Tips on nipple stimulation?

As the topic entails, I need some help. My Girlfriend laid it to me straight the other day that i am just horrible at nipple play. T.T Any tips or suggestion from you guys?

Did she mention what you were particularly bad at? Are you too gentle, too rough? Aimless with your touching? In order to know what sorts of advice I should give you, I need to know where your problem lies. Also, in general, open and clear communication about these kinds of things is a great habit to get into. So, don't feel too bad about this so-called criticism.

It's really dependent of the girl and her likes. Shit like lightly licking, biting and tweaking do it for some. Other need s&m play like nipple clamps and needles and shit like that. I say ask her want she likes and if she doesn't know.. use a feather and go with a light touch. Watch her eyes. When she get a orgasm her eyes will dilute and contract. You can't please her if she doesn't know what she needs. Your not a mind reader... also bite her.

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were you being too rough? too soft? if she just said you were bad then my advice would be to talk to her about it and ask her what she wants?

Then i guess i'll talk to her tonight about it. Like what part in particular i'm bad at. I'll let you guys know if we work it out and if i need help still.

If she doesn't know/ doesn't tell you. Just experiment. Grope softly, Tweak her nipples, tug at them (softly) and maybe give them a soft flick for lols. See what happens. Then, go in for a lick/ suck. see how she reacts. Experiment with slow licking, sucking, soft bite/ nibble, hard sucking, fast licking, etc.
Probably easiest to just experiment and find what she likes the most.

And with that, Good luck :D

Need more details about what the problem actually is, otherwise all I can say is to get her to go into more detail about what you're doing wrong, then after that all it takes is practice as it varies from girl to girl.

You could try start off by gently running your hands over her boobs and let instinct do the rest... which is probably best done if you've got a hardon. If she reacts positively to it (small under-the-breath moan or quickening of her breath, for example) you're doing it right. If she doesn't react at all, try something else. If you're doing it from behind, you could also try kissing her neck. If her neck's a turnon spot, win win. Basically just keep practising.

Kind of relevant, but (apparently) I made a girl cum from nipple play, and another fell asleep from a massage she wouldn't let me stop doing because it was "really relaxing". I was like this the entire time, both times:

I think you've have probably gotten the message by now , but i'll repeat it anyways. She needs to tell you what exactly you are doing bad for you to improve.



I thought that only happened in hentai

I did too, plus I'm not sure how legit her claim was. That's why I said apparently xD

Mhmm you better ask her what she likes~ Some girls like it if you lick or suck their nipples, pinching them gently or even poking is sometimes good enough~

try cupping with a spoon and licking the bottom of the spoon and placing it on the nipple as youre rotating the spoon clockwise or vice versa or maybe in the shower with some soap but licking,sucking,some slow rubbing with the finger tip on the nipple itself instead of the areola maybe some whip cream would help

hopefully the advice works out

You gotta ask her what she wants.

Personally, my girlfriend loves it when I suck on them, lightly biting on them, and tugging, while pulling on the other. Also, she enjoys it when I flick it with my tongue. She also liked it a little rough.

Put an ice cube in your mouth, the cold can be exciting and different.

Since people have bumped the thread, how did you go? did you find something she enjoyed?

Geez. I almost forgot about this, I've been so busy. Everything worked out fine. I took some of the ideas you guys put up and it made things much better. I thank you all so much for the help and the advice. :D

Damn! I was gonna suggest ice cubes! Oh, well, can't win them all.

Personally I go nuts when my guy sucks hard and/or licks really fast.
Ohhh and when he gets both nipples at once....THAT. is amazing.

Work out your tongue enough and maybe she'll be able to cum purely from nipple stimulation.
Feels amazing, man. :D

Rofl! this made me day xD.

Ice Cubes make dem nips hard.

This is all the truths. Long for IB mod