Welp...
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Well. After a while things had to come with an end with her. Any ways you people get over loved ones that just didn't feel the same way and cut of ties? Sure could use some help. Just talking to people helps a bit but this is the last place to turn to.
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Man up and move on. As they say; "Time heals all wounds", but up until then you'll just have to learn to live with it.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
If you're not talking to her you'll have no problems moving on. Evidently the bitch wasn't worth your time.
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The best thing to do for a heart choking on unrequited love is to make peace with the fact that your love is only as good as how much is returned. Since she didn't return any, any time or emotion is wasted on her. It'd be different if she just wanted to be friends, but she shut you out completely... People like that are usually shallow or immature. In short; fuck her.
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kill em with kindness bro. You know what you bring to the table. You know how great and awesome of a person you are. Do NOT let a woman dictate that. Just do you be happy and continue on the path you were on. We can NOT control anyone for what they are feeling. If it is meant to be it will come back to you and then it is us to you to make that choice on giving the second chance or not. Otherwise just be happy and enjoy your life man.
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Thanks guys. I've been putting everything you all have said in my mind and you are all right. I am happy without her. I gave up a lot for her. So there is no need for me to waste my time on someone who's not willing to grow up and do the same.
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Demon343 wrote...
Well. After a while things had to come with an end with her. Any ways you people get over loved ones that just didn't feel the same way and cut of ties? Sure could use some help. Just talking to people helps a bit but this is the last place to turn to. Well..in my experience, and I use that term lightly, I generally just end up not talking to said person for a while and eventually just falling out of contact.
And there really was only one exception where I remained friends because that girl was the only one who I could talk to for a while since we share the same hobbies/likes which is pretty rare (games mostly).
Just take a breather and move on a bit. It is difficult, something I know a bit too well. But just trying to move on and relate to somebody else works.
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セナリオ wrote...
Demon343 wrote...
Well. After a while things had to come with an end with her. Any ways you people get over loved ones that just didn't feel the same way and cut of ties? Sure could use some help. Just talking to people helps a bit but this is the last place to turn to. Well..in my experience, and I use that term lightly, I generally just end up not talking to said person for a while and eventually just falling out of contact.
And there really was only one exception where I remained friends because that girl was the only one who I could talk to for a while since we share the same hobbies/likes which is pretty rare (games mostly).
Just take a breather and move on a bit. It is difficult, something I know a bit too well. But just trying to move on and relate to somebody else works.
Kinda like what i'm doing at the moment. This has happened way too many times on my part, but this time is much easier because all the other times the girls still wanted to be friends. She ended it, and cut of most ties. I did the rest. As of now. I'm going through more of a phase of being alone more than anything. I do the the occasional feeling down that she just never returned how i felt, or just outright hating her. But it's not often and will never get out of hand. Anyone else like that?
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try to see the faults in her and make her feel shitty about it, then you'll realize how guilty she is and you'll feel a lot better moving on.
Other than that, talk it out so you both can move on, no sense in leaving a few marks in the past, gotta fix that shit and move on.
Other than that, talk it out so you both can move on, no sense in leaving a few marks in the past, gotta fix that shit and move on.
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Go crazy dude. Go to the bar, drink until you nearly pass out, have a friend pour you into a cab, call in sick the next day and enjoy yourself. If you're a depressing drunk though, do something that makes you happy, whatever it is. You probably lived a fifth of your life already, and the last fifth isn't that much fun (who wants to be eighty? I'd rather be eighty than dead, but nobody is excited about turning eighty.) So you've got 3/5 of your life (probably, so try to make the most of it. I'm not, so really, if you want disregard this, but I'd rather have someone else enjoy life. So get out there, do things that make you smile. Forget that bitch man. Have fun, do something ridiculous, enjoy the experience of living man.
Edit: I realize that it's riddled with grammatical flaws and punctuation errors, but working with my uncooperative phone is testing my patience, so consider this my correction on it.
Edit: I realize that it's riddled with grammatical flaws and punctuation errors, but working with my uncooperative phone is testing my patience, so consider this my correction on it.
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Please_don't_ban_me wrote...
Go crazy dude. Go to the bar, drink until you nearly pass out, have a friend pour you into a cab, call in sick the next day and enjoy yourself. If you're a depressing drunk though, do something that makes you happy, whatever it is. You probably lived a fifth of your life already, and the last fifth isn't that much fun (who wants to be eighty? I'd rather be eighty than dead, but nobody is excited about turning eighty.) So you've got 3/5 of your life (probably, so try to make the most of it. I'm not, so really, if you want disregard this, but I'd rather have someone else enjoy life. So get out there, do things that make you smile. Forget that bitch man. Have fun, do something ridiculous, enjoy the experience of living man.Edit: I realize that it's riddled with grammatical flaws and punctuation errors, but working with my uncooperative phone is testing my patience, so consider this my correction on it.
I don't care how many error's where in that. Made me feel better. Although i can't quite go out to drink just yet, (legally that is) I have been enjoying myself often and it has come to my knowledge that she is so far down in the dumps that i don't even care. But thank you.