[Locked] the end of my world.

so. its quite possible that my girlfriend is prego right now. her period is three weeks late, but all the tests we've bought have come up negatory. so were going to be going into the docs next week. which, is the end. for me anyway. cuase if she is im SOL. cuase shes allready firmly said shes not getting an abortion or putting it up for adoption. which are the ONLY two options i had. so now im screwed. cause if she is my lifes more or less over i guess. but if i dont suicide, which is quite possible at this point. the only other thing i see happening is me breaking all ties and paying child support for the rest of my life. yes i know jackass thing to do but my dream is more then worth it. i just needed to say this to someone, ask for some comfort, or advice. i need help guys.

That sucks, man, but I'm not sure what you can do.

What is this dream of yours? Is it really so incompatible with helping raise your child?

I'd like to give you more advice, but frankly, you do have an obligation to this kid and your girlfriend. Like it or lump it, if you don't support them, you're being a jackass. And you can certainly DO that, if you want, but then you'll lose any right to call yourself a decent human being.

SO, I guess all you can do is wait it out. Who knows? Maybe all those tests were right and you DON'T have a baby. Then you can use this as a reminder to use a condom next time.

thanks!

You and your girlfriend are fucking retards. Gtfo of real life.

how is babby formed?

This is why the royalty stay powerful while the plebs such as yourself are poor.

Paternity test.

Perform a falcon punch, my dear lad.

Regardless if she is pregnant or not, you got some serious thinking to do. I find it total BULLSHIT that you can call this girl your "world" yet contemplate leaving her because of a problem YOU CAUSED. Even if she isn't pregnant, you should consider what the hell is going on in your life right now if you are going to ditch the girl you supposedly love because of a problem that inconvenience you.

I would think that if you really cared about someone then it would be in times like this that you would actually stand by someone. Leaving them would - and should - be the last thing from your mind.

ha. yea i guess this is when my true colors come out eh?? sure i may be stupid, i probably did fuck up but never before have i fucked up this big. shit happens right? i know what your thinking, im thinking im a bigger idiot myself so dont bother telling it to me. but i am so committed to this, my dream. that id rather die then give it up so i dont have to many options now do i?

Jesus christ. And the worst of it all is that a child is going to be born with you fuckups as parents.

man up or be trash forever.

No dream is worth abandoning your child for. I don't even care what it is, if you do accomplish it it's going to be ruined anyways. You'll forever know that your dream was tainted with the abandonment of your family.

Thats like wanting a drink at any cost and once you get it you say, "Hey this is really good! Glad I got it! Whats it made of bartender?"

And he says, "Shit. Pure Dog Shit. And your drinking it. Shit that is. Hope you like it."

QQ MORE.

SEX MAKES BABIES. DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES, YOU FUCKTARD.

I'm sorry guy but man up...if you where ready to fuck then be ready to deal with the natural outcome..but if you must be a punk ass and leave her pay your god damn child-support ,be in your kids life ,and don't string her along...but hey if she's really your "world" then this may not be all bad, and you just need to make the best of it

P.s. Sry if this is poorly written I posted it from my phone.

If you're having sex (though you didn't specify if you used protection), you should be prepared for all possible outcomes of it... including reproduction.

You can start by growing a pair. Then you should come to terms with what you've done and start to prepare your self for; telling your parents, taking care of the baby and moving on.

Killing your self is the weak way out, it will leave your girl-friend with no support and your kid without a father figure. So, in summery:

Op is a little bitch.

Just gotta to man up and work with the situation your in... i did, it sucked to be a father, but you got to grow up and be a father if she pregnant or run from the child support man. I was there too and i had those thoughts like every other man here, but that what happens when you don't pull out while you have a rubber on and she on the pill.

Take from me i had my first child with a girl i wasn't even with at the time, but she was my best friend and my first love so it works out in the end, now we have two(damn i should of pulled out). It take time to be a father, but it worth it if your man enough. You don't have to be the best at first, but if you love that child enough.. has long as you try to be the best you can.. it will work for you. And you can use the baby has a chick magnet if the relationship with the baby momma doesn't works out. YOUR NUT WILL BE CLEAN.

Reagen said: "We are from the government and are here to help.", which he called the scariest phrase in existence, I respectfully disagree.

"I'm pregnant" is number one in my book.

In all seriousness, that really sucks, you said you got pregnancy tests, now was that doctor or from the store, because I'd go get one from a doctor, assuming it's any different, unfortunately pregnancy is a side effect of sex, and you must bear the consequences, don't want to sound like you suck or anything, but don't be a puss, I think that abandoning her and just paying child support is really low, you're just going to have to man up and take what life gives you. On another note, I really hope she isn't, I can't imagine having to deal with that burden when you're not ready.

I loled.