There's this girl I like...

Hello everyone, there is this girl I really like, she is a bit of a tomboy and has a strong personality, well I found out that she kind of likes me too, but she also said she isn't in the mood for a relationship to this friend of hers and that, in any case, she doesn't know me well enough yet (but we can solve that easily, can't we?).

Now, Fakku guys and girls, how do you see this situation...? I can understand not being in the mood, but how long could this state last..? I'm a bit confused, really.

It really does depend from person to person. Sometimes (though not always, I hope), it's just an excuse to say they're not interested in you, but those who do that aren't really worth it, in my opinion (if you're gonna reject a person, do it to their face and don't be a coward!).

For now, I would say just get to know her casually and slowly, and build up a good base. See what happens afterwards. Hell, if she says she wants to at least try, go out on a couple of dates to gauge your compatibility with each other.

Maybe I didn't explain it clearly, but she didn't say it directly to me, she spoke with a friend of her that, later, came up to me and told me everything, so that's unlikely to be an excuse since...she didn't have to excuse anything :P

I know, I'm just stating that anyway. Probably should have said something like "though, that doesn't seem to be the case here".

Try spending more time around this person.

Oh ok ;)

Well yeah, I'll have to keep being around her and see what happens, we've been out togheter already with another couple and we were doing pretty well, from what I got she likes hanging out with me, but should I try to ask her out alone if she is in this kind of mood?

As in, ask if she'd like to go on a date with just you, or ask her in private for a date? I feel like you'd best ask her privately, but yes, do so when the mood is right.

It just seems like she doesn't know you well enough, from what I gather. Spend time together, but make it clear that you don't want just to be friends with her.

Spend more time around her. These things cant be rushed. Just be by her side and care for her as long as you can. A girl worth kissing is a girl not easily kissed afterall:D Goodluck anyways!

thanks for all the inputs guys, guess it's the only thing I can do, I met her about 1 month ago, she was in my Pathfinder group and since then I've been hanging out with her all week-ends and play every week togheter...actually that's excactly what she told this friend of mine: I'm nice and all but she doesn't know me well enough yet...

That's a nice way of saying "It's not gonna happen." I mean.. by all means, cultivate and enjoy a friendship with this girl! You can really never have enough friends, but .. just letting you know... it really sounds like she was trying to politely and gently turn you down. Trust me.. If she had her best friend do it, that's a dead giveaway.

It doesn't sound like it's going to happen with this girl, but there is no law or reason why you shouldn't continue getting to know her anyways.

yeah, as the distinguished users above have said, get to know her even if it leads no where, maybe by getting to know her and vice versa something might happen, but don't hang your hat on that

but dont try to hang out all the time, sometimes that can be a bit smothering (and you'll get friendzoned), unless she's the one who wants to hang out all the time

This.

Best advice i've seen so far. :D

Friends are always telling things to people. My gf said the same thing to her friend, Crystal, who then told me. She is lying. She wants a relationship but wants you to step up and pursue it. Just keep your goal in mind, and after awhile it will be achieved. Good luck to you.

Thanks for all the advices guys, by the way she looks more receptive toward me, at least that's what I can say from what I've seen this last week.

And your evidence for that assumption is?

Hang out with her with a few friends. Be a bigger part of her life little by little.

Get into conversations with her, tell her a bit about yourself and she'll hopefully open up to you and tell you a little bit about her as well.

Hang out, get to know each other, then see if she wants to commit to a relationship. Tell us what happens after what I said :)

Oh hai :D I forgot to update this topic eheh ^^'

Well, that girl is now my gf, it has been 5 months since we first kissed, yay for me lolz

#Lollikittie: I just had a feeling for that :P

Well, THANK YOU FOR THE LATE UPDATE THEN! XP

Now, go make some porn and spread it, lol.