Two friends, advice?
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                        Today, I met my long lost friends,Ashley and Recce. Before we split apart, there was this girl named "Hayley". "Hayley" was already taken, but "Hayley" wanted to be with Recce. "Hayley" did EVERYTHING to try and be with him. From telling lies from Ashley was meeting someone, to Ashley about the fact she fucked this girl Chris and got pregnant. Everyone believed her. And I did too, but I was stupid. I apologized to them a million times and told them what "Hayley" said to me and me only. But, Ashley told me the truth about "Hayley". "Hayley" pretended to be her age that she told us. Her real age was thirteen. "Hayley"'s true name wasn't known, so we never figured it out. But all we know is that we ALL hate her. Jasper and I discussed about it, and I sadly did say some vile and menial things about Ashley, and he.fucking.told.her. I didn't WANT him to tell her and said to him,"If you tell her I said those things, I will make your life hell." And, I did. I tagged "Faggot" on his locker and made his life hell. But, the thing is, he did the same, but I took the blame. 
"Hayley" is a virtual person that told everyone the lies of Ashley and Recce, and claimed to be a person that we all knew. We still didn't figure that out yet.
But, I want to know how I can make it up with Ashley and Recce. I apologized a million times.
                "Hayley" is a virtual person that told everyone the lies of Ashley and Recce, and claimed to be a person that we all knew. We still didn't figure that out yet.
But, I want to know how I can make it up with Ashley and Recce. I apologized a million times.
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                        Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
What's been done can't be undone, son.No duh, but is there a way I can actually become friends with them again?
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                        animefreak_usa
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                        From how your talking im thinking high school is where this came from... just talk to them.  Depending on their mood and feelings about the stuff that happen there a 50/50 chance that it long ago history to them or their still mad.  There nothing you can do about the past, just move on the the future and see where it takes you.                    
                
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                        I would give it some time first... they probably need to some space.  After a while, see if you can bring up the topic, gingerly.  Something like this has happened to me before, and from my experience, things will be different.  Don't loose hope though.  Hopefully the people here can give you better advice then I can.                    
                
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                        Lughost
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                        Well, if they don't want to make up there's not all that mch you can do. 
Just try being friendly towards them and hopefully over times things will get better. Pretty much nothing you could do would generate immediate results, at least from the way I understand what's going on.
                Just try being friendly towards them and hopefully over times things will get better. Pretty much nothing you could do would generate immediate results, at least from the way I understand what's going on.
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                        Dude, your story was so confusing. So Ashley is a guy, Haylay is a girl and Reece is a girl? Just making sure.
Btw. So what do u need advice on anyways? Seems like an apology would do the trick. If they dont accept apologies, then they arent worth the time. Unless its something that is truly backstabbing, which in this case, it doesnt seem to be.
                Btw. So what do u need advice on anyways? Seems like an apology would do the trick. If they dont accept apologies, then they arent worth the time. Unless its something that is truly backstabbing, which in this case, it doesnt seem to be.
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                        DeathPlox wrote...
Dude, your story was so confusing. So Ashley is a guy, Haylay is a girl and Reece is a girl? Just making sure.Btw. So what do u need advice on anyways? Seems like an apology would do the trick. If they dont accept apologies, then they arent worth the time. Unless its something that is truly backstabbing, which in this case, it doesnt seem to be.
..Ashley's a girl, Recce is the dude. "Hayley" is the female that caused all of my relationships with my friends (including Recce and Ashley) to fall apart.
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                        Tegumi
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                        So a thirteen-year-old girl had the tenacity and cunning to successfully drive a wedge between your group of friends? Or perhaps there was another reason you were duped so easily?                    
                
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                        hmmm.. like tegumi said, a thirteen yrs old messing with 18+ yrs group and win?
Hmmmmmmmmmmm!?
OT: make a new friends! The world is vast and full of surprise out there young lady..
                Hmmmmmmmmmmm!?
OT: make a new friends! The world is vast and full of surprise out there young lady..
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                        Takerial
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                        If you were willing to believe all these things told to you and were willing to go that far with all these people.
Pretty much, you're just fucked. And you probably aren't deserving of the friendship.
                Pretty much, you're just fucked. And you probably aren't deserving of the friendship.
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                        Tegumi wrote...
So a thirteen-year-old girl had the tenacity and cunning to successfully drive a wedge between your group of friends?Fucking lolis man, as manipulative as they are cute.
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                        Kalistean wrote...
If you were willing to believe all these things told to you and were willing to go that far with all these people.Pretty much, you're just fucked. And you probably aren't deserving of the friendship.
Dude, eveyrone else made up, and people were worse than me. In fact, I was the one unsure about EVERYTHING. And there was even people who posted it everywhere, and they were forgiven. I was the closest to them, I know I backstabbed them, but the past is the past and I just want to become friends with them again.
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                        Takerial
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                Moki wrote...
Kalistean wrote...
If you were willing to believe all these things told to you and were willing to go that far with all these people.Pretty much, you're just fucked. And you probably aren't deserving of the friendship.
Dude, eveyrone else made up, and people were worse than me. In fact, I was the one unsure about EVERYTHING. And there was even people who posted it everywhere, and they were forgiven. I was the closest to them, I know I backstabbed them, but the past is the past and I just want to become friends with them again.
The past and decisions are what makes you everything you are. You can't just ignore they happened like people seem to think.
If you want to be friends with them, then you need to show them you are worthy of being that friend now.
Nothing is instantaneous.
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                        I have only read the first 3-4 lines, but I noticed that this would be excellent material for a soap-opera. As a screenwriter you could earn a lot of money!                    
                
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                        Takerial
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                Tachyon wrote...
I have only read the first 3-4 lines, but I noticed that this would be excellent material for a soap-opera. As a screenwriter you could earn a lot of money!  Too bad she can't write.
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                        Tachyon wrote...
I have only read the first 3-4 lines, but I noticed that this would be excellent material for a soap-opera. As a screenwriter you could earn a lot of money!  ...*facedesks*
@Kali I'm only literate at college.
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                        Takerial
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                Moki wrote...
Tachyon wrote...
I have only read the first 3-4 lines, but I noticed that this would be excellent material for a soap-opera. As a screenwriter you could earn a lot of money!  ...*facedesks*
@Kali I'm only literate at college.
You can only read at college? Then how are you understanding what I'm typing?
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                        things like this happened a lot.. in this case you're just the one who got the bad luck..
Let's put aside the yadaa yadaa, your fault is saying vile and mean things about other (in this case ashley as your friend), if the situation is reversed and you became the one who being talked about, is it worth to having a friend that talking like that about yourself? Such things which came out from the closest one is much hurter..
Well if you still want to become their friend again, it takes time just like others said..
                Let's put aside the yadaa yadaa, your fault is saying vile and mean things about other (in this case ashley as your friend), if the situation is reversed and you became the one who being talked about, is it worth to having a friend that talking like that about yourself? Such things which came out from the closest one is much hurter..
Well if you still want to become their friend again, it takes time just like others said..
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                        Moki wrote...
 "Hayley" pretended to be her age that she told us. Her real age was thirteen. "Hayley"'s true name wasn't known, so we never figured it out.Moki wrote...
"Hayley" is a virtual person [...] and claimed to be a person that we all knew. We still didn't figure that out yet. Clairification please.