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Boy confess to Girl through an event card, Girl doesn't respond. What should boy do? Many opinion appreciated!!!!!!!!!!
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RaidenJPN wrote...
Simple,gain some confidence and confess to her front on.
Are you seriously implying that gaining confidence is something one can just do on a whim?
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OctagonalSquare wrote...
RaidenJPN wrote...
Simple,gain some confidence and confess to her front on.
Are you seriously implying that gaining confidence is something one can just do on a whim?
Not on a simple 'whim', as you say, but it's not as hard as you imply.
While I am fully aware that being social can be difficult for some people, such as natural introverts, it only requires practice, like anything else in this world.
Relinquish your fear of failure, take a few falls, and you will get better at it.
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Said boy should call the girl many times more begging for her love. If that does not get her attention proceed to start threatening her life. If she calls the police merely kidnap one of her family members and ask her love in return for the hostage. If you somehow die in a shootout then just be glad that you tried and you have no regrets. ;D
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FuckThisAndFuckYou wrote...
Said boy should call the girl many times more begging for her love. If that does not get her attention proceed to start threatening her life. If she calls the police merely kidnap one of her family members and ask her love in return for the hostage. If you somehow die in a shootout then just be glad that you tried and you have no regrets. ;DUnless he's some sort of sociopath/psychopath, I doubt that the said boy would be able to do anything near what you suggest.
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Confidence is easy to get! All the time people have to do things and prove themselves to be confident, when you can just convince yourself you are. If someone is confident in their ability to play soccer, their confidence will drop when they lose a game. If someone is confident in their looks, they'll get crushed by insults too easily. Any tool you use to put confidence in is a tool that can be used to take it out. However, if you don't use a tool to graft confidence to your soul, and instead grow your confidence from within, then there isn't any tool that may be used to take it back away! You see, completely groundless and reasonless confidence is the toughest form of confidence you can get! Bow to my logic and amazing people skills, ahaha, AHHAHAHAHAAA
>Continues hiding behind a shield of sarcastic narcasism
Though seriously, confidence doesn't even matter. The first time I went to ask someone out I wasn't confident. How'd I work up the nerve? Well, what if they liked me, but they weren't confident either? I just pushed myself into thinking that it wasn't simply what I wanted to do, but instead that I HAD TO, for JUSTICE. Well, not to that extent, but I did change my angle so that it was the right choice as opposed to just the bold choice.
So as I wallowed in my troubles over break, I asked them out. Via text. Got Rejected. Two days later.
AND I FELT BADASS. Perhaps not badass, but better than I would have had I done nothing. To boot, they ended up feeling awkward around me from that point on as opposed to the other way around.
So go ask them out.
>Continues hiding behind a shield of sarcastic narcasism
Though seriously, confidence doesn't even matter. The first time I went to ask someone out I wasn't confident. How'd I work up the nerve? Well, what if they liked me, but they weren't confident either? I just pushed myself into thinking that it wasn't simply what I wanted to do, but instead that I HAD TO, for JUSTICE. Well, not to that extent, but I did change my angle so that it was the right choice as opposed to just the bold choice.
So as I wallowed in my troubles over break, I asked them out. Via text. Got Rejected. Two days later.
AND I FELT BADASS. Perhaps not badass, but better than I would have had I done nothing. To boot, they ended up feeling awkward around me from that point on as opposed to the other way around.
So go ask them out.
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Said girl is never alone, so should said boy wait for an opening or should he do it over web/text?
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this is probably easier for me to say this since i have some issues of my own but you ust got to go up to her and tell it how it is cause you know honesty=best policy unless its tmi ok and hope for the best and if you get shot down you say thanks oh and offer a handshake and that pat on the shoulder bit and walk away and dont look back like in the movies with a cool explosion and then turn on your ipod and put on a song that makes you want to dance and just do it as your walking away and if it goes well then great cause honestly i asked a girl to lunch(i had no romantic interest in her) and i said thanks and it was all good but yeah go with that and best of luck
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
Stop with the said girl and said boy stuff, you're not 5 (hopefully).
Anyways, you can try through other means in terms of confessions if you want to, but the best is face to face. You won't be the only person in the world to be rejected if this happens, so get upset if it does and move on after.
