bar hopper, a guy whos afraid of commitment or unwilling to commit himself to one. only interested in one night stands or flings which only last a week or so.

and last but not least, the jedi master of libido, like it or not i believe the collective population doesnt give geeks the respect they deserve. while all you bar hoppers and hopeless romantics are out finding woman to flaunt or fuck we're focusing on the bigger picture.

i am proud of myself because as ziggy has already stated, im not making sex my life. not to ridicule the others but i would rather enjoy my collective youth the way i see fit before having a huge influence on it like a girlfriend or wife. and its not like i can only get sex through a committed relationship but unless the opportunity arises id imagine that is how my first experience will come about.

I was virgin 10 years ago

if have a vote will be fun

Thinks back...almost 3 years ago with my GF

I agree too. LOL

I'm 20, virgin and never took alcool/drug too. Many would call that life lame i guess. ;p

I lived 18 years in loneliness, no friends, real or not. Trying to avoid as much as possible other people since i was bullied most of the time at school. I just began to talk to other people now at college. But i still and will live many more years alone in my imaginary world.
I don't want a whore or something like that to do it with me, i would only accept if it was that person, the one i will live the rest of my life with. I love my world of loneliness, and i won't let anyone break it but the right person.

Still a virgin, but hopes that my Gf will let me do it as soon as possible

damn you and me are like one in the same (except that i'm 18 and not in college yet)

I lost my virginity when I was 17, pretty much "out of the blue".
I've had had enough time to regret it later; I should have waited a little more.

I was 17 or 18 at the time... Don't remember exactly.

Me and the gf had been going out for 2 years or so at that time, and had fooled around with basicly everything else besides sex... so eventually we got to it and where like, wanna?

It was awesome for me though, as GF had decided a while back to get on the pill for the short period thing, and because I told her early on that I wasn't a huge fan of carrying/buying condoms... so my first time was "raw dog" as its called? (I think?)

It felt AWESOME, but I think she was in a bit of pain, being the first time and all, and being a rather petite girl its understandable...
We are still together now, and its basically every weekend besides the whole, my vagina is bleeding and disgusting 4 day thing... a.k.a. lets watch anime >__>

Good times... and its really quite understandable if you arn't a party go-er to be a virgin into your 20's or so... no where near the big deal High schoolers make it out to be...

Enjoy life... sex for me was really just the next step for me and the lady... and no complaints from either parties about the fun side of it :]

I'm twenty-one and still a virgin. It bothered me a bit when I was in my late teens because a lot of my friends were losing their virginity when they were seventeen and eighteen, and for some reason I cared. I don't really care too much anymore. I really half expect I never will, and I'm okay with that.

100% Virgin :]

I'm 22, not a Virgin. Not proud of it or disappointed. Sex is great. But not as great as cupcakes.

Not a virgin here. lost it a couple of years ago. Don't regret it.

19 and currently a virgin, but I'm planning to lose it when my boyfriend comes by to visit in August for a week. Naive as it sounds I thought long and hard about it because I want to make sure the first person I do it with is the last, and he's definitely it.

Just to make the point, I don't think anyone should be overtly concerned with the whole virginity issue.
I've never had sex with a girl I actually really cared about. It's always at a party when both myself and whoever the girl is have been, at the very least, drinking all night and just end up together. It never really matters and it's not particularly memorable.
So I'm basically saying, I very much doubt that's any better than remaining a virgin into adulthood and having sex when it actually means something to you.
Not that I regret anything or feel bad about myself.
I'm just saying that it is what it is and your virginity should be neither a badge of honor or disgrace.