The One You Love or The One Who Loves You?

I asked myself this one night ( I think real deeply every night right before I fall asleep. ). All I can say is that... I love the one I love and that's final.

What do you guys think?

Spoken like a true stalker....J/K all jokes aside if the person your in love with doesnt love you back then your wasting your time, it might be hard to let that person go but its for the best so i would pick the one who loves me.

I doon't understand the question. please elaborate.

heres my opinion on this.... since i have been a middleman all my days (and its so annoying)

if you choose the one you love, it COULD be a one sided love while you watch as he/she is taken away from you OR theres a chance of cheating to happen.

if you choose the one who loves you, well there can be a chance that she/he is a yandere or has an attitude similar to one(see gambler's thread of yandere for details)....

still.... it is up to you to realize who you love.
it could still become like this scenario:

person you like seems to not notice you.
just as you decide to give up, someone close to you for a long time encourages you.
after all the while you try to woo that person, the said close person confesses to you.
as your feelings for that person are mixed up, the person you like wants to talk to you and CONFESSES to you.

well..... thats your choice....

His aking if you would choose the girl you wanna be with or the girl who likes you.

OT: I would go for the girl who likes me. Cause I'm too much of a pussy to handle heartbreak if I get turned down by the girl I actually like. -_-

No fucking clue. I'd follow my heart.

Thanks! I got it all wrong.

Hard question. Maybe none. I mean, if I love that person, but she goes with someone else, what a waste of time. If the girl that loves me is totally unappealing to me in any way (physically and mentally), I would rather go and buy another fish to keep me company, at least I'll found it cute and love it, instead of hanging with something that I think it's irrelevant for me.

The one that loves me. Granted, I'd love it if the one I loved would love me back, but if that weren't possible, knowing that someone loved me, even if I found it difficult to love them back would be fine; knowing that I had at least someone on my side that I could count on.

Ironically, I was just listening to 'According to You' by Orianthi, and if the situation described in the song is applicable to the question stated in the OP, I would choose the person who loves me for who I really am.

I tend to like people who love me. they cant be that bad if they love me.

i prefer i don't know i haven't cared enough that's why I chose to love the question mark.

i agree with this person

thanks for clairafying.

i'll take the one who loves me because i'm lazy. like pizza delivery, why go out looking for it, when it can come right to your front door.

not raelly, that was just my first(smart ass) thought. i want no part of one sided love.

However, choosing the one who loves you, but you don't means that you are specifically choosing a relationship, that isn't a relationship and will not go anywhere.