This one girl
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I'm a romantic , or at least I like to think of myself as one, and I've liked this girl for years. I love her, she is like the female version of me. She likes Star Trek and The Avengers and Kingdom Hearts and so on. I've never said anything because my mom has been making me look at houses ( she wanted to move and we did). I kept telling myself that it was to avoid hurting her but it was really to avoid hurting myself. I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since, but I can't find any closure. All I'm thinking bout is how I regret not saying anything. We had the same friends but we never really talked to each other cause I kinda avoided her but I'll just think about how maybe she liked me and it could have been different. I just can't move on. I'm studying programming and she studying animation and is good with art so maybe we'll cross paths again one day but life isn't as beautiful as manga so....
What can I do to move on?
What can I do to move on?
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
Well first off you neglected to tell us how far away you moved. If she still within arm's reach?
If yes:
Just tell her how you feel. If you get rejected, there's your closure. If not, then you could probably work something out.
If no:
You could still tell her how you feel online. See what she says, and if distance isn't an issue then you could perhaps sort something out to close the gap. LDRs rarely work out though unless they make efforts to meet up reguarly and eventually move in together.
Failing that, the best way to move on is to just keep yourself busy and not talk to her.
If yes:
Just tell her how you feel. If you get rejected, there's your closure. If not, then you could probably work something out.
If no:
You could still tell her how you feel online. See what she says, and if distance isn't an issue then you could perhaps sort something out to close the gap. LDRs rarely work out though unless they make efforts to meet up reguarly and eventually move in together.
Failing that, the best way to move on is to just keep yourself busy and not talk to her.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I'm a romantic , or at least I like to think of myself as one, and I've liked this girl for years. I love her, she is like the female version of me. She likes Star Trek and The Avengers and Kingdom Hearts and so on. I've never said anything because my mom has been making me look at houses ( she wanted to move and we did). I kept telling myself that it was to avoid hurting her but it was really to avoid hurting myself. I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since, but I can't find any closure. All I'm thinking bout is how I regret not saying anything. We had the same friends but we never really talked to each other cause I kinda avoided her but I'll just think about how maybe she liked me and it could have been different. I just can't move on. I'm studying programming and she studying animation and is good with art so maybe we'll cross paths again one day but life isn't as beautiful as manga so.... What can I do to move on?
Heh.
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since......I am assuming that from your post that you are still pretty young, but I will respond none the less.
To put things simply, you can do one of two things:
1) ask her out
2) don't ask her out
Life is NOT a manga and never will be. Life can be hard, crazy, and can suck balls sometimes but we go through it to grow and learn. Though you are unsure about your life and love at the moment, know that it's okay to feel this way. Everyone goes through life with feelings of regret, but this is a big part of growing up. The worst that will happen is you will get rejected if you do anything. You can dream about someday running into this girl again, but there is so much that life has to offer; enjoy it and maybe something better is out there for you!
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_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I'm a romantic , or at least I like to think of myself as one, and I've liked this girl for years. I love her, she is like the female version of me. She likes Star Trek and The Avengers and Kingdom Hearts and so on. I've never said anything because my mom has been making me look at houses ( she wanted to move and we did). I kept telling myself that it was to avoid hurting her but it was really to avoid hurting myself. I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since, but I can't find any closure. All I'm thinking bout is how I regret not saying anything. We had the same friends but we never really talked to each other cause I kinda avoided her but I'll just think about how maybe she liked me and it could have been different. I just can't move on. I'm studying programming and she studying animation and is good with art so maybe we'll cross paths again one day but life isn't as beautiful as manga so.... What can I do to move on?
How innocent! Cute but really base on a girl's perspective... We dont really like a coward, you need to have a backbone! Pull yourself together and say it before its too late
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_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I'm a romantic , or at least I like to think of myself as one, and I've liked this girl for years. I love her, she is like the female version of me. She likes Star Trek and The Avengers and Kingdom Hearts and so on. I've never said anything because my mom has been making me look at houses ( she wanted to move and we did). I kept telling myself that it was to avoid hurting her but it was really to avoid hurting myself. I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since, but I can't find any closure. All I'm thinking bout is how I regret not saying anything. We had the same friends but we never really talked to each other cause I kinda avoided her but I'll just think about how maybe she liked me and it could have been different. I just can't move on. I'm studying programming and she studying animation and is good with art so maybe we'll cross paths again one day but life isn't as beautiful as manga so.... What can I do to move on?
Too young to be on this website baby boy.
You're so young still if your a sophomore...
You will have a lot of crushes/loves so don't worry.
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ErErErgo
"Weiss, You Dumbass!"
I didn't ask the first girl I liked out.
Regretted it for years.
My current girlfriend, I said fuck it and literally just said "We should date." with a smirk.
6 months strong, and I would very gladly marry this woman.
Most girls are not going to flip out and go "With you? Ahahah, no."
Worst that can happen is a simple no :u
Sad, but hardly the end of your emotional stability.
Regretted it for years.
My current girlfriend, I said fuck it and literally just said "We should date." with a smirk.
6 months strong, and I would very gladly marry this woman.
Most girls are not going to flip out and go "With you? Ahahah, no."