Either you suck it up and put it out there since you never know what will happen or give up and wait for another opportunity.
Anyways, you can try through other means in terms of confessions if you want to, but the best is face to face. You won't be the only person in the world to be rejected if this happens, so get upset if it does and move on after.
Either you suck it up and put it out there since you never know what will happen or give up and wait for another opportunity.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
For fuck's sake, grow a pair. Talk to her face to face and ask if she's got a minute to speak with her alone.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Chat wrote...
Confidence is easy to get! All the time people have to do things and prove themselves to be confident, when you can just convince yourself you are. If someone is confident in their ability to play soccer, their confidence will drop when they lose a game. If someone is confident in their looks, they'll get crushed by insults too easily. Any tool you use to put confidence in is a tool that can be used to take it out. However, if you don't use a tool to graft confidence to your soul, and instead grow your confidence from within, then there isn't any tool that may be used to take it back away! You see, completely groundless and reasonless confidence is the toughest form of confidence you can get! Bow to my logic and amazing people skills, ahaha, AHHAHAHAHAAA>Continues hiding behind a shield of sarcastic narcasism
Though seriously, confidence doesn't even matter. The first time I went to ask someone out I wasn't confident. How'd I work up the nerve? Well, what if they liked me, but they weren't confident either? I just pushed myself into thinking that it wasn't simply what I wanted to do, but instead that I HAD TO, for JUSTICE. Well, not to that extent, but I did change my angle so that it was the right choice as opposed to just the bold choice.
So as I wallowed in my troubles over break, I asked them out. Via text. Got Rejected. Two days later.
AND I FELT BADASS. Perhaps not badass, but better than I would have had I done nothing. To boot, they ended up feeling awkward around me from that point on as opposed to the other way around.
So go ask them out.
You're so wrong, and you don't even know... It makes me sad.
Confidence is key in EVERYTHING. It's key in selling shit. In asking somebody out, you're selling yourself essentially. If you're confident, you don't look insecure, you don't seem like you'll bitch out of it/ get intimidated by other people.
Very rarely does not being confident come across well. Instead of it coming across as a confident man, who will be able to be there for her/ stay with her, you'll come across as 'cute' or somebody who's probably not going to be in it for the long run/ somebody who will bitch out.
Seriously, confidence gives off a lot more than you think.
Think of it this way, if somebody knocks at your door trying to sell you something, if they have no confidence in their product/ themselves, you aren't going to want to buy from them, because you don't trust them all that much/ they don't sound like proper salespeople. Same deal with asking somebody out. You won't portray that you're serious or the real deal.
I know I'm repeating the same point, but it is a massive point.
Not to mention he'd have to get the confidence up to actually ask them out in the first place.
Trust me, I've asked a fair few people out, and Being confident is a massive help. Nobody likes a bitch, to be harsh, but true.
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Drifter995 wrote...
Chat wrote...
Confidence is easy to get! All the time people have to do things and prove themselves to be confident, when you can just convince yourself you are. If someone is confident in their ability to play soccer, their confidence will drop when they lose a game. If someone is confident in their looks, they'll get crushed by insults too easily. Any tool you use to put confidence in is a tool that can be used to take it out. However, if you don't use a tool to graft confidence to your soul, and instead grow your confidence from within, then there isn't any tool that may be used to take it back away! You see, completely groundless and reasonless confidence is the toughest form of confidence you can get! Bow to my logic and amazing people skills, ahaha, AHHAHAHAHAAA>Continues hiding behind a shield of sarcastic narcasism
Though seriously, confidence doesn't even matter. The first time I went to ask someone out I wasn't confident. How'd I work up the nerve? Well, what if they liked me, but they weren't confident either? I just pushed myself into thinking that it wasn't simply what I wanted to do, but instead that I HAD TO, for JUSTICE. Well, not to that extent, but I did change my angle so that it was the right choice as opposed to just the bold choice.
So as I wallowed in my troubles over break, I asked them out. Via text. Got Rejected. Two days later.
AND I FELT BADASS. Perhaps not badass, but better than I would have had I done nothing. To boot, they ended up feeling awkward around me from that point on as opposed to the other way around.
So go ask them out.
You're so wrong, and you don't even know... It makes me sad.
Confidence is key in EVERYTHING. It's key in selling shit. In asking somebody out, you're selling yourself essentially. If you're confident, you don't look insecure, you don't seem like you'll bitch out of it/ get intimidated by other people.
Very rarely does not being confident come across well. Instead of it coming across as a confident man, who will be able to be there for her/ stay with her, you'll come across as 'cute' or somebody who's probably not going to be in it for the long run/ somebody who will bitch out.
Seriously, confidence gives off a lot more than you think.
Think of it this way, if somebody knocks at your door trying to sell you something, if they have no confidence in their product/ themselves, you aren't going to want to buy from them, because you don't trust them all that much/ they don't sound like proper salespeople. Same deal with asking somebody out. You won't portray that you're serious or the real deal.
I know I'm repeating the same point, but it is a massive point.
Not to mention he'd have to get the confidence up to actually ask them out in the first place.
Trust me, I've asked a fair few people out, and Being confident is a massive help. Nobody likes a bitch, to be harsh, but true.
The first part is 100% scarcasm, if you didn't pick up on that. Personally I find that the best way to feel confident is to just pay no mind to it though.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Chat wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
Chat wrote...
Confidence is easy to get! All the time people have to do things and prove themselves to be confident, when you can just convince yourself you are. If someone is confident in their ability to play soccer, their confidence will drop when they lose a game. If someone is confident in their looks, they'll get crushed by insults too easily. Any tool you use to put confidence in is a tool that can be used to take it out. However, if you don't use a tool to graft confidence to your soul, and instead grow your confidence from within, then there isn't any tool that may be used to take it back away! You see, completely groundless and reasonless confidence is the toughest form of confidence you can get! Bow to my logic and amazing people skills, ahaha, AHHAHAHAHAAA>Continues hiding behind a shield of sarcastic narcasism
Though seriously, confidence doesn't even matter. The first time I went to ask someone out I wasn't confident. How'd I work up the nerve? Well, what if they liked me, but they weren't confident either? I just pushed myself into thinking that it wasn't simply what I wanted to do, but instead that I HAD TO, for JUSTICE. Well, not to that extent, but I did change my angle so that it was the right choice as opposed to just the bold choice.
So as I wallowed in my troubles over break, I asked them out. Via text. Got Rejected. Two days later.
AND I FELT BADASS. Perhaps not badass, but better than I would have had I done nothing. To boot, they ended up feeling awkward around me from that point on as opposed to the other way around.
So go ask them out.
You're so wrong, and you don't even know... It makes me sad.
Confidence is key in EVERYTHING. It's key in selling shit. In asking somebody out, you're selling yourself essentially. If you're confident, you don't look insecure, you don't seem like you'll bitch out of it/ get intimidated by other people.
Very rarely does not being confident come across well. Instead of it coming across as a confident man, who will be able to be there for her/ stay with her, you'll come across as 'cute' or somebody who's probably not going to be in it for the long run/ somebody who will bitch out.
Seriously, confidence gives off a lot more than you think.
Think of it this way, if somebody knocks at your door trying to sell you something, if they have no confidence in their product/ themselves, you aren't going to want to buy from them, because you don't trust them all that much/ they don't sound like proper salespeople. Same deal with asking somebody out. You won't portray that you're serious or the real deal.
I know I'm repeating the same point, but it is a massive point.
Not to mention he'd have to get the confidence up to actually ask them out in the first place.
Trust me, I've asked a fair few people out, and Being confident is a massive help. Nobody likes a bitch, to be harsh, but true.
The first part is 100% scarcasm, if you didn't pick up on that. Personally I find that the best way to feel confident is to just pay no mind to it though.
I did, thus my whole little ranty thing.
Exactly, if you ignore your worries/ fear, you appear confident, which is good.
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Don't need to megaquote :S
I feel like ignore isn't the right word though. It's more like apathy than ignorance. In my opinion adventuring is more important than winning, so to speak, I'm not sure if that means I've increased my confidence or decreased my need for confidence. I actually haven't asked many people out, but I have been on the receiving end quiiite a few times~
I feel like ignore isn't the right word though. It's more like apathy than ignorance. In my opinion adventuring is more important than winning, so to speak, I'm not sure if that means I've increased my confidence or decreased my need for confidence. I actually haven't asked many people out, but I have been on the receiving end quiiite a few times~
