So... would you prefer a perverted significant other?

I don't think I have to look TOO hard to find a pervy guy for myself, in my opinion when two pervs get together...awesome things happen :D

;3; Cute.
I had a bf like that... but because of that shyness things went pretty damn slow.

I haven't been with my significant other for that long so I have no idea at the moment.
But if she is, boy, I'd be thrilled.

Perverted significant other? Fuck yes. I'm not just saying that either. I really do think that someone on the more perverted side would be better then most people for me, for a variety a reasons.

Who wants to be with someone uptight?

LOL like everyone has mentioned it would be great to have a perverted significant other. As long as, what other people have mentioned, they aren't into BDSM, threesomes, hardcore, and all those things that would involve "WTF" moments.

And I think it's a pretty astonishing result considering another poll made more than clear that a lot of people around here consider non-virgin girls "second hand goods" (no shit, actual quote).

The hypocrisy is amazing, right.

Perverted, yes - but only within the bounds a male-dominated society dictates. Is that it?

I know someone who says he wouldn't like a "perverted" girlfriend because he thinks girls like that are prone to cheating. What the lol.

I would go on to say there is no "perverted". But maybe that's the hippie in me speaking, quietly whispering "if it feels good, it is good"...

Oh sorry. I really wasn't trying to be a dictator in the perverted areas. I honestly wouldn't want to do those things that I mentioned but if the significant other wants to try it or loves it then I guess it wouldn't hurt to try it once.

Luckily for me, I am into soft BDSM, as in being dominated by my girlfriend. I'd love my girlfriend to be into porn, make perverted jokes, watch hentai (that may be too much to ask), roleplay with me every once in a while, and just be adventurous overall. As theyellowdart previously wrote, who wants someone uptight?



Some people don't know the difference between "loose" and "perverted". Your friend is one of those people.

I didn't take it that way... I thought you were making some kind of general statement about the posters of the thread, to which I responded.

Guess I need to apologize here.

Back to the topic of the thread, I would indeed like a "perverted" SO. And by that I mean someone that would like to engage in gang bangs, pegging, bisexual threesomes (with two guys) and other stuff no one "in their right mind" would do.

I am actually partial to "open relationships". That must be my late 60s influence of free love and stuff...

I don't know...

Wouldn't it feel rewarding to bring an uptight girl down to your level of perversity?

Then again, I don't think anyone wants to put in the effort.

This

It would be nice if she was perverted, but I value loyalty more.

Totally agree. But I prefer a girl who is a tsundere during the day, like at work or school, but become a total pervert when we have alone time.

[font=verdana][color=green]Just because someone is perverted, it doesn't mean that they're disloyal. Don't mistake "perversion" with "slutty-whorebagness".

But yes, I'd rather have a perverted SO than a prude. That doesn't mean I will judge my relationship based purely on these factors - if I happen to fall in love with someone who's quite Vanilla, I'm not going to stop loving them - but it would be comforting to be able to bring new ideas to the table and not be shy about it.


















I'd like to be strapped to the table.

This times a thousand.

Absolutely.

Perverted please. My husband doesn't have a perverted bone in his body, poor man. But this whole idea of loyalty over perversion is stupid, I am pretty much the worst pervert ever, but I would never cheat. Yes my husband would rather sleep than satisfy his wife, but its nights like these that I turn to fakku. There are only so many outfits, tantrums, booze, movies and hints I can throw in his face. He's just not a perv, would I prefer one? Fuck yes, but that's not everything I want.

In theory most guys say they want a pervy gf but it also depends if they are the jealous type as well, some (if not most) also tend to be slightly paranoid about what their gf do when they aren't around, and if they are perverted around you, whats stopping her from being perverted with other people... at least that's what i assume goes through the mind of a jealous type.

As for me, I love my Mistress, though we're not into hardcore BDSM, Soft BDSM is the best. specially when she ties you up and takes the lead... non of the dominatrix outfit, whip, and gag ball though

Ugh, this.

Even in art history, it's always women as Madonna or whore. Mary or Madelene.
There's no in between.

The idea that men say they want women who are sexual and take pride in that, but then call anyone who's touched another person besides themselves "used goods" unworthy of their time really sickens me.
It makes being a sexually liberated woman in this era quite frustrating.