Worst that can happen is a simple no :u
Sad, but hardly the end of your emotional stability.
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MilkyBunni wrote...
_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I'm a romantic , or at least I like to think of myself as one, and I've liked this girl for years. I love her, she is like the female version of me. She likes Star Trek and The Avengers and Kingdom Hearts and so on. I've never said anything because my mom has been making me look at houses ( she wanted to move and we did). I kept telling myself that it was to avoid hurting her but it was to avoid hurting myself. I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since, but I can't find any closure. All I'm thinking bout is how I regret not saying anything. We had the same friends but we never really talked to each other cause I kinda avoided her but I'll just think about how maybe she liked me and it could have been different. I just can't move on. I'm studying programming and she studying animation and is good with art so maybe we'll cross paths again one day but life isn't as beautiful as manga so.... What can I do to move on?
Too young to be on this website baby boy.
You're so young still if your a sophomore...
You will have a lot of crushes/loves so don't worry.
I honestly agree with both statements. I feel like I ought to share some advice I ignored when I was in high school though. High school relationships are there as practice, take them serious enough to learn, but don't expect them to last. They exist almost exclusively to be an opening to what you'll experience later. The approach, contact, beginning the relationship, falling in "love" (trust me, high school love isn't the real thing. Adult relationships are much more complex and deeper, the highs and lows are in a different league.), sex, it's a learning experience. Have fun, but remember, this is only a training exercise.
Edit: If you ever want information about some of the things that can go awry, I'm your man. Trust , that's one thing I know quite well.
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MilkyBunni wrote...
_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I'm a romantic , or at least I like to think of myself as one, and I've liked this girl for years. I love her, she is like the female version of me. She likes Star Trek and The Avengers and Kingdom Hearts and so on. I've never said anything because my mom has been making me look at houses ( she wanted to move and we did). I kept telling myself that it was to avoid hurting her but it was really to avoid hurting myself. I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since, but I can't find any closure. All I'm thinking bout is how I regret not saying anything. We had the same friends but we never really talked to each other cause I kinda avoided her but I'll just think about how maybe she liked me and it could have been different. I just can't move on. I'm studying programming and she studying animation and is good with art so maybe we'll cross paths again one day but life isn't as beautiful as manga so.... What can I do to move on?
Too young to be on this website baby boy.
You're so young still if your a sophomore...
You will have a lot of crushes/loves so don't worry.
If I had a dollar for everyone who is under 18 on this site, I'd be richer than Bill Gates
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_[Rawr]_ wrote...
MilkyBunni wrote...
_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I'm a romantic , or at least I like to think of myself as one, and I've liked this girl for years. I love her, she is like the female version of me. She likes Star Trek and The Avengers and Kingdom Hearts and so on. I've never said anything because my mom has been making me look at houses ( she wanted to move and we did). I kept telling myself that it was to avoid hurting her but it was really to avoid hurting myself. I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since, but I can't find any closure. All I'm thinking bout is how I regret not saying anything. We had the same friends but we never really talked to each other cause I kinda avoided her but I'll just think about how maybe she liked me and it could have been different. I just can't move on. I'm studying programming and she studying animation and is good with art so maybe we'll cross paths again one day but life isn't as beautiful as manga so.... What can I do to move on?
Too young to be on this website baby boy.
You're so young still if your a sophomore...
You will have a lot of crushes/loves so don't worry.
If I had a dollar for everyone who is under 18 on this site, I'd be richer than Bill Gates
They have rules for a reason.
Anyway goodluck.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
_[Rawr]_ wrote...
MilkyBunni wrote...
_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I'm a romantic , or at least I like to think of myself as one, and I've liked this girl for years. I love her, she is like the female version of me. She likes Star Trek and The Avengers and Kingdom Hearts and so on. I've never said anything because my mom has been making me look at houses ( she wanted to move and we did). I kept telling myself that it was to avoid hurting her but it was really to avoid hurting myself. I moved half a year after I started high school and its been a year since, but I can't find any closure. All I'm thinking bout is how I regret not saying anything. We had the same friends but we never really talked to each other cause I kinda avoided her but I'll just think about how maybe she liked me and it could have been different. I just can't move on. I'm studying programming and she studying animation and is good with art so maybe we'll cross paths again one day but life isn't as beautiful as manga so.... What can I do to move on?
Too young to be on this website baby boy.
You're so young still if your a sophomore...
You will have a lot of crushes/loves so don't worry.
If I had a dollar for everyone who is under 18 on this site, I'd be richer than Bill Gates
Will always be against the TOS.
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_[Rawr]_ wrote...
I'm a romantic ,Hopeless Romantic I might add.
At least have the decency to tell her how you felt or still feel about her after pushing her away just because you're afraid of getting hurt.
After you've confessed, you will have to man up and accept whatever she has to say.
Failing to do so when you were still hanging out together left you in your current state right now, asking yourself "WHAT COULD'VE BEEN?" .
Good luck dude.
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I know what you mean, the girl I love lives all the way in Romania and Im american, she doesn't even want to be with me unless I can get the money to get us a place together. but I say you should try to contact her on facebook or have a friend get her number for you, maybe one day you can go back and see